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#75 How to Have Impossible Conversations Part II - Book Summary


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🎧 Welcome back to Wise Words Book Summaries! 🎧

In Part 2 of our summary of "How to Have Impossible Conversations" by Peter Boghossian and James Lindsay, we cover:

🌟 Improve Your Interventions:

  • Let Friends Be Wrong: Accept different beliefs.
  • Build Golden Bridges: Create pathways to understanding.
  • Use Effective Language: Connect with the right words.
  • Introduce Scales: Clarify discussions.

💬 Advanced Skills for Tough Conversations:

  • Rapoport's Rules: Build trust and respect.
  • Seek Disconfirmation: Challenge your own views.
  • Use "Yes, and": Enhance dialogue.
  • Manage Anger: Stay calm.

🧠 Engaging the Close-Minded:

  • Synthesize Information: Find common ground.
  • Help Vent Steam: Allow emotional release.
  • Use Altercasting: Positively frame roles.
  • Probe Beliefs: Gently challenge limits.

🗣️ Talking with Ideologues:

  • Specific Strategies: Tailor your approach.
  • Moral Reframing: Connect on shared values.

🔄 Overall Strategy:

  • Outsource: Seek help when needed.
  • Change Your Mind: Be open to new ideas.
  • Resolve Stuck Conversations: Keep discussions flowing.

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Chapters:
Introduction-00:00:00
Chapter 4: Intermediate Level: Seven Ways to Improve Your Interventions-00:00:11
Let friends be wrong-00:00:18
Build golden bridges-00:04:48
Language-00:10:59
Stuck?-00:14:45
Change your mind-00:19:22
Introduce scales-00:20:54
Outsourcing-00:28:30
Conclusion-00:31:18
Chapter 5: Five Advanced Skills for Contentious Conversations-00:35:33
Keep Rapoport's rules-00:35:52
Avoid facts-00:40:05
Seek disconfirmation-00:47:00
Yes, and-00:59:58
Dealing with anger-01:01:31
Chapter 6: Six Expert Skills to Engage the Close-Minded-01:09:43
Synthesis-01:09:48
Help vent steam-01:12:07
Altercasting-01:14:59
Hostage Negotiations-01:20:32
Probe the limits-01:22:26
Counter-intervention strategies-01:29:45
Chapter 7: Master Level: Two Keys to Conversing With Idealogues-01:33:47
How to converse with an idealogue-01:35:04
Moral reframing-01:51:52
Conclusion-01:58:04
Debrief-01:59:03
Outro-02:05:49

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