Nine Centered: The New School of Human Design Podcast

4. The Surprising Truth about the Not-Self


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In this episode, Teresa and James explore the often misunderstood concept of the Not-Self in Human Design, reframing it as a necessary and valuable part of the deconditioning process.

Key Topics Covered:

  • The Not-Self as Integral

    • The Not-Self isn't separate from the True Self—it exists within both defined and undefined centers.

    • Understanding the Not-Self is essential to understanding the Self.

  • The Somatic Roots of the Not-Self

    • Not just a set of mental stories—the Not-Self is deeply connected to somatic experiences.

    • Mental patterns often arise as protective mechanisms against difficult sensations.

  • The Protective Nature of the Not-Self

    • The Not-Self functions as a survival strategy shaped by culture, family, and early conditioning.

    • Rather than being an enemy, it attempts to keep us safe.

  • What True Deconditioning Requires

    • Awareness of mental patterns is just the starting point.

    • Real transformation involves working with the body and nervous system.

    • Embodiment practices help access and process the sensations that underlie conditioned behavior.

  • Co-Regulation and Nervous System Awareness

    • Deconditioning is supported by co-regulation—between personality and design, and with others.

    • The emerging solar plexus awareness is rooted in emotional and somatic intelligence.

  • Reframing the Not-Self

    • It’s not something to be ashamed of or eliminated.

    • It's a universal part of the human experience and an ally in growth.

    • Integration—not elimination—is the goal.

  • Why Somatic Practices Matter

    • Support trauma processing and nervous system regulation

    • Foster deeper body awareness and embodiment of design

    • Create space for the Not-Self to be met, understood, and integrated





  • This course blends Human Design and somatic work to support the deconditioning journey at a deeper, more embodied level. Check out the syllabus and get more information here


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