In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with 100xLife coach and stay at home strategist, Izabella Boyd, and goes right after a quiet lie in the church: that staying home is “less than” and that motherhood is a holding pattern until your “real calling” shows up.

Izabella shares how 15 years of homeschooling a son with learning challenges became her training ground for leadership, not her sideline. She walks through how the Master’s Program, TMPx, and the 100xLife challenge helped her see that discipling her family at the table is not a consolation prize, it is kingdom work. Then she tells the truth about resentment, hidden idolatry in marriage, and how the Words of Jesus on “deny yourself” exposed her coping habits with food, shopping, and fantasy expectations of her husband.

If you are a stay at home mom who secretly thinks you are “just” anything, or a husband who has quietly treated your wife’s role as small, this episode will confront you. It will push you to find your value in Jesus instead of in your kids, your career, or your spouse, and to treat the home as a serious field for the Great Commission.

You will hear:

• Why “I am just a stay at home mom” is an agreement with a lie, not humility
• How 15 years of homeschooling became Izabella’s boot camp for her future coaching business
• The difference between “my kids are my purpose” and “my kids are my training ground”
• How undervaluing your own role quickly turns into quietly undermining your husband
• The painful moment Izabella realized she was using Bible verses against her spouse
• What the 100xLife word “Deny Yourself” exposed in her: resentment, overeating, shopping, and a flesh led life
• Why coaching is often the missing piece for Christian women who feel stuck between home and marketplace
• How Izabella is building “Your Calling Awaits” to help stay at home women step into the Great Commission, not just survive the empty nest

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where have I agreed with the lie that my role is small, and where am I expecting my spouse to give me what only You can give.

Journal Prompt
If you are a stay at home woman:
Write out the sentence, “I am just a…” then finish it honestly.
Now cross it out and rewrite it with Jesus. Describe your home as a training ground for the calling He is shaping in you, including one specific way you will treat today as kingdom work.

If you are a husband:
Write down three costly, concrete ways your wife carries your family. Then ask Jesus how He wants you to honor and support that calling this week.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement
🌐 Explore Izabella’s coaching for stay at home women → https://yourcallingawaits.com

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Why January 2 matters for your influence
02:00 Izabella’s story and 15 years of homeschooling
07:00 “Stay at home,” “marketplace,” or both
10:30 “Just a mom” and the quiet devaluing of home
19:30 How “Deny Yourself” exposed hidden idols
31:00 Your Calling Awaits and the Great Commission from home
36:00 Why serious Jesus followers need coaches, not just sermons
40:00 Final encouragement for couples, coaches, and stay at home women ready to move

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton goes straight at your holiday mindset and calls out the passive Christian approach to Thanksgiving and Christmas. No more “just survive your relatives.” No more blaming your reactions on everyone else.

Rob shows how gratitude is not a November mood. It is repentance in action, a spiritual weapon, and a very real way to retrain your brain before you walk into the room that usually triggers you.

Instead of letting childhood wounds and old stories run the table again, Rob walks through how gratitude changes your physiology, your emotions, and your spiritual posture. Then he gives four practical tools that will either bring peace into your home or reveal how much you still cling to offense.

You will hear:

• Why gratitude is a core tool of repentance
• How complaint quietly disciples you into stress, anxiety, and bad reactions
• Why “God, help me endure my family” is the wrong prayer
• How gratitude strengthens your body and calms your nervous system
• What it means to let your spirit lead instead of your flesh
• Four ways to practice gratitude: meditation, journaling, texts, and spoken words
• How to choose thankfulness even when the person never apologizes or receives it well
• A simple mindset shift that moves you from victim to servant in the room

This episode will confront the part of you that still enjoys retelling your family pain but refuses to repent. It will push you to actually follow Jesus with your reactions this year, not just your theology.

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where am I choosing complaint and self-protection with my family instead of gratitude and trust in You.

Journal Prompt

• Pick one trigger moment you already know is coming.
• Write the old script. Then write the new script with Jesus, grounded in gratitude.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Holidays Expose Your Mindset
03:00 Gratitude as Spiritual Warfare
10:00 How Gratitude Rewires You
16:00 Four Practices That Shift Everything
26:00 Walk In as a Servant, Not a Victim

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob and Nancy Dayton get brutally honest about family, triggers, and what it actually looks like to follow Jesus in the middle of holiday chaos, not just sing about Him over pie.

