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In this episode I talk about the sibling dynamic that emerges in caring for aging parents.

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In this episode of 'Real Conversations about Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia delves into the complexities of elderly caregiving among adult siblings. She shares personal experiences and observations from dozens of families navigating care for aging parents. Topics include the influence of gender roles, birth order, geographic proximity, and sibling conflicts on caregiving responsibilities. Rebecca also provides practical strategies for effective communication and role delegation among siblings, particularly highlighting the significance of clear, centralized communication channels and understanding of legal directives. This detailed discussion is aimed at helping families better manage the emotional and logistical challenges of supporting aging parents.

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Reflections

00:48 Personal Family Dynamics

05:48 Gender Influence in Caregiving

12:03 Birth Order and Caregiving Responsibilities

14:25 Challenges of Being an Only Child

16:03 Geographic Proximity and Caregiving

17:44 Geography's Role in Elder Care

21:10 Family Conflicts and Caregiving Challenges

22:14 Impact of Estrangement on Elder Care

27:30 Flexible Work Schedules and Caregiving

30:02 Strategies for Family Meetings

33:56 Effective Communication and Collaboration

34:54 Conclusion and Call to Action

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• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
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Rebecca

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