In this episode, Carl shares a simple phrase that has become surprisingly powerful in difficult moments: “I don’t need you to fix this. I just need you to listen.” When things go wrong or emotions run high, the instinct is often to jump straight to solutions. But Carl reflects on how valuable it can be to name what you actually need in the moment. Sometimes clarity and relief come not from advice, but from being heard by someone willing to simply listen.

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