In this episode of 8000 Promises' the focus is on friendship and community. Adi Tilford and her friends Ondi and Nancy, discuss their personal journeys and insights on establishing and maintaining meaningful connections. Ondi, a mother and writer, shares her proactive approach to building friendships, while Nancy, who has faced challenges with social anxiety, speaks candidly about her experiences and progress. The conversation also explores the definitions of friendship and community, the value of consistent engagement, and how these relationships contribute to personal healing. The episode concludes with a discussion on the importance of play and how each plans to incorporate it into their summer.

00:00 Introduction to the Episode

00:43 Meet the Guests: Ondi and Nancy

04:35 Unexpected Friendships

08:55 Defining Friendship and Community

10:40 Engaging in Community

20:17 Personal Challenges in Building Friendships

23:28 Struggles with Social Anxiety

24:48 Ted's Influence and Overcoming Fear

28:01 The Role of Consistency and Community

29:34 Healing Through Relationships

38:15 The Spiritual Discipline of Playing

42:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Keywords: friendship, community, engage,investment in friendships, unexpected friendships, healing through friendships, spirituality and friendships

Get your copy of Heavenly Hustle HERE

To hear more about Heavenly Hustle  or read more things like you just heard visit www.abideandwrite.com, or follow along with me on Instagram: @abideandwrite, or Facebook: Abide & Write. 

8KP Episodes with Ondi:

Little Yeses Go A Long Way - Season 1

Surprise: God’s Promise for Friendship - Season 2

Your Words Defeat the Enemy (Ignite Insight) - Series 4

From Childhood Dreams to Heavenly Hustle: A Father-Daughter Dialogue with Ondi Mejia and Peter Foster - Series 6

You can connect with Nancy on instagram at my.unphotoshopped.life and on Tiktok at my.unphotoshopped.life and on her website https://myunphotoshoppedlife.com/ 

8KP Episodes with Nancy:

You are Not as Bad as You Think Because God is Better than you Know - Season 2

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

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Additional Resources Mentioned: 

Invitation to a Journey by Robert Mulholland

Join Adi Tilford, along with her Nerdy Bible Girls co-hosts Tiff Haithley and Jamie Adams, as they dive into a heartfelt discussion on unexpected friendships, the lessons they bring, and the importance of being present in each other's lives. In this episode, they share personal stories of unlikely connections and reflect on maintaining meaningful relationships amidst life's chaos.

 Introduction: Welcoming Words

 Prayer and Purpose

 Unexpected Friendships

 Jayme's Tale: Virginia, the Retired Nun

 Tiff's Unexpected Friendship

 Adi's Story: Wylene, the Elder Mentor

 Insights on Friendships and Grieving

 Jesus, Friendships, and Compassion

 Maintaining and Letting Go

 The Depth of Presence

 Season of Play

 Conclusion: The Value of Friendship

Keywords: friendship, unexpected friendships, growth, change, grieving, letting go, joy, pain, losses, grief, healing, joy, friendship, pain, testimony, play, balance, vulnerability

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

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Want to connect with Jayme? Email her at [email protected]

What about Tiff? Give her a follow and  DM her on instagram! @tiffanyhaifleywriter, 

Buy Mrs. Poppish’s Pickles: Barnes and Noble, Amazon

https://www.tiffanyhaifley.com/

Resources Mentioned:

Christine Caine clip about friendship

Parker Palmer- Let Your Life Speak

Do the New You by Stephen Furtick

You have a Stunning Capacity to Do Hard Things! Sadie Robertson Huff & Katherine Wolf

Through the Eyes of a Lion: Facing Impossible Pain, Finding Incredible Power by Levi Lusco

More Nerdy Bible Girl Episodes:

Intro to the Nerdy Bible Girls

Amplify: God Sees & Hears Every ONE

Unpacking Forgiveness: A Journey with the Nerdy Bible Girls

These Dreams We Have: Faith, Dreams and Real Life with the Nerdy Bible Girls S6:E:68

In this episode, Adi Tilford shares the third and final part of the therapeutic story called 'Born to be Queen'. The story follows a woman who learns valuable lessons from a gardener after a childhood marked by unwanted experiences in the desert. In part III, the woman embarks on a journey through the desert, facing her fears and discovering her true identity. She eventually finds the golden crown she was given at birth and realizes that she was born to be queen. Adi Tilford also mentions upcoming episodes on the topic of friendship.