As Thanksgiving and Christmas close in, they refuse the usual “just survive your relatives” Christian talk. Instead, they invite you into the “family gym,” where old childhood programming collides with the words of Jesus and you have a choice. Stay triggered and offended, or let Jesus retrain your reactions in real time.

This episode pulls apart the stories, fantasies, and wounds you carry into family rooms and shows how they are discipling you more than you think. Rob and Nancy expose their own triggers, adoption wounds, and marriage patterns, then walk through how Jesus has led them into real healing, not churchy pretending.

You will hear:

• How your childhood “programming” still runs the room at every gathering
• Rob’s laundry room story and his lifelong fight with worth and attention
• Nancy’s adoption and abandonment journey and how God rewrote it
• How fantasy and “what if” stories can either poison you or transform you
• A simple sentence Nancy used to stop running and start communicating anger
• Why so many Christians are numb to conviction and stuck lukewarm
• How to walk into the holidays as a servant, not a victim keeping score
• A simple way to turn conflict into growth instead of another family blowup

This conversation will confront your inner “nice Christian” who avoids conflict but still holds grudges. It will push you to stop blaming your family, own your triggers, and walk into the holidays as someone who actually follows Jesus with your reactions, not just with your theology.

👉 Reflect and Apply
 Jesus, where am I still letting old triggers run the show instead of your love when I am with my family?

Journal Prompt
Pick one holiday moment that usually sets you off.

1. Write the “old script” in detail. What they say, what you think, how you react, how it ends.
2. Then write a “new script” with Jesus. Same moment, but you walk in secure, unoffended, and ready to serve with no payback.

Ask Him: What mindset do you want me to practice this year in that exact situation?

Resources & Links

📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
 00:00 Welcome and why family is a “gym” for your soul
 03:56 Moving from Santa Barbara to Bend and following Jesus with money and lifestyle
 12:18 Nancy’s family story, adoption, and messy holiday dynamics
 17:46 Rob’s triggers around worth and being “at the table”
 24:00 How fantasy, mindset, and imagination shape your response to family
 39:42 Practical holiday strategy in the kitchen and in conflict
 43:10 Questions, curiosity, and how to de-escalate instead of explode
 47:00 Preview of next week on gratitude and finishing the holiday series

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton unpacks the mindset needed to finish 2025 well with joy, peace, and freedom no matter what chaos the holidays bring.

As Thanksgiving and Christmas approach, Rob challenges listeners to step into the final months of the year with intentionality and repentance. He explains how changing the way you think changes the way you show up.

This episode dives deep into how our thoughts shape our reality, how Jesus calls us to renew our minds, and how reframing your mindset can transform even the toughest family dynamics. It is a call to stop letting the past dictate your future and start designing a year-end filled with love, gratitude, and peace.

You’ll hear:

• Why your mindset determines how you show up in every room — from family gatherings to the grocery store
• How repentance actually means rethinking your thinking
• Why your perception of the world predicts your behavior
• The journal exercise Rob uses to rewrite your holiday “script” before it happens
• How to partner with Jesus to build new, love-filled mindsets
• The difference between being “religious” and actually being transformed
• Four powerful mindset shifts to walk in forgiveness, gratitude, and joy this season

This conversation will shake up your assumptions about family, faith, and the holidays — and help you step into 2026 with a renewed mind and a heart fully aligned with Jesus.

👉 Reflect & Apply:
Jesus, what mindset do You want to renew in me as this year comes to an end?

Journal Prompt

Write from the future as if it’s New Year’s Eve 2025, describing why these last two months were the most peaceful, joy-filled, and connected season you’ve ever had. Then ask Jesus: What mindsets made this possible?

Resources & Links

📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Finishing Well for 2025

01:22 Mindset for Family Gatherings

06:08 Creating a Vision for the Holiday Season

11:50 Establishing Transformative Mindsets

16:21 Celebrating the Vision and Mindsets

18:29 100xLife Podcast Outro.mp4

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton celebrates the 100th episode by sitting down with three 100xLife Coaches — Tom Lebens, Chris Vester, and Daniel Girdler — to talk about what happens when people stop just learning about Jesus and start following Him.

This milestone conversation digs into the real transformation that comes when faith becomes practice, when discipleship moves out of church walls, and when men decide to lead with honesty, intimacy, and obedience.

