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#26: Unbecoming – The Journey of Reconnecting with Wholeness w/ Dorota Stanczyk


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Episode 26 — Acclaimed author and keynote speaker Dorota Stańczyk (@dorotastanczykart) joins James Xander (@emperorjames) on The James Xander Trip podcast for a profound exploration of the heart, the nuances of self-love, the truth behind rejection, dropping our masks, and healing from the conditioning that shapes us.

Together, we tackle the tough questions about the nature of emotions, why we often betray ourselves, navigating the emotion of anger, understanding people-pleasing tendencies, how to create alignment in each moment, and staying connected to the Divine.

Thank you Dorota for your profound wisdom and presence. It was an absolute pleasure to have you on The James Xander Trip!

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CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (03:30) - What Does Self-Love Mean to You?
  • (06:57) - Life Is All About Unbecoming
  • (10:18) - The Ego Is a Defense Mechanism
  • (12:33) - Dorota's Healing Journey
  • (14:53) - The Moment of Surrender
  • (17:00) - Our Body Is Designed to Heal Itself
  • (21:25) - Full Acceptance Is Necessary for Healing
  • (25:10) - Dorota's Deepest Realization During Vipassana
  • (26:15) - Everything Exists in a Perfect Polarity
  • (28:18) - Stay in Your Center
  • (29:25) - What Is Present for You?
  • (31:46) - Self Love vs Self Worth
  • (35:33) - Why Do We Betray Ourselves?
  • (37:19) - The Truth About Rejection
  • (38:50) - The Biggest Rejection We Fear Is Our Own
  • (42:03) - Why Do We People-Please?
  • (44:01) - How To Say No to Others
  • (45:04) - Alignment Creates Alignment
  • (46:33) - What Is Anger?
  • (49:18) - Why Are You Triggered?
  • (51:40) - Projections, Judgements, and The Truth
  • (55:58) - Falling in Love with Ideas vs the Truth (Biggest Lesson in Relationships)
  • (01:02:11) - Being Honest with Yourself
  • (01:04:32) - Dropping Your Expectations
  • (01:06:13) - We Are Always Mirroring Each Other
  • (01:07:17) - Allowing Others To Be As They Are
  • (01:10:11) - Protection Is Creating Separation
  • (01:12:29) - The Moment of True Acceptance
  • (01:15:08) - The Light and Dark Within Us All
  • (01:17:58) - Forgiving Ourselves for Past Mistakes
  • (01:21:26) - Psychedelics, Plant Medicine, Breathwork, Meditation
  • (01:24:06) - Theta Meditations
  • (01:27:25) - Altered States of Consciousness & Connecting with Source
  • (01:30:44) - Final Piece of Advice
  • (01:32:12) - Conclusion & Re-create Yourself Book

  • Connect with Dorota Stanczyk:
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    In this episode, we dive into:

    • Importance of self-love and self-awareness
    • Unconditional acceptance and surrender in healing and reconnecting with wholeness
    • The concept of unbecoming and embracing all aspects of oneself
    • The impact of childhood experiences on self-love and self-awareness
    • The journey of reconnecting with wholeness and unlearning societal conditioning
    • The difference between self-love and self-worth
    • The concept of dropping masks and not cheating on oneself
    • Balancing acceptance and compatibility in relationships
    • The impact of energy dynamics and mirroring in relationships
    • The role of altered states of consciousness in the journey of self-discovery


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