In this episode, Carl explores one of the hardest kinds of decisions: choosing between two genuinely good options. When every meaningful "yes" contains a painful "no," the tension isn’t about right versus wrong—it’s about trade-offs. Sharing a simple but piercing question from Christy Raines—“Who do I want to disappoint?”—Carl unpacks how every decision has a shadow, whether it’s a client, a family member, or your future self. The choice may not become easier, but it often becomes clearer. Because the real work isn’t avoiding tradeoffs—it’s deciding, intentionally, which ones you’re willing to carry.

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