Moving to a new country doesn't just mean learning a new language or figuring out the grocery store. Sometimes it means rebuilding your identity from scratch and that can put unexpected pressure on even the strongest relationships.

In this episode of What Are You Doing in Denmark, Derek and Brooke respond to a heartfelt question from Laura, a Portuguese listener who's been living in Denmark for two and a half years and has a Danish partner. She wonders whether the challenges they're facing are relationship problems or simply the reality of navigating two very different cultures.

Brooke lets us in on what it was like dating and marrying a Dane while living in her home country and now his. Derek shares the pros and cons of living in Denmark with a partner who is non-Danish and from the same native culture. While it seems like relationship complexities defy borders, this episode does offer plenty of advice, relatable experiences, and food for thought.

Topics that get unpacked:

• Why internationals often feel like they've lost part of themselves after moving abroad
• The emotional labor of constantly asking questions about Danish culture
• Why Danes can feel exhausted being asked to "represent" their entire country
• How cultural differences affect communication, conflict, and expectations
• Why building your own international community can make all the difference

As always, you can email, DM, or leave a voice note with your thoughts on this episode or your own question. We’d love to hear from you whether you're dating a Dane, living abroad with your partner, or simply trying to make Denmark make sense, like all of us. 

This conversation is a reminder that you're not alone and that many of the struggles you're experiencing are more common than you think.

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