In today’s episode, Rob Dayton challenges a core issue in modern Christianity. Most believers want change without changing how they think.

As Day 11 of the 62 Day Challenge continues, Rob explains why Jesus begins with repent and believe. Repentance is not about shame. It is about changing your mindset so you can actually follow Him.

Rob unpacks how focus shapes reality. We are not disturbed by what happens to us. We are disturbed by the meaning we attach to it. The stories we rehearse determine our emotions, reactions, and ability to love.

Jesus does not call us to admire His words. He calls us to live them. Mindset is where obedience either starts or stalls.

You will hear:

• Why mindset determines whether you follow Jesus or just agree with Him
• How focus creates your emotional and spiritual reality
• Why judgment and unforgiveness poison your own life first
• How abiding in the words of Jesus reshapes the mind

Journal Prompt

“What is my dominant focus right now?”
“What story am I telling myself that is shaping my reactions?”

Resources and Links

📘 100xLife Book → https://100xlife.com

📱 Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge Waitlist

🙌 https://100xlife.com/challenge

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the 100X Life Challenge
03:17 Mindset and Its Importance
05:55 The Power of Focus
08:15 Creating a Mindset Through Jesus
10:48 Practical Steps for Mindset Development

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton dives deep into the role of mindset in actually following Jesus, not just believing in Him.

As the 62 Day Challenge continues, Rob explains why transformation always begins in the mind and why Jesus starts His ministry with the command to repent and believe. Repentance is not about feeling bad. It is about changing the way you think.

Rob unpacks how our thoughts shape our emotions, reactions, and behaviors, often without us realizing it. He challenges listeners to examine the stories they are telling themselves about people, adversity, and even God. Those stories quietly determine whether we live offended, fearful, and reactive, or grounded, peaceful, and loving.

This episode confronts a core issue in modern Christianity. Many believers want outward obedience without inward renewal. Jesus demands the opposite. If you want the abundant life He promises, your mindset has to be rebuilt around His truth.

You will hear:

• Why mindset determines whether you can live the words of Jesus
• What repentance actually means and why Jesus starts there
• How thoughts program emotions and automatic reactions
• Why most offense, worry, and fear are mindset issues
• How attaching new meaning can create an unoffendable heart
• Why believing comes before seeing in the Kingdom
• How an eternal mindset reshapes adversity, leadership, and love

Journal Prompt
Journal from the Holy Spirit in the first person.

1. “Reveal a story I am telling myself that is poisoning my ability to love.”
2. “What new story, based on Your truth, do You want me to tell myself instead?”

Resources and Links
📘 100xLife Book → https://100xlife.com
📱 Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Churches → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton marks the one year anniversary of the show by returning to a core question. Why do the 100xLife Challenge at all?

Using a bold metaphor, Rob asks listeners to imagine Christianity as something that must be practiced, not just learned. He explains what it actually means to “win” at following Jesus and why most believers never train for it.

This episode reframes spiritual growth around multiplication, self control, and intentional practice. Rob explains how the 62 Day Challenge exists to train the mind, body, and spirit to live the words of Jesus in real life.

You will hear:

• What Jesus means by multiplying His words
• Four ways Christians “win” in the Kingdom
• Why learning is not the same as practicing
• How self control fuels real transformation
• Why the 62 Day Challenge is a repentance strategy

Journal Prompts - Journal from Jesus in the first person.
1. “Show me where you have grown the most in following Me.”

2. “What growth strategy am I asking you to deploy in 2026?”

Resources and Links
📘 100xLife Book → https://100xlife.com
📱 Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Churches → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Celebrating One Year of 100xLife Podcast
02:47 Understanding the 62 Day Challenge
05:39 Winning in Christianity: The Game Metaphor
11:45 Practicing Christianity: The 100 X Life Challenge
16:11 Self-Control and Spiritual Growth
22:12 Hearing God's Voice and Transformation
27:47 Preparing for the 62 Day Challenge

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton reframes Christmas around one core truth. Emmanuel. God with us.

This episode challenges the idea that Christmas is about sentiment or tradition. Rob explains how the arrival of Jesus marks a new covenant where God chooses to dwell inside us, not based on performance, but by design.

You will hear why Jesus is the “mindset God,” how repentance means changing the way we think, and how conscious awareness of God’s presence reshapes behavior, prayer, and relationships. The Christmas mindset, Rob argues, is the cure for the lie of aloneness.

You will hear:

• Why Emmanuel is the core Christmas mindset
• What repentance actually means according to Jesus
• How mindset produces behaviors of love
• Why the lie of aloneness is so destructive
• Practical ways to live aware of God with us

👉 Reflect and Apply
 Jesus, where am I still living like I am alone.

Journal Prompt
Journal from Jesus in the first person.
“Teach me about Your name, Emmanuel. Why was it worth coming so You could dwell in me.”

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Welcome and Christmas focus
00:37 Emmanuel and the new covenant
09:40 Jesus and mindset transformation
22:30 Practicing God with us
38:10 Journal prompt and closing

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with Ron and Cathy Midyett to talk about what actually changes in a marriage when faith stops being private and starts being practiced together.