Keywords: therapeutic story, healing, Jesus, ministry, life on earth, identity, journey, desert, fear, truth, crown, queen, friendship

If you need to listen:  

Part I: The Lost Crown

Part II: Born to Be Queen

Want to Read It: 8000 Promises Blog

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

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Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer  ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your  ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!

In this episode of the 8000 Promises series on dreams and desires, Adi and Spencer Owen, who brings his expertise in scripture and neuroscience, delve deep into the nature of dreams, desires, and their spiritual and psychological impacts. They explore the challenges of trusting God, dealing with unmet needs, and understanding how our desires align with our identity and spiritual growth. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural analysis, they discuss the balance between contentment and longing, the process of maturing spiritually, and the importance of recognizing our limitations. The episode concludes with a discussion on gratitude and the transformative power of aligning ourselves with God's desire for us.

00:00 Introduction to Dreams and Desires

01:27 Spencer's Childhood Dreams

04:49 Connecting Childhood Dreams to Adult Life

09:09 Theological Reflections on Desires

19:05 Parental Reflections and Spiritual Growth

28:06 Balancing Contentment and Desire

28:44 Exploring Incarnational Theology

29:13 The Role of Anger and Forgiveness

31:41 Trusting God Amidst Fear and Scarcity

36:51 The Courageous Work of Counseling

38:56 Learning to Trust and Let Go

40:33 The Process of Spiritual Transformation

57:05 The Importance of Gratitude

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Keywords: childhood dreams, desires, impact, theology, identity, contentment, longing, maturity, growth, fulfillment, trust, fear of death, scarcity mindset, surrender, desires, dreams, faithfulness, gratitude

You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling

Watch the Live Video of this Conversation on Facebook

More from Spencer:

The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen

Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone 

Grapple with Forgiveness with Spencer Owen 

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer  ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your  ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!

In this heartfelt episode, Adi welcomes back Casey - the 8KP cynic -  to discuss their different worldviews and how dreams, desires, and longings shape their lives.They explore the transformation of dreams from seeking the spotlight to prioritizing family and presence. The conversation delves into the importance of being present with family, the role of art and creativity, and how understanding and redirecting dreams and desires can lead to a more fulfilling life. This episode offers rich insights into the evolution of aspirations and the significance of making choices aligned with personal values and responsibilities.

00:00 Welcome Back, Casey!

01:09 Childhood Dreams and Realities

02:24 The Shift to Comedy

03:27 Balancing Dreams and Family

07:05 Parenting and Influence

21:31 Reflections on Art and Career Choices

29:03 The Comedic Mind at Work

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Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer  ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your  ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!

In this episode of the 8000 Promises podcast, Adi  converses with Josh and Katie Walters about their book New Marriage, Same Couple and their journey in marriage. They discuss topics like dreams and desires from childhood, the impact of pain and crisis on relationships, and the importance of confession therapy in sustaining a healthy marriage. The episode delves into personal stories of vulnerability, healing, and growth, highlighting how maintaining hope and working through difficulties with God’s help can lead to a deeper, more fulfilling relationship. They also touch on the significance of humor and fun in marriage and share practical advice for couples. The Walters emphasize that despite the challenges, choosing to stay and work through pain can result in a stronger, more intimate partnership.

