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In this raw and revealing episode, Tait and Bryan reflect on a powerful and often overlooked truth: So many men only find this work because the women in their lives refused to give up on them. Whether it’s a book left on a nightstand, a therapy session demanded through gritted teeth, or a heartbreaking confrontation, women have been the silent initiators of many men's healing journeys. This episode is an acknowledgment. A thank-you. An ode. It’s also a challenge to the men listening to hear the love beneath the criticism. And to the women: keep standing strong.
💡 What You’ll Learn:00:00 - Intro: The Most Awkward Part of Every Podcast
01:17 - An Ode to Women: The Real Gateway to Men’s Work
03:32 - The Elevate Program: 6 Years and 100+ Men Later
05:05 - Resistance: “I Didn’t Want to Go to Therapy”
07:34 - What Women Are Really Asking For
09:14 - Traumatizing Rites of Passage: Frats, Gangs, and Military
10:50 - Looking to Women for Validation—and the Fallout
13:15 - Women as Unintended Stewards of Manhood
16:27 - The Disney Lie: Where Love Stories Break Down
18:11 - Why Men Without Friends Lean Too Hard on Their Partners
20:20 - Friend Groups vs. Men’s Groups: The Third Option
21:44 - A Real-Time Breakthrough: When One Conversation Changes Everything
23:32 - “This Is Just Normal Now”—How Fast Growth Can Happen
25:03 - A Message to Women: Your Nagging Might Be an Invitation
26:49 - Hurtful Words and Hidden Truths
28:03 - What Men’s Work Gave Me That My Wife Couldn’t
30:45 - What Support from Other Men Really Looks Like
32:27 - Final Thoughts: Thank You, Women. Truly.
34:03 - Learn More About Elevate 2026
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By Bryan Reeves & Tait Arend5
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In this raw and revealing episode, Tait and Bryan reflect on a powerful and often overlooked truth: So many men only find this work because the women in their lives refused to give up on them. Whether it’s a book left on a nightstand, a therapy session demanded through gritted teeth, or a heartbreaking confrontation, women have been the silent initiators of many men's healing journeys. This episode is an acknowledgment. A thank-you. An ode. It’s also a challenge to the men listening to hear the love beneath the criticism. And to the women: keep standing strong.
💡 What You’ll Learn:00:00 - Intro: The Most Awkward Part of Every Podcast
01:17 - An Ode to Women: The Real Gateway to Men’s Work
03:32 - The Elevate Program: 6 Years and 100+ Men Later
05:05 - Resistance: “I Didn’t Want to Go to Therapy”
07:34 - What Women Are Really Asking For
09:14 - Traumatizing Rites of Passage: Frats, Gangs, and Military
10:50 - Looking to Women for Validation—and the Fallout
13:15 - Women as Unintended Stewards of Manhood
16:27 - The Disney Lie: Where Love Stories Break Down
18:11 - Why Men Without Friends Lean Too Hard on Their Partners
20:20 - Friend Groups vs. Men’s Groups: The Third Option
21:44 - A Real-Time Breakthrough: When One Conversation Changes Everything
23:32 - “This Is Just Normal Now”—How Fast Growth Can Happen
25:03 - A Message to Women: Your Nagging Might Be an Invitation
26:49 - Hurtful Words and Hidden Truths
28:03 - What Men’s Work Gave Me That My Wife Couldn’t
30:45 - What Support from Other Men Really Looks Like
32:27 - Final Thoughts: Thank You, Women. Truly.
34:03 - Learn More About Elevate 2026
• Website

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