More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally

#139 | 5 Ways LGBTQ Allies Can Support Loved Ones With Eating Disorders—With Compassion and Courage


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The episode begins with Heather reflecting on the intersection of politics and the LGBTQ community in the current socio-political climate, particularly following significant events that threaten LGBTQ rights. She introduces Kristin Szostak, who shares her expertise in treating eating disorders, especially within the LGBTQ population. Kristin outlines the various eating disorders, including anorexia and bulimia, while also educating listeners about binge eating disorder and ARFID. This detailed exploration provides a foundation for understanding how these disorders manifest and the emotional challenges that underlie them.

Kristin's insights extend beyond clinical definitions; she passionately discusses the societal factors that disproportionately affect LGBTQ individuals, such as discrimination, body dysphoria, and the pressure to conform to societal norms. The episode emphasizes the need for a compassionate approach from friends and family members, who play a vital role in supporting those struggling with eating disorders. Kristin offers practical advice on how loved ones can create a safe space for open dialogue, encouraging normalization of diverse eating habits and emotional expressions.

The conversation culminates with a discussion of the Renfrew Centers' SAGE program, which provides specialized support for LGBTQ individuals. Kristin emphasizes that their approach is about recognizing the whole person, rather than just their struggles with eating. This message of inclusivity and understanding is a powerful reminder of the importance of community support in recovery. The episode is rich in content and serves as both an informative resource and a call to action for listeners to foster acceptance and support within their own circles.

Takeaways:

  • The podcast discusses the intersection of LGBTQ community issues and eating disorders, emphasizing the increased prevalence in this demographic.
  • Kristin Szostak explains the different types of eating disorders, including anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder.
  • Awareness and acceptance from loved ones are critical in supporting individuals struggling with eating disorders.
  • The importance of modeling positive self-talk and body acceptance for children is highlighted.
  • ARFID is defined as an eating disturbance characterized by an avoidance of food based on sensory characteristics.
  • Listening and creating a safe space for open communication can significantly help those affected.

Links referenced in this episode:

  • renfrewcenter.com

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health and safety, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.



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