With You in the Weeds

4 Habits of a Healthy Marriage


Listen Later

Do you know which habits will make the most positive and lasting impact on your marriage? Although ideas about what makes marriage work change from one generation to another, there are evidence-based habits that characterize a healthy marriage.


In this episode, Shay and Lynn explore what toxic behaviors erode your relationships including criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling and contempt. Using Gottman Institute research and biblical wisdom, this conversation sheds light on why these attitudes and actions do so much harm to your marriage.


Then we discuss what 4 habits you’ll want to practice instead:

  • Giving and receiving regular feedback
  • Taking ownership
  • Managing your emotions
  • Cultivating humility and forgiveness
  • There are many benefits to implementing these 4 habits into all of your relationships, and it’s never too late to start! This is a practical episode that will offer concrete changes you can work on now to create a stronger bond with your partner as you navigate the challenges of marriage. 

    If you liked this episode, text it to a friend! And please consider rating WYITW on your podcast player and leave the team a review. You can subscribe to our newsletter at withyouintheweeds.com and follow us on Instagram @withyouintheweeds!

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    With You in the WeedsBy With You in the Weeds

    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9

    4.9

    86 ratings


    More shows like With You in the Weeds

    View all
    Life.Church with Craig Groeschel by Life.Church

    Life.Church with Craig Groeschel

    3,444 Listeners

    Fresh Life Church by Pastor Levi Lusko

    Fresh Life Church

    1,545 Listeners

    Focus on the Family with Jim Daly by Focus on the Family

    Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

    4,790 Listeners

    The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast by The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

    The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

    4,815 Listeners

    Raising Boys & Girls by That Sounds Fun Network

    Raising Boys & Girls

    1,794 Listeners

    Pardon the Mess with Courtney DeFeo - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids by Courtney DeFeo and Christian Parenting

    Pardon the Mess with Courtney DeFeo - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids

    831 Listeners

    WHOA That's Good Podcast by Sadie Robertson Huff

    WHOA That's Good Podcast

    13,058 Listeners

    The Bible Recap by Tara-Leigh Cobble

    The Bible Recap

    35,216 Listeners

    The Daily Grace Podcast by The Daily Grace Co.

    The Daily Grace Podcast

    3,018 Listeners

    Ten Minute Bible Talks Devotional Bible Study by Ten Minute Bible Talks

    Ten Minute Bible Talks Devotional Bible Study

    1,019 Listeners

    Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology by AccessMore

    Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology

    2,746 Listeners

    The Best of You by Dr. Alison Cook

    The Best of You

    798 Listeners

    Therapy and Theology by Lysa TerKeurst

    Therapy and Theology

    1,906 Listeners

    The Deep Dish by The Gospel Coalition

    The Deep Dish

    144 Listeners