More Human More Kind: Guidance for Parenting LGBTQ+ Teens & Growing Into a Courageous Ally

#161 | Why Queer Stories Like 'Run Away With Me' Are Essential in a Time of Book Bans and Backlash: Lessons from Brian Selznick's Newest YA Novel


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Heather Hester welcomes Brian Selznick, an esteemed author known for his innovative storytelling and impactful themes. They discuss Selznick's latest work, 'Run Away With Me', which not only captivates with its narrative but also resonates deeply with contemporary issues surrounding LGBTQ representation. Heather expresses her excitement and personal connection to Selznick's previous works, highlighting how they have been shared with her children. This connection sets the stage for a rich exploration of the themes within 'Run Away With Me', particularly the significance of love and identity in a historical context.

Selznick shares the inspiration behind the novel, detailing how his experiences during the pandemic, particularly his time spent in an empty Rome, influenced the setting and emotional depth of the story. Heather and Brian engage in a thoughtful dialogue about the unique atmosphere of Rome during this period—its haunting beauty and historical significance—which serves as the backdrop for the protagonists' journey of self-discovery and connection. The conversation emphasizes the importance of representation in literature, especially for young readers who seek validation and affirmation of their identities. Selznick articulates his commitment to portraying authentic queer experiences, underscoring the necessity of diverse narratives in fostering empathy and understanding among readers.

As the discussion progresses, the focus shifts to the characters' development and the intricate dynamics of their relationship. Selznick reveals the creative process behind crafting two boys who embody the complexities of young love, navigating their identities in a world that often imposes limitations. The podcast culminates in a profound reflection on the enduring nature of love and the shared human experience of seeking connection. Through Selznick's insights, listeners are reminded of the power of storytelling to transcend barriers, illuminate history, and inspire hope for a more inclusive future. The episode serves as both a celebration of literature's capacity to foster empathy and a call to action for continued advocacy for diverse voices in the literary landscape.

Takeaways:

  • Brian Selznick's new book, Run Away With Me, offers a beautifully crafted love story set in Rome, emphasizing the importance of representation in literature for young adults.
  • The author shares how his personal experiences during the pandemic inspired the setting and characters of his latest novel, reflecting on themes of love and connection.
  • The discussion highlights the significance of creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth, emphasizing that they have always existed and deserve to see themselves in stories.
  • The podcast underscores the vital role that books and art play in fostering empathy and understanding amidst societal challenges, particularly regarding the recent book-banning movements.
  • Selznick's narrative takes a unique approach by avoiding traditional coming out tropes, focusing instead on the universal experience of first love and human connection.
  • The conversation illustrates that literature can provide stability and reassurance to young readers, reminding them they are not alone in their struggles.

Brian Selznick’s books have sold millions of copies, garnered countless awards worldwide, and

have been translated into more than 35 languages. He broke open the novel form with his

genre-breaking thematic trilogy, beginning with the Caldecott Medal-winning #1 New York

Times bestseller, The Invention of Hugo Cabret, adapted into Martin Scorsese's Oscar-winning

movie Hugo. He followed that with the #1 New York Times bestseller, Wonderstruck, adapted

by celebrated filmmaker Todd Haynes, with a screenplay by Selznick, and then the New York

Times bestseller, The Marvels. In praising his body of work, The Washington Post said, “Brian

Selznick proves to be that rare creator capable of following one masterpiece with another.” The

Associated Press called Selznick “one of publishing’s most imaginative storytellers.” Selznick’s

most recent novels, Big Tree (inspired by an idea from Steven Spielberg) and Kaleidoscope,

were both national bestsellers and were named New York Times Notable Children’s Books. He

also illustrated the 20th anniversary edition covers of the #1 globally bestselling Harry Potter

series. Selznick has appeared on Good Morning America, NBC’s Today Show, CBS Sunday

Morning, and has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, NPR, The

Guardian, Le Monde, la Repubblica, among many other renowned publications worldwide. He

and his husband Dr. David Serlin divide their time between Brooklyn, New York and La Jolla,

California.

https://brianselznick.com

https://instagram.com/thebrianselznick

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