Welcome!

In this episode I interview social gerontologist Benjamin Surmi and we discuss various aspects of aging, from professional roles in senior living to the importance of community and the different types of senior living arrangements available today.

Introduction

What Is Social Gerontology?

Academic Path to Gerontology

Work in Senior Living Communities

Designing Senior Living Experiences

Types of Senior Living Communities

Financial Considerations

Role of Long-Term Care Insurance

Chooser a Senior Living Community

Innovative and Future Trends

More information About Benjamin Surmi and his communities:

Koelsch Communities' website: https://koelschseniorcommunities.com

Koelsch Communities' social media: 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KoelschCommunitiesLLC

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/koelschcommunities/

Benjamin Surmi's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminsurmi/

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

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Rebecca

Link to my website

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I discuss various broad types of mobility aids (wheelchairs, walkers, canes) just to give you an insight into how and when they are used to help people getting from point A to point B.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Website: rebeccatapiamd.com

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I review several pitfalls related to discharging from a hospital or rehab setting.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I talk about the visual experience of aging loved ones, what the nuerological basis is for these interactions, and some tips on how to adjust over time.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode of Real Conversations About Aging Parents, host Rebecca Tapia talks with Doug about his personal journey with his aging mother, who is currently in a nursing home. Doug shares insights into the emotional and logistical challenges involved, including the impact of his father's early death, his brother's passing, and his mother's health issues due to weight gain. The discussion covers the importance of pre-planning, having candid conversations about future care, and the financial and administrative aspects of long-term nursing home care. Doug also reflects on the emotional toll and the continuous need to adapt and find practical solutions.

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

00:29 Doug's Background and Family History

01:28 Challenges with Aging Parents

04:44 Health Issues and Assisted Living Decisions

06:42 Transition to Nursing Home

11:40 Maintaining the Household

12:07 Selling the Car

12:43 Rising Costs of Care

13:52 Living Arrangements and Acceptance

14:26 Financial Concerns and Future Planning

14:54 Health and Support System

15:34 Challenges of Moving

16:20 Symbiotic Relationships

20:12 Power of Attorney and Financial Oversight

21:20 Preparing for the Future

25:00 Adapting to Nursing Home Life

25:53 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I get to interview another volleyball parent, Mike, who shares a valuable journey in caring for his Mom who has worsening dementia.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode we discuss navigating Elder Care Challenges with Frances Reeves

In this insightful episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca welcomes Frances Reeves, an accomplished attorney and author. Frances shares her deeply personal journey dealing with her parents' aging process, including her mother's dementia and her father's cognitive decline. She discusses the challenges of long-term care insurance, Medicaid, and the emotional turmoil of caregiving. Frances also offers practical advice for adult children facing similar situations and touches on the importance of planning and elder care resources. The conversation covers a range of topics from financial planning to the emotional complexities of caring for aging parents.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:38 Frances Reeves' Passion for Elder Care

01:39 Personal Journey with Aging Parents

02:39 Challenges of Long-Term Care

07:35 Navigating Long-Term Care Insurance

13:57 Transition to Assisted Living

22:07 Advice for Caregivers

25:22 Navigating Complex Parent-Child Relationships

26:16 Personal Struggles and Growth

30:08 Dealing with Estranged Parents

31:42 Transition to Elder Care Law

32:46 Challenges in Elder Care

38:27 Future Projects and Philosophies

40:03 Support Systems and Resources

44:25 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

49:38 Conclusion and Contact Information

H. Frances Reaves is an elder law attorney and author of Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After 65. Frances is the founder of Parent Your Parents (PYP), an organization dedicated to providing seniors with access to benefits and resources while safeguarding them from scams and exploitation. PYP offers a comprehensive approach, including legal support, therapy, and medical record reviews, ensuring that seniors and their families make informed decisions to create meaningful final chapters in their lives.

More info at: https://parentyourparents.com/expert/frances-reaves/

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I talk about a perspective on time, who is rich with time? Who is poor? How do we slow it down, is that even possible? How does this relate to aging parents?

Emotional Billionaires - Episode 67

Here is the other podcast episode I mentioned: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-the-hacks-with-chris-hutchins/id1560751222?i=1000689258155

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I talk about returning to the office after teleworking for awhile and some of the barriers or stress this may present for you or your family.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.

Welcome!

In this episode I talk about urinary tract infections and my very recent very close to home interaction with how serious they can be.

Caveats:

• This is a judgement free zone
• There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity
• Take what works well for you, leave the rest!
• This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice

If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too!

Rebecca

Disclaimer: The information presented on this podcast is solely for information purposes. We do not provide medical, legal, financial, or other professional advice through this podcast and we are not responsible for any errors or omissions. It is your responsibility to seek advice from a licensed professional. Any actions you take are done at your own risk.