This is not a polished “Christian marriage” conversation. It is an honest look at what happens when two people move beyond spiritual theory and begin following the words of Jesus side by side. From daily discipline and mindset to grief, loss, and family pressure, Ron and Cathy share how shared obedience reshaped the way they relate to God and to each other.

They describe how practicing faith together created shared language, deeper intimacy, and new ways of navigating tension. Ron shares a defining encounter with Father God that dismantled the lie that he was alone, and Cathy explains how that shift changed the way he showed up in their marriage and family. Together, they talk about how learning to see people as image bearers and practicing the behaviors of love carried them through the loss of both of their mothers within weeks of each other.

You will hear:

•  Why looking back reveals real growth
•  Ron’s encounter with Father God and the lie it broke
•  How 100xLife trains self control through daily denial
•  How doing the challenge together builds intimacy and shared language
•  How love and seeing people as image bearers carried them through losing both mothers within five weeks

👉 Reflect and Apply
 Father, where have I lived like I am alone, and how has that lie shaped the way I love people.

Journal Prompt
Ask the Father, “Where am I still acting like I have to do everything myself?” Write what He shows you.
Then ask, “What is one relationship where you want me to practice love as action this week?” Choose one act of obedience and do it.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Welcome and the heart of 100xLife
00:37 January 2 challenge reminder and ways to join
02:25 Ron and Cathy’s background and shared journey
11:34 Ron’s breakthrough and the lie of being alone
20:12 Training the mind and body through obedience
30:51 Practicing faith together inside marriage
40:41 Walking through grief with shared love and language
47:55 Closing encouragement and invitation

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton hits a nerve in the church. We often think our lack of joy comes from “difficult people.” But Rob says it comes from how you see them. Jesus’ command to “regulate how you see” is not poetic, it is a weapon for daily life.

Rob breaks down the simple tool that reveals whether your heart is full of light or full of darkness. It is not complicated. You either see people as obstacles or as image bearers. What you pick will shape your marriage, your parenting, your work, and your walk with Jesus.

If you know Scripture but still call slow drivers idiots, resent your spouse over the smallest things, or quietly judge people at work, this episode will confront you. It will push you out of self justification and back into the freedom that comes from obeying the still small voice.

You will hear:

• Why Jesus ties your entire inner life to the way you look at people
• The one question that exposes your motives instantly
• How road rage reveals your theology
• Why ignoring the Holy Spirit opens the door to resentment, self pity, and false narratives
• How a piece of dirt on the floor can become a whole story about your spouse
• How picking up trash in a men’s room became God’s training ground for Rob
• A simple way to retrain your sight and choose light instead of darkness

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where have I turned your image bearers into obstacles, and how are my own stories keeping me in the dark.

Journal Prompt
Ask the Father, “Where have I seen people as objects instead of image bearers.” Write what He shows you.
Then ask Holy Spirit for one mindset shift and one act of service you will take the next time He prompts you.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Finding Joy in difficult circumstances
01:51 The Power of Perspective: Seeing Others as Image Bearers 
11:29 How our stories damage relationships
19:05 Practicing a new mindset: Practical Steps to Change 
21:56 Journaling for Clarity and Growth

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton sits down with 100xLife coach and stay at home strategist, Izabella Boyd, and goes right after a quiet lie in the church: that staying home is “less than” and that motherhood is a holding pattern until your “real calling” shows up.

Izabella shares how 15 years of homeschooling a son with learning challenges became her training ground for leadership, not her sideline. She walks through how the Master’s Program, TMPx, and the 100xLife challenge helped her see that discipling her family at the table is not a consolation prize, it is kingdom work. Then she tells the truth about resentment, hidden idolatry in marriage, and how the Words of Jesus on “deny yourself” exposed her coping habits with food, shopping, and fantasy expectations of her husband.

If you are a stay at home mom who secretly thinks you are “just” anything, or a husband who has quietly treated your wife’s role as small, this episode will confront you. It will push you to find your value in Jesus instead of in your kids, your career, or your spouse, and to treat the home as a serious field for the Great Commission.

You will hear:

• Why “I am just a stay at home mom” is an agreement with a lie, not humility
• How 15 years of homeschooling became Izabella’s boot camp for her future coaching business
• The difference between “my kids are my purpose” and “my kids are my training ground”
• How undervaluing your own role quickly turns into quietly undermining your husband
• The painful moment Izabella realized she was using Bible verses against her spouse
• What the 100xLife word “Deny Yourself” exposed in her: resentment, overeating, shopping, and a flesh led life
• Why coaching is often the missing piece for Christian women who feel stuck between home and marketplace
• How Izabella is building “Your Calling Awaits” to help stay at home women step into the Great Commission, not just survive the empty nest

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where have I agreed with the lie that my role is small, and where am I expecting my spouse to give me what only You can give.

Journal Prompt
If you are a stay at home woman:
Write out the sentence, “I am just a…” then finish it honestly.
Now cross it out and rewrite it with Jesus. Describe your home as a training ground for the calling He is shaping in you, including one specific way you will treat today as kingdom work.