From church leadership to personal transformation, these stories show what it looks like when ordinary believers become catalysts for revival: in their homes, churches, and communities.

You’ll hear:

• Why 100xLife Coaching isn’t just for pastors (and how anyone can lead)
• How daily obedience builds real transformation
• What “dwelling in Jesus” actually looks like in daily life
• The difference between studying the Bible and living it
• Why intimacy and transparency are essential for men of faith
• How churches can reclaim discipleship without burning out pastors
• What it means to treat following Jesus like a gym — where strength comes through struggle

This episode will challenge your comfort, call out complacency, and remind you that the abundant life Jesus promised only comes through action.

👉 Listen in and reflect:
Jesus, where am I studying about You instead of following You?

Resources & Links

📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Celebrating the 100th Episode
02:20 Becoming a 100X Live Coach
03:59 Overcoming Fears in Leadership
05:20 Transformative Power of 100X Life
07:31 The Importance of Daily Discipleship
09:29 Shifting Leadership Mindsets
11:10 Empowering Church Communities
13:43 The Call to Follow Jesus
14:56 Application Over Knowledge
17:50 The Role of Intimacy in Discipleship
20:28 Dwelling in the Presence of God
21:27 Intimacy and Vulnerability in Church
24:23 The Role of Pastors in Community
26:47 Building Trust and Intimacy
28:26 Creating a Culture of Honesty
31:09 The Holy Spirit's Role in Leadership
33:19 Creating Your Legacy Book
34:18 The Gym Experience of Following Jesus
35:24 Pruning for Growth
37:43 Lightening the Load
38:47 Agency in Following Jesus
40:41 Transforming Mindsets
42:34 Preparing for the 100X Life Challenge
46:22 Embracing the Journey
48:29 Enlightened Self-Interest
49:51 Encouragement in Community
52:00 Moments of Transformation

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton shares insights from an unexpected Sunday message, delivered at a leadership conference.

While attending the International City Managers Association in Tampa Bay, Rob sat in on a talk by Harvard professor Arthur Brooks about happiness. But this wasn’t just another motivational lecture. It was a data-backed reminder of one of Jesus’ hardest commands: Love your enemies.

Rob breaks down why contempt, not anger, is what’s poisoning our families, friendships, and nation, and how choosing love literally rewires your brain for peace. From neuroscience to Scripture, this conversation connects faith, science, and practice in a way that leaves no room for shallow Christianity.

You’ll hear:

• Why contempt destroys marriages, communities, and nations
• The difference between anger and contempt (and why one is deadlier)
• How loving your enemies literally rewires your brain for peace
• The mindset shift that breaks polarization and restores compassion
• How pretending to love someone can actually train your heart to mean it
• A simple practice to replace contempt with gratitude and love
• Why Jesus’ commands are not moral ideals but practical keys to happiness

This one will push you to face what’s really in your heart, and to live a version of faith that looks like love in motion.

👉 Listen in and reflect:
 Jesus, who am I still holding contempt for, and how do you see them?

Resources & Links:
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Conference and Arthur Brooks
03:33 The Science of Happiness and Loving Your Enemies
06:06 Contempt: The Root of Division
08:36 Practicing Love and Wholeheartedness
11:24 Strategies for Loving Your Enemies
13:51 First Impressions and Communication of Love
16:48 Reflection and Journal Prompts
17:47 100xLife Podcast Outro.mp4

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with Chris and his son Ryne to talk about what happens when two generations decide to take the words of Jesus seriously, and actually live them out.

Most believers talk about legacy, but few live it. Chris and Ryne’s story is proof that when obedience becomes action, transformation follows, not just for you, but for everyone watching your life.

From building trust and faith in the middle of daily life, to discovering how the parable of the sower plays out in real time, this conversation will challenge the way you see your walk with God and the influence you have on your family.

You’ll hear:

• How a father and son built spiritual muscle through obedience
• What it looks like to strengthen your “obedience muscle” one day at a time
• Why gratitude and trust can rewrite your story
• How forgiveness becomes freedom when practiced in real time
• The mindset shift that turns worry into peace and faith into action
• Why transformation starts with one simple question: “Am I actually living what Jesus said?”

This episode will leave you inspired to step into a deeper kind of following—the kind that multiplies into legacy.

👉 Listen in and reflect:
Jesus, what would it look like for me to go all in?

