Gender: A Wider Lens

138 - The Emotional Lives of Parents Caught in the Gender Maelstrom


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Join Sasha & Stella for this candid conversation delving into the intricate realm of parenting children who identify as transgender. They discuss the fear, confusion, and complex emotions parents face when dealing with their child's gender identity. The conversation touches on the challenges of communicating with their children and the potential risks and benefits of transitioning, emphasizing the importance of making the process more nuanced and less black-and-white, helping young people understand the complexity of their experiences, fostering resilience and offering a realistic perspective on the long-term impacts of gender transition. 

The conversation also explores the emotional challenges, including doubts and fears that parents often confront, such as the sense of losing their child to a different persona. They examine the loss of innocence that frequently accompanies adolescence, and the grieving process, a profound experience for these parents, acknowledging that many parents, in these situations, may grapple with isolation and loneliness. Crucially, Sasha and Stella offer a nuanced perspective, emphasizing that these feelings are normal and not indicative of bad parenting. They celebrate parents for embracing a more thoughtful and reflective path through their child’s gender exploration, even when it's difficult and unpopular, exemplifying the emotional courage and bravery required to support their children on this journey. 

This important discussion offers valuable insights into the unique challenges faced by parents when their children express transgender identities. It promotes empathy, understanding, and resilience within the family unit, fostering a more compassionate and supportive environment for these young individuals.

Gender Dysphoria: What It's Like For Parents

https://gender-a-wider-lens.captivate.fm/episode/16-gender-dysphoria-what-its-like-for-parents 

https://youtu.be/hLPh-_4DYjg 


Order Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents

https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/ 


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If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting:


Episode 122 - We Wrote a Book: When Kids Say They're Trans | A Guide for Thoughtful Parents

https://gender-a-wider-lens.captivate.fm/episode/is-my-child-trans-a-guide-for-parents

https://youtu.be/f4LL2hI-qjs 


Episode 107 — What Your Teen is Trying to Tell You  

https://gender-a-wider-lens.captivate.fm/episode/107-what-your-teen-is-trying-to-tell-you 



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