175 "Dying with Dad": Intimate Conversations and Five Wishes

In this episode of Hospice Explained, host Marie Betcher, a registered nurse and former hospice nurse, interviews Yvonne Caputo, a retired teacher, vice president of human resources, corporate trainer, consultant, and psychotherapist. Yvonne discusses her books, 'Flying with Dad' and 'Dying with Dad,' and shares personal stories about having meaningful end-of-life conversations with her father. The episode delves into the emotional and legal aspects of preparing for end-of-life, the significance of the 'Five Wishes' document, and how these conversations can bring profound joy and lessen the burden during grief. Yvonne offers practical advice on how to approach these discussions with loved ones and the impact these preparations had on her family's experiences with death.

00:00 Introduction to Hospice Explained

00:43 Meet Yvonne Caputo: A Multifaceted Professional

01:06 Flying with Dad: A Journey Through WWII Stories

01:15 Dying with Dad: Conversations About End-of-Life Wishes

02:52 The Importance of Advanced Directives

05:57 A Heartfelt Goodbye: Yvonne's Personal Story

12:50 Impact of the Five Wishes Document

21:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections

23:42 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

https://www.fivewishes.org/

https://agingwithdignity.org/five-wishes/

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