The Skillful Podcast

#20: How Do You Talk to Yourself?


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In today's episode, we discuss your relationship with yourself, focusing on the skill of Loving-Kindness.

  • When you are having a hard time, are you kind or harsh with yourself?
  • Do you berate yourself for real or perceived mistakes?
  • Do you try to motivate yourself with criticism?

These tactics tend to not work in the long-run and erode your sense of self.

What if you had permission to be gentle and compassionate with yourself?

The DBT skill of Loving-Kindness meditation is based on the Buddhist practice of Metta, which can help you cultivate a gentle, loving relationship with yourself. Although the roots of this skill lie in Buddhism, we offer a secular version of the practice here.

To learn more about this podcast and full show notes, go to bayareadbtcc.com

Ask Us a Question!

We'd love to hear from you! Where are you getting stuck with your skills application? Ask us a question for the chance to have it answered on the podcast. Submit your question here.

Please note that questions, and this podcast in general, are not a substitute for individual mental health treatment.

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