Welcome back to the kitchen table. Motherhood has a way of making perfection feel like the goal. We chase it relentlessly—the perfect routines, the perfect responses, the perfect balance of patience and discipline. We convince ourselves there’s a standard we should meet.

This lie catches us fast.

We snap at our children and hear, you always mess up. We make a mistake and think, I’ll never get this right. The weight of it presses down, convincing us that if we could just try harder, do better, be more—we’d finally measure up.

But here’s the truth: You don’t need to be perfect. You are forgiven.

Ephesians 1 reminds us that we have redemption through Christ, that his grace covers us. Motherhood isn’t about proving ourselves; it’s about learning under forgiveness. 

When we sin against our children, we don’t have to carry shame. We get to model repentance. We get to show them what it looks like to walk in grace.

You were never meant to be perfect. You were meant to be redeemed.

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