If you are a husband:
Write down three costly, concrete ways your wife carries your family. Then ask Jesus how He wants you to honor and support that calling this week.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement
🌐 Explore Izabella’s coaching for stay at home women → https://yourcallingawaits.com

Join the 62 Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Why January 2 matters for your influence
02:00 Izabella’s story and 15 years of homeschooling
07:00 “Stay at home,” “marketplace,” or both
10:30 “Just a mom” and the quiet devaluing of home
19:30 How “Deny Yourself” exposed hidden idols
31:00 Your Calling Awaits and the Great Commission from home
36:00 Why serious Jesus followers need coaches, not just sermons
40:00 Final encouragement for couples, coaches, and stay at home women ready to move

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob Dayton goes straight at your holiday mindset and calls out the passive Christian approach to Thanksgiving and Christmas. No more “just survive your relatives.” No more blaming your reactions on everyone else.

Rob shows how gratitude is not a November mood. It is repentance in action, a spiritual weapon, and a very real way to retrain your brain before you walk into the room that usually triggers you.

Instead of letting childhood wounds and old stories run the table again, Rob walks through how gratitude changes your physiology, your emotions, and your spiritual posture. Then he gives four practical tools that will either bring peace into your home or reveal how much you still cling to offense.

You will hear:

• Why gratitude is a core tool of repentance
• How complaint quietly disciples you into stress, anxiety, and bad reactions
• Why “God, help me endure my family” is the wrong prayer
• How gratitude strengthens your body and calms your nervous system
• What it means to let your spirit lead instead of your flesh
• Four ways to practice gratitude: meditation, journaling, texts, and spoken words
• How to choose thankfulness even when the person never apologizes or receives it well
• A simple mindset shift that moves you from victim to servant in the room

This episode will confront the part of you that still enjoys retelling your family pain but refuses to repent. It will push you to actually follow Jesus with your reactions this year, not just your theology.

👉 Reflect and Apply
Jesus, where am I choosing complaint and self-protection with my family instead of gratitude and trust in You.

Journal Prompt

• Pick one trigger moment you already know is coming.
• Write the old script. Then write the new script with Jesus, grounded in gratitude.

Resources and Links
📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
00:00 Holidays Expose Your Mindset
03:00 Gratitude as Spiritual Warfare
10:00 How Gratitude Rewires You
16:00 Four Practices That Shift Everything
26:00 Walk In as a Servant, Not a Victim

In today’s episode of the 100xLife Podcast, Rob and Nancy Dayton get brutally honest about family, triggers, and what it actually looks like to follow Jesus in the middle of holiday chaos, not just sing about Him over pie.

As Thanksgiving and Christmas close in, they refuse the usual “just survive your relatives” Christian talk. Instead, they invite you into the “family gym,” where old childhood programming collides with the words of Jesus and you have a choice. Stay triggered and offended, or let Jesus retrain your reactions in real time.

This episode pulls apart the stories, fantasies, and wounds you carry into family rooms and shows how they are discipling you more than you think. Rob and Nancy expose their own triggers, adoption wounds, and marriage patterns, then walk through how Jesus has led them into real healing, not churchy pretending.

You will hear:

• How your childhood “programming” still runs the room at every gathering
• Rob’s laundry room story and his lifelong fight with worth and attention
• Nancy’s adoption and abandonment journey and how God rewrote it
• How fantasy and “what if” stories can either poison you or transform you
• A simple sentence Nancy used to stop running and start communicating anger
• Why so many Christians are numb to conviction and stuck lukewarm
• How to walk into the holidays as a servant, not a victim keeping score
• A simple way to turn conflict into growth instead of another family blowup

This conversation will confront your inner “nice Christian” who avoids conflict but still holds grudges. It will push you to stop blaming your family, own your triggers, and walk into the holidays as someone who actually follows Jesus with your reactions, not just with your theology.

👉 Reflect and Apply
 Jesus, where am I still letting old triggers run the show instead of your love when I am with my family?

Journal Prompt
Pick one holiday moment that usually sets you off.

1. Write the “old script” in detail. What they say, what you think, how you react, how it ends.
2. Then write a “new script” with Jesus. Same moment, but you walk in secure, unoffended, and ready to serve with no payback.

Ask Him: What mindset do you want me to practice this year in that exact situation?

Resources & Links

📘 Read 100xLife → https://100xlife.com
📱 Follow Rob on Instagram → @100xlifemovement

Join the 62-Day Challenge:
🙌 Individuals → https://100xlife.com/62-day-challenge
👥 Coaches → https://subscribepage.io/100xCoach
🏠 Church Leaders → https://subscribepage.io/church-challenge

Chapters
 00:00 Welcome and why family is a “gym” for your soul
 03:56 Moving from Santa Barbara to Bend and following Jesus with money and lifestyle
 12:18 Nancy’s family story, adoption, and messy holiday dynamics
 17:46 Rob’s triggers around worth and being “at the table”
 24:00 How fantasy, mindset, and imagination shape your response to family
 39:42 Practical holiday strategy in the kitchen and in conflict
 43:10 Questions, curiosity, and how to de-escalate instead of explode
 47:00 Preview of next week on gratitude and finishing the holiday series