In this soul-nourishing episode, Bryan opens the circle on a private men’s gathering with longtime brothers John Lee, Larry Winters, Mikey Brackett, and Troy Ravenseye. What follows is a deeply honest exploration of aging, art, resistance, and the sacred tension between creating from joy versus performing for the world’s approval.

00:00 – Introduction by Bryan: What makes this episode different

03:23 – John’s discovery of a spiritual retreat property—and a powerful synchronicity

09:00 – A 43-year-old book changes lives: The Flying Boy comes full circle

12:58 – Red Hawk, Osho, and the wisdom of “dropping your old solutions”

16:30 – The Rainmaker story: Alignment vs. control in creating change

20:02 – Seasonal resistance: When your body wants rest but your world demands action

25:18 – Earth connection, aging, and the wisdom of listening to your body

32:45 – Embracing help: Why asking (and receiving) is harder—and more vital—than we think

37:55 – John’s viral video on aging and the surprising reaction it received

41:40 – Mikey on letting art lead the way instead of trying to monetize purpose

43:30 – The trap of measuring everything—and the freedom of creating without needing outcome

48:55 – From shadow artist to soul creator: letting music, poetry, and spirit come forward

49:48 – The power of slow creation: bonsai trees, hand tools, and meaning-making

53:21 – Contraction vs. expansion: Thaddeus Golas and The Lazy Man’s Guide to Enlightenment

57:20 – Closing reflections and the quiet power of being in the work

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In this expansive and very human conversation, filmmaker and creative technologist Akira Chan joins Bryan Reeves and co-host Tait Arend to explore the wild, exhilarating, and sometimes terrifying frontier of artificial intelligence. From AI-generated songs and robot companions to the ways technology is already shaping our relationships, creativity, and emotional lives, this episode dives deep into what it means to stay human in an AI-driven world.

Grounded, curious, and refreshingly real, this dialogue asks the questions that matter most: How do we use AI to bridge connections, not replace them? What parts of our humanity should never be outsourced? And how can these tools actually make our relationships richer?

00:00 – Dogs, Heartbeats, and Nervous System Whisperers

03:00 – “This Is Not AI”… or Is It?

04:30 – How Bryan and Akira First Met

07:00 – The First Wave of AI Magic

08:00 – Why This Episode Matters Now

10:45 – Can AI Help Us Connect More Deeply?

11:30 – The AI-Generated Song for Bryan & Tait

15:45 – The Imposter Question: Is Anything Truly Original?

20:00 – “I Feel Manipulated Sometimes”

23:00 – Will Men Fall in Love with AI Companions?

26:00 – How AI Is Already Shaping Our Thinking

33:00 – AI Tools Akira Actually Recommends

37:00 – The Atrophy of Human Skills

45:00 – Robots Are Coming Into Our Homes

52:00 – The Line Akira Won’t Cross as a Filmmaker

1:00:00 – What We Must NOT Outsource to AI

1:04:30 – Wrapping with Heart

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Production Company - https://www.raremedia.tv/

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In this raw and revealing episode, Tait and Bryan reflect on a powerful and often overlooked truth: So many men only find this work because the women in their lives refused to give up on them. Whether it’s a book left on a nightstand, a therapy session demanded through gritted teeth, or a heartbreaking confrontation, women have been the silent initiators of many men's healing journeys. This episode is an acknowledgment. A thank-you. An ode. It’s also a challenge to the men listening to hear the love beneath the criticism. And to the women: keep standing strong.

• Why resistance is often the first step in every man’s growth
• The role women play in awakening men to their potential
• Why emotional isolation is harming modern relationships
• What makes a true men’s group different from a friend group
• How being witnessed by trustable men changes everything
• Why your partner's frustration may be the invitation of a lifetime

00:00 - Intro: The Most Awkward Part of Every Podcast

01:17 - An Ode to Women: The Real Gateway to Men’s Work

03:32 - The Elevate Program: 6 Years and 100+ Men Later

05:05 - Resistance: “I Didn’t Want to Go to Therapy”

07:34 - What Women Are Really Asking For

09:14 - Traumatizing Rites of Passage: Frats, Gangs, and Military

10:50 - Looking to Women for Validation—and the Fallout

13:15 - Women as Unintended Stewards of Manhood

16:27 - The Disney Lie: Where Love Stories Break Down

18:11 - Why Men Without Friends Lean Too Hard on Their Partners

20:20 - Friend Groups vs. Men’s Groups: The Third Option

21:44 - A Real-Time Breakthrough: When One Conversation Changes Everything

23:32 - “This Is Just Normal Now”—How Fast Growth Can Happen

25:03 - A Message to Women: Your Nagging Might Be an Invitation

26:49 - Hurtful Words and Hidden Truths

28:03 - What Men’s Work Gave Me That My Wife Couldn’t

30:45 - What Support from Other Men Really Looks Like

32:27 - Final Thoughts: Thank You, Women. Truly.

