What if understanding one simple framework could transform your marriage, improve communication, and make you a better leader in your business?

That’s what we’re diving into today with Enneagram expert Christa Hardin—and for the first time ever, my wife, Sarah, is co-hosting with me.

The Enneagram isn’t just another personality test, it’s a powerful tool that helps you understand how you and the people around you think, communicate, and handle challenges. Sarah and I have used it in our own marriage, and it’s been a game-changer—not just at home, but in running a business and leading a team, too.

In this episode, we’re breaking down how different personality types handle stress, make decisions, and navigate conflict—insights that are just as valuable for your firm as they are for your marriage. Christa also shares what she’s learned from working with couples and business owners, so you can avoid the common pitfalls that lead to frustration and disconnect.

Whether you’re running a business with your spouse, balancing marriage and entrepreneurship, or just want stronger relationships, this conversation is packed with insights you can start using today.

3 of the biggest insights from Christa Hardin …

#1.) How Your Enneagram Type Impacts Your Business & Marriage

Understanding your Enneagram type can help you recognize your strengths and blind spots—not just in your relationships, but in your practice. Are you a natural risk-taker (Type 7) who jumps into business decisions too fast? Or a problem-solver (Type 6) who overanalyzes and struggles with decision fatigue? Knowing this can help you make more confident, intentional choices—both at work and at home.

#2.) The 5-to-1 Rule for High-Stakes Conversations

Whether you’re talking to a client about their financial future or having a tough conversation with your spouse, the way you communicate matters. Christa shares the 5-to-1 ratio—five positive interactions for every one piece of constructive feedback. Applying this in client meetings builds trust. Using it at home strengthens your marriage. Either way, it’s a simple but powerful way to improve communication in every area of your life.

#3.) Balancing Business & Marriage Takes Strategy

Many financial advisors work with their spouse or have a partner who supports their growing business. The problem? Work and home life start blending together, leading to burnout, miscommunication, or resentment. Christa shares strategies for setting clear boundaries, prioritizing quality time, and making sure your marriage doesn’t take a backseat to your business goals.

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