After an accidental cruise I took with my two little ones last week, I am feeling called to talk about what to do when things don’t go according to plan. Needless to say, I never planned to take a seven day cruise with a 3 year old and a 9 month old by myself, but it happened and I definitely learned a lot. This episode is a straight from the heart solo episode about this experience: the struggles and challenges, but the amazing memories as well. When things don’t go according to the plans we make, we can resist them or we can look for blessings and opportunities to expand. Which perspective will you have? It's time to experience how good life can get. The $50K Club Mastermind is accepting applications for the female entrepreneurs who are ready to achieve the next level. Apply at https://elysearcher.com/50kclub/.    Show Notes: [1:26] - After a comical and accidental vacation, Elyse experienced the challenge of not having a plan and not being in control. [3:21] - Every single challenging experience is an opportunity to learn a lesson. [4:59] - 2023 was a challenging year for Elyse with lots of positive changes but a lot of uncertainty. [7:11] - Elyse manifested this cruise experience, but some unexpected plot twists changed the plans. [10:30] - Elyse shares some of the challenges experienced on the cruise that were completely out of her control. [12:42] - She realizes that she will not make the decision to take a solo vacation with her children at this young age. [15:05] - Towards the end of the vacation, Elyse had gotten better at managing her energy. [17:13] - If things are really hard for you right now, remember the context.  [18:41] - It’s all relative. Compare down and not up. [20:19] - When things don’t go according to plan, there’s always something there that will help you expand. [22:07] - We can look at these scenarios in one of two ways. [23:16] - Elyse faced challenges this year that made her feel like she just couldn’t do it. These pushed her edges and made her stronger. [25:38] - It’s all about your perspective and the lens you are looking through. [27:26] - Loving yourself unlocks another whole level. [29:01] - Elyse is looking for the people she is meant to serve in 2024.  [30:50] - Elyse describes the $50K Club and what to look forward to in the coming year.   Links and Resources: Instagram  |  LinkedIn  |  YouTube She Sells with Elyse Archer Home Page Abundance Mini Course Join the $10K Club Apply for the $50K Club Mastermind