Resources & Links:
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to 100xLife and the Father-Son Dynamic
02:03 Chris and Ryne: Personal Backgrounds and Family Dynamics
06:33 Characterizing the Father-Son Relationship
10:04 The Impact of 100xLife on Their Journey
11:17 Discovering 100xLife: A Shared Experience
12:56 Transformations and Testimonies from the Challenge
14:16 The Parable of the Sower: Understanding and Application
18:16 Strengthening the Obedience Muscle
25:58 Putting Words into Practice: The Journey Continues
26:21 Resilience in the Face of Trials
27:50 Embracing Childlike Faith
29:30 The Power of Consistency
30:45 Transforming Worry into Trust
35:09 Mindset Shifts and the Placebo Effect
43:14 Finding Joy in Trials
46:02 Encouragement for the Journey

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with coach Jeff Gerhardt to talk about why so many believers stay stuck and what it really means to align mindset with vision.

Most of us try to change by doing more: new habits, new strategies, new plans. But real transformation doesn’t start with doing. It starts with being.

From a meta-performance training in Atlanta, Rob and Jeff unpack how vision, belief, and mindset all work together to create real change and why we need to start thinking far bigger than we ever have before.

You’ll hear:

• Why “mindset before skillset” might be the most important phrase you learn this year
• How a small vision keeps you cycling through the same patterns
• The stories we tell ourselves that quietly sabotage our growth
• Why gratitude shifted Rob’s mindset after leaving their dream home in Santa Barbara
• How failure can become training ground instead of proof you’re disqualified

This isn’t about stacking more strategies. It’s about transforming the way you think, so you can finally live out what Jesus already said is possible.

👉 Listen in and reflect:
Holy Spirit, what mindset do I need to fully believe the vision You’ve given me?

Resources & Links:
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters

00:00 Exploring MetaPerformance and Personal Growth
03:58 The Role of Vision in Achieving Goals
06:39 Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs
09:02 The Power of Belief and Mindset
11:44 Transforming Thoughts into Action
14:29 The Journey of Personal Transformation
20:08 Commitment to Self and Adaptability
23:09 Transforming Mindsets Through Gratitude
27:04 The Power of Community and Accountability
28:14 Understanding Sin and Growth
30:41 Embracing the Process of Commitment
33:11 Loving the Gap Between Goals and Reality
36:50 Belief as a Foundation for Transformation
39:42 Setting the Mindset for Vision
40:10 Seeking Guidance for Personal Growth
40:38 Cultivating the Right Mindset

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton unpacks one of the most transformational words of Jesus: “Love others as I have loved you.”

It’s a command that sounds simple but cuts straight to the heart of how we see ourselves. Because if we don’t love ourselves the way Jesus does, we’ll end up loving others from a broken reflection.

Through a story about a volatile electrician named Jim (and a lesson years in the making) Rob shares how seeing ourselves and others through Jesus’ eyes leads to true transformation.

You’ll hear:

• Why Jesus redefined “love your neighbor as yourself” in John 13
• How negative self-talk keeps you from living in His love
• The link between forgiveness, grace, and renewed thinking
• Why transformation begins with how you see yourself, not others
• A daily practice to retrain your thoughts to agree with God’s truth

This isn’t about trying harder to love people. It’s about renewing your mind until you see yourself—and everyone else—the way Jesus does.

👉 Listen in and reflect:
Holy Spirit, what thought do I believe about myself that doesn’t align with Your love?

Resources & Links:
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge 

In today’s episode of the 100x Life Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with Jeff Gerhardt, CEO of The Master’s Program and founder of Centix, to talk about the word of Jesus that cannot be ignored in this season: forgiveness.

From the cultural moment of Erica Kirk forgiving her husband’s killer to Jeff’s piercing reminder that “unforgiveness is like swallowing poison and hoping the other person dies,” this conversation points us back to the way of Jesus in a divided world.

You’ll hear:

• Why forgiveness is the word of Jesus for this season
• How unforgiveness robs you of authority and fuels the enemy’s work
• Why personal forgiveness differs from justice, and how both matter
• What Erica Kirk’s public act of forgiveness reveals about living like Jesus
• A devotional practice from Psalm 139:23–24 to begin your own forgiveness work

This is not theory—it’s the command of Jesus, and it will define what comes next for the church.

👉 Listen in, reflect on Psalm 139, and ask: “Lord, who am I holding in contempt, and how can I release them?”

Resources & Links:
📘 Read 100x Life → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge