If you're thinking about having your friend carry your baby for free, we get it—it seems like the perfect solution! Imagine bypassing agency fees and jumping into the fast lane to having your baby.

But have you considered all the hidden costs and potential pitfalls?

It sounds great on the surface, but surrogacy, even with a friend, is more complex when you go deeper. There are important things you need to know and think about up front to avoid going down a rabbit hole of unexpected issues.

Think your friend carrying your baby will simplify everything? Here's why you might be wrong:

In this episode, you'll hear:

- [00:54]: Why a friend carrying for free doesn’t mean free surrogacy.

- [01:32]: The real costs involved, even when a friend offers to help for free.

- [11:30]: Why legal steps are non-negotiable even in altruistic surrogacy.

- [14:28]: The qualifications and readiness required for a friend to be a surrogate.

- [15:09]: The physical and emotional demands on your friend.

- [18:57]: How to support and show appreciation to your friend during the journey.

If you’re wondering how to ensure a smooth surrogacy process when your friend offers to carry for you, you found the right episode. 

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Links mentioned in the episode 

Surrogacy Start Kit with Step-by-Step Surrogacy Checklist

The Surrogacy Blueprint - Surrogacy accelerator course

Safe Surrogacy - 6 insider tips to avoid scams and pitfalls (premium training)

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