Words That Move Me with Dana Wilson

261. The Confidence Episode


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This is my episode on Confidence and what’s keeping you from feeling it!

In this solo episode, Dana (movement director, artist developer, and your unofficial confidence coach) breaks down the one thing her students, pop stars, and actors keep asking for, and why they've been thinking about it all wrong.

Spoiler: confidence isn't a skill you build. It's a feeling you're willing to have.

We explore:

  • Task-based confidence vs. self-confidence. Why the version of confidence most of us are chasing is actually the smallest slice of the pie, and what the rest of the grocery store looks like when you finally walk in.
    • The milk metaphor that started it all. From shaking toddler hands to one-handed, foot-on-the-door pouring, and why crying over spilled milk is actually the origin story of every performer who's ever said, "I just need more confidence."
      • Willingness as the real currency. How walking into a room of 500 phenomenal dancers with zero world tour credits on your resume can still look like you've done it before, and the single mindset shift that makes that possible.
      • This episode is the one her student asked for, the one she thought she'd already made, and the one that might permanently change the way you think about what it means to be unflappable.

        So, are you willing to feel your least favorite feeling?

        Watch the full episode here.

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