34:03 - Learn More About Elevate 2026

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Have you ever grieved something difficult to explain to others ... or to yourself? A dream you never got to live, a world you left behind after moving, a home you never got to call home, a relationship that never got off the ground?

In this powerful solo return, Bryan Reeves explores the deep emotional terrain of ambiguous loss: grief without closure, headlines, or a clear reason. From the loss of a dream wedding and the promise of parenthood to the emotional cost of eight moves in five years, Bryan shares personal stories and hard-earned insights on how to grieve the invisible, hold space for uncertainty, and honor your experience without needing it to make sense to anyone else.

If you're carrying sadness you can't fully name or explain, this episode will help you feel seen, and invite you to start healing.

00:00 – Why I Took a Break

01:32 – The Ireland Retreat That Changed Everything

03:20 – The Weight of Eight Moves in Five Years

04:45 – What Is Ambiguous Loss?

06:30 – Invisible Grief: Our Lost Wedding & Parenthood Dreams

08:15 – The House We Couldn't Live In

10:00 – Guilt, Grief, and Comparing Pain

12:05 – Grieving the End of a Day: A Malibu Story

14:00 – Why Some Grief Is Hard to Explain

15:25 – The Loneliness of Loss Without Witness

17:10 – Wisdom from Francis Weller on Communal Grief

19:40 – Moving In, Letting Go: A Nervous System Exhale

21:10 – Lessons From a Decade-Long Relationship

23:00 – Life Has Seasons—And That’s Okay

25:15 – Tiny Green Shoots: Signs of Spring After Long Winter

27:05 – New Beginnings: Retreats, Books, and Rebuilding

29:15 – Closing Reflection: You’re Not Broken for Feeling This

30:45 – Name Your Grief, Honor Its Place

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Bryan Reeves sits down with renowned relationship coach and therapist Jayson Gaddis. Together they dive into the origins of men’s emotional unavailability, how childhood experiences shape intimacy in adulthood, and what it takes to build secure, nourishing partnerships. From personal stories of shame and armor to raising emotionally present sons, Jayson offers vulnerable insights and hard-won wisdom. This is a must-listen conversation for anyone who wants to understand why men struggle with intimacy—and how they can finally come home to their hearts.

00:00 – Welcome

02:45 – Bryan recalls Silvy's admiration for Jayson’s practical relationship wisdom

06:10 – The sixth-grade fight that taught Jayson to hide his sensitivity

12:25 – How shame around crying created lifelong armor

16:20 – From childhood wounds to emotional unavailability in adult relationships

21:15 – Teaching relationship skills to high schoolers: challenges & breakthroughs

26:30 – The greatest gift men can offer: emotional presence

32:40 – Navigating discipline, boundaries, and presence as a father and partner

38:00 – Mission Impossible vs. real life: balancing work, purpose, and family

43:20 – The foundation of intimacy: emotional security and safety

50:15 – Facing blind spots: learning to stop blaming and start owning feelings

56:45 – One foot in, one foot out: the cost of not being fully committed

01:04:00 – Why men chase “greener grass” fantasies—and the painful wake-up call

01:10:25 – Growth-oriented partnership: why your partner won’t stay if you stop growing

01:17:15 – Do men really want sex—or do they want intimacy and belonging?

01:23:00 – The Five Key Takeaways Finale: insight, mentor, resource, investment, practice

01:37:20 – Where to find Jayson Gaddis and his work

Guest – Jayson Gaddis

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Host – Bryan Reeves

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In this raw and heartfelt rebroadcast, actor and environmental activist Adrian Grenier (Entourage, The Devil Wears Prada) joins host Bryan Reeves for a soul-baring conversation about his transformation from Hollywood heartthrob to grounded father and conscious community builder. They dive into the emotional challenges of shedding ego-driven fame, the sacred importance of modern brotherhood, and how fatherhood and marriage are awakening to his deepest purpose.

Adrian reflects on old-paradigm masculinity, spiritual confusion, and why meaningful connection with men saved his life.

[00:00] Welcome & Summer Break Setup

[01:29] Who Is Adrian Grenier Now?

[03:46] "I needed to get low to the ground" – Leaving Hollywood behind

[06:48] The sacred discomfort of men's work

[09:57] What success didn’t solve for Adrian

[13:36] “Why did I come here?” — The spiritual reckoning

[17:45] The illusion of media masculinity

[24:32] Reframing brotherhood: Entourage vs real men’s work

[30:14] Navigating differences: “I believe in the direction of our love”

[41:03] What men miss without committed brotherhood

[45:56] Breaking generational patterns as fathers and husbands

[50:49] Becoming a father: “It’s the greatest call to action”

[57:06] Healing through fatherhood: “I’m not going anywhere”

[58:18] Closing: Grief, gratitude, and Barton Springs

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What happens when a precision-timed therapist and a free-spirited adventurer fall in love? In this candid, spicy, and surprisingly hilarious conversation, Bryan Reeves and Silvy Khoucasian pull back the curtain on their own relationship to explore what it really takes to embrace differences—and not just survive them, but grow because of them.

From cultural clashes to conflicting travel styles, sexual pacing to social preferences, they reveal the real stories behind the highlight reel—and how they've learned to navigate those gaps without losing themselves (or each other).

Whether you’re navigating a new relationship or decades into one, this episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, start witnessing, and love without needing sameness.

00:00 – Silvy calls Bryan out.

02:00 – Introducing Silvy: “This is my unmasked version”

03:30 – Speaking alongside The Gottmans at the Real Love Ready Conference

05:00 – Time: Is being late disrespect—or just different wiring?

08:00 – Ireland trip flashback: how they travel at totally different speeds

10:30 – “You’re fast. I’m slow.” – Processing pace in life and relationship

13:00 – Cultural differences: Armenian-Arabic collectivism vs. American individualism

16:00 – Privacy vs. openness: Who gets to tell the story?

18:30 – Affection gaps, erotic blueprints, and the golden retriever dynamic

21:00 – The wounds we bring: neglect, protection, and projection

25:00 – “Willing to disappoint—and to be disappointed”

27:00 – Grieving expectations: Letting go of the fantasy version of your partner

30:00 – Creating clear agreements vs. quiet resentment

33:00 – The dance of individuality and support

35:00 – Navigating transitions and identity shifts over 10 years

38:00 – Why difference isn’t the enemy—it’s the initiation

40:00 – Wrap-up and a preview of more episodes to come

“The problem isn’t our differences—it’s making them wrong that causes problems.” – Silvy

“Your wound is holding hands with mine.” – Bryan

“I grieve my expectations of you so that I may discover your love yet again.” – Silvy

“You’re in my story now. It’s not just mine anymore.” – Bryan

“When it’s hysterical, it’s historical.” – Silvy and Bryan

“Respect can still be late.” – Silvy

“Resentment dies in the land of clear agreements.” – Bryan

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In this heartfelt solo episode of Bridging Connections, host Bryan Reeves delves into the profound journey of navigating life transitions and personal growth. Reflecting on his own experiences, Bryan shares the challenges and revelations that come with the death of a dream, the practice of grief, and the art of surrender. Join Bryan as he explores the importance of embracing change with grace, finding gratitude in unexpected places, and the enduring power of love and loss. Tune in for an introspective conversation that invites you to reflect on your own life transitions and how you can meet them with more ease and gratitude.

• The paradox of being relational yet introverted
• Grieving the dream of home ownership and fatherhood
• Moving back to Los Angeles after the “great pandemic migration”
• Letting go of material things and the stories they hold
• The practice of grief in a death-phobic, grief-illiterate culture
• The meaning behind Bryan’s tattoo: Command. Surrender. Breathe.
• The flowering of a crepe myrtle as a symbol of unexpected beauty in endings
• A reflection on leaving behind gifts that may benefit others

“It’s not the end of everything. It’s just the end of everything you know.”

“A dream can’t die if you don’t dare to dream in the first place.”

“Grief is the price we pay for love.”

“We are like plants. We need the right soil to thrive.”

“How might you meet the death of a dream with more grace, more ease, and perhaps even more gratitude?”

Bryan invites listeners to consider the dreams they may be quietly grieving or actively resisting. Rather than clinging to what was or what might have been, he offers a profound question:

• Die Wise by Stephen Jenkinson
• The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller
• Iron John by Robert Bly

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[00:02:15] - Introduction to the episode and the theme of life transitions.

[00:05:30] - Brian shares his personal journey of moving across the country and the death of a dream.

[00:12:45] - The importance of acknowledging and grieving the loss of dreams.

[00:20:10] - Reflections on the practice of surrender and its role in personal growth.

[00:28:00] - The story of planting a tree and its symbolic meaning in life transitions.

[00:35:20] - Brian's insights on love, loss, and the enduring power of gratitude.

[00:42:00] - Closing thoughts and an invitation to reflect on personal life transitions.

What does it mean to become fully alive as a man? In this powerful debrief, Bryan and Tait reflect on the transformative journey of Elevate 2025, a year-long men's journey that culminates in a life-changing retreat.

From breaking emotional masks to finding real brotherhood and discovering true purpose—not as a destination, but as a way of being—this episode dives into what happens when men are finally given permission to feel it all and be it all.

This isn’t just another “men’s retreat recap.” This is a raw, grounded look at the healing, aliveness, and lasting connection that unfolds when the right men gather in the right way.

• Why most men are stuck between anger and apathy
• What “being a full-range man” actually looks like in real life
• The power of emotional safety in all-male spaces
• What happens when a man finally says, “I’m f*cked up” and gets met with real support
• The truth about purpose: It’s not out there—it’s right here
• How this retreat created friendships that will last a lifetime
• Why most men don't have people who would fly across the country for their funeral—and how that can change
• The 3 Promises of the Elevate journey: Fully Enlivened, Powerfully On Purpose, Deeply Supported

[03:00] – Why it’s so hard to describe the magic of a retreat

[06:15] – The emotional wiring of boys—and how we shut it down

[07:50] – Anger and apathy: the two emotions men are left with

[10:30] – Real talk: “I’m not okay” and finding support

[14:00] – Becoming a full-range man: Warrior and Lover archetypes

[17:00] – Why purpose isn’t a future goal—it’s a daily choice

[24:00] – Deep support: what real brotherhood looks like

[28:45] – Who would fly to your funeral? The power of connection

[30:45] – Living with men who will hold your grief and your greatness

[32:00] – How to join the Elevate journey + what's next

• You’re a man who feels like something’s missing—even if life looks “successful” on the outside
• You’ve been curious about men’s retreats but unsure if they’re for you
• You’ve felt alone in your struggles and want genuine connection
• You’re a woman who loves a man who’s ready for more depth, purpose, and heart

• Elevate Men’s Journey → https://bryanreeves.com
• Book Mentioned: Real Boys by William Pollack
• Past Retreats: Elevate 21, 24, and now Elevate 25/26
• Upcoming Podcast Series: SEX (Yep—we’re finally going there)

If you’re ready to explore what it means to be fully alive—and deeply supported—email Bryan at [email protected] to get info about Elevate 2026.

And if you know a man who needs this… send him this episode. It might just change everything.

In this special on-the-road episode, Bryan and Tait reflect on five years of deep men’s work as they gear up for the Elevate 2025 Men's Retreat — a five-day, mountaintop experience in western North Carolina designed as a modern-day rite of passage. From sacred brotherhood to the storms that shape us this conversation is raw, real, and radically human.

Episode Highlights:

00:01:44 – The Elevate Retreat: A modern-day rite of passage for men

00:03:12 – The first year’s tears: What vulnerability unlocked for men

00:06:28 – Creating sacred, no-demand space for transformation

00:08:25 – Who really has your back? Reframing masculine support

00:09:21 – Bryan’s past distrust of men—and the healing that followed

00:12:39 – The magic of presence, and Bryan’s role in creating breakthroughs

00:16:44 – Power without domination: Becoming Kings among Kings

00:17:56 – From deep conversation to competitive games: A full-spectrum retreat

00:21:16 – Three stages of the storm: Before, during, and after life's crises

00:26:24 – Why men don’t need fixing—just new patterns and community

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