Being a leader comes with challenges. As a relationship progresses, how close do you let someone in until the dynamic changes and they begin to equalize themselves to the leader's success even though they have none of their own? The stories and negatives start to swirl, and now there is a competition to outdo the leader.  Let them go. That is what leaders do. For more information and Steve Judson's books and merchandise, visit WakeUpHumans.org.