What if the root of our anxiety, people-pleasing, and unhealthy relationship patterns isn’t personal weakness—but a deeper cultural conditioning that keeps us trapped in hierarchy and control?

In Part 3 of the Radical Truth in Relationships series, Darla Ridilla sits down with Amy Vasterling—future-focused author of Know: Where the Status Quo Ends and You Come to Life—to explore how reclaiming your inner knowing can dismantle old patterns and open the door to authentic connection.

Together they unpack:

• What Amy calls The Model—the invisible system of control and comparison we’ve all been conditioned to live by.
• Why ignoring our knowing leads to chronic anxiety, disconnection, and even illness.
• A radical new lens on narcissism as “social disordering,” rooted in unmet needs.
• How natural consequences fuel maturity and true self-expression.
• Why highly sensitive women are the change-makers society needs right now.

If you’ve ever felt silenced, dismissed, or pressured to shrink in order to belong, this conversation will remind you that you already carry the wisdom you’ve been searching for—and that living from your knowing changes everything.

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