The Attached Life

(2) Born to be Me - Toddler Stage


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This episode, 'The Attached Life', explores the developmental stage in early childhood where autonomy clashes with feelings of shame and self-doubt. It shares how this phase can influence the adult's difficulty in making decisions or pursuing their desires and discusses why such responses are rooted in childhood interactions with caregivers. The speaker utilizes examples of everyday parental situations to demonstrate how a child's autonomy should ideally be met with balance and containment. It touches upon the potential impacts of caregivers' personal anxiety, religious constrictions, and financial strains on a child's autonomous development. Lastly, it offers practical tips for adults to address and nurture their 'inner child', promoting self-awareness and personal growth.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to the Concept of Inner Child

00:56 Understanding the Importance of Choices and Preferences

03:11 Exploring the Concepts of Shame and Self-Doubt

05:54 The Impact of Early Life Experiences on Adult Life

08:45 The Role of Trust in Developing Autonomy

20:31 The Consequences of Suppressing Natural Impulses

23:02 Understanding the Origins of Negative Self Beliefs

32:27 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Child Development

37:47 Techniques for Overcoming Shame and Self-Doubt

43:31 Conclusion: Embracing the Inner Child

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The Attached LifeBy Yakov Danishefsky

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