Bridging Connections with Bryan Reeves

121. Creating Healthy Attachment (When You’re Anxious or Avoidant) with Silvy Khoucasian


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“Understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our relationships can transform the way we connect with others. It's not about reaching a perfect state of secure attachment but about attuning to our own needs and those of our partners. This journey is a lifelong process of learning, growing, and healing together.” — Silvy Khoucasian

Today on Men, This Way:

  • 5:05 – Silvy's inspiration for exploring attachment styles during her psychology studies
  • 6:15 – The attachment theory and how childhood experiences with caregivers shape adult relationships
  • 7:42 – The different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant
  • 10:10 – Personal experiences and realizations around attachment styles in dating and relationships
  • 12:32 – How attachment styles manifest in relationships and the importance of awareness
  • 15:04 – Tools and practices for identifying your attachment style
  • 18:34 – The role of family systems and childhood responsibilities in developing attachment patterns
  • 21:12 – Healing and developing secure attachment through relationships and self-awareness
  • 24:08 – The importance of creating agreements and consistency in relationships for healing
  • 27:20 – How different attachment styles magnetize towards each other and the opportunities for healing
  • 29:02 – The balance between independence and interdependence in relationships
  • 31:32 – The gifts and challenges of each attachment style and finding balance
  • 35:13 – The importance of direct communication and creating secure functioning patterns in relationships
  • 39:21 – Brian and Silvy's personal journey and the strategies they use to support each other's needs
  • 44:16 – The long-term commitment to relationship growth and healing over years
  • 47:45 – The role of professional support in working through attachment patterns


Connect with Silvy Khoucasian:

  • Website: silvykhoucasian.com
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/ 


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