00:00 Welcome to the 8000 Promises Podcast: A Candid Conversation with Josh and Katie

01:10 Dreams and Desires: Childhood Aspirations and Their Impact

01:44 The Dream of a Big Family: Josh and Katie's Story

04:26 From Childhood Dreams to Real-Life Adventures

08:37 Sharing Hope and Healing Through Personal Stories

08:42 The Power of Vulnerability and Redemption in Marriage

12:27 Finding Humor and Joy Amidst Life's Challenges

14:40 Reclaiming Love and Laughter in Marriage

17:40 New Marriage, Same Couple: A Journey of Reconnection and Growth

31:25 Navigating Betrayal and Trust in Relationships

32:17 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing

34:15 Embracing Confession Therapy for Deeper Connection

36:45 The Power of Vulnerability in Strengthening Bonds

44:44 Implementing Confession in Daily Life

45:31 The Importance of Timing and Listening in Confession

49:52 Confession as a Pathway to Resolving Conflicts

57:03 Gratitude: Reflecting on Love and Salvation

Connect with Josh and Katie:Josh Instagram: joshwalters

Katie Instagram: katiewalters

Learn more and book the Walters for speaking events: joshandkatiewalters.com

Schedule a breakthrough call with the Walters: https://joshandkatiewalters.com/resources/

Purchase New Marriage, Same Couple for you and your spouse:

Purchase the New Marriage, Same Couple Workbook for you and your spouse:

Purchase New Marriage, Same Couple for your church: https://bulkbooks.com/products/new-marriage-same-couple-don-t-let-your-worst-days-be-your-last-days

Purchase the New Marriage, Same Couple workbook for your church:

https://bulkbooks.com/products/new-marriage-same-couple-workbook-don-t-let-your-worst-days-be-your-last-days

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer  ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your  ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!

Other Resources: 

Jess Connoly Podcast - New Marriage, Same Couple, an interview with Josh and Katie Walters

Series on Forgiveness: Start Here

The Basin and The Peacemaker: Adi’s Sermon that referenced Confession Therapy

Date Night with the Walters

In this episode of the 8000 Promises Podcast Ondi Mejia and her father Peter discuss their journey of faith, dreams, and longings. Ondi shares about her new book Heavenly Hustle: Giving Your Earthly Life a Heavenly Purpose and reflects on her childhood dreams and how they shape her life today. Peter adds his insights on dreams from his own childhood and how they influenced his path, including his commitment to ministry and living a Jesus-centered life. The conversation also delves into the importance of reading scripture, living a congruent life, and the role of parents in discipling their children. The episode concludes with a shared practice of gratitude.

00:00 Welcome to the 8000 Promises Podcast: A Special Episode with Ondi and Peter

00:50 Exploring Dreams and Longings with Ondi and Peter

01:37 Childhood Dreams: Soccer Aspirations and National Park Ranger Wishes

04:54 Introducing Ondi and Peter: A Deep Dive into Their Lives and Ministries

10:57 Ondi's Book Heavenly Hustle: Blending Earthly Life with Heavenly Purpose

13:05 Generational Faith and Ministry: The Legacy of Living a Jesus Life

20:10 Discerning God's Will: Aligning Desires with Divine Purpose

25:12 Finding God in Unexpected Places

25:31 The Journey to Open Spaces with God

25:55 Grocery Store Gospel: Encountering God in Everyday Life

26:36 Embracing Secular Spaces to Share Jesus

27:25 Teaching and Living Jesus in Public Schools

28:02 Reflecting Jesus Beyond the Church Walls

30:24 Spiritual Practices for a Congruent Life

39:43 Empowering Parents in Spiritual Discipleship

43:36 Gratitude: Reflecting on Blessings

Keywords: dreams, desires, longings, childhood dreams, athletics, discipline, mission, purpose, faith, love, kindness, public spaces, schools, spiritual practices, scripture, discipleship, parenting, congruency, church, community, gratitude

Get your copy of Heavenly Hustle HERE

To hear more about Heavenly Hustle  or read more things like you just heard visit www.abideandwrite.com, or follow along with me on Instagram: @abideandwrite, or Facebook: Abide & Write. 

8KP Episodes with Ondi:

Little Yeses Go A Long Way - Season 1

Surprise: God’s Promise for Friendship - Season 2

Your Words Defeat the Enemy (Ignite Insight) - Series 4

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

Are you a cycle breaker and a world changer  ready to begin your own reflective journey toward recognizing the transforming work already happening in your life? Get your  ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF here!

In this captivating interview, Cameron shares her journey from a child entrepreneur with a passion for making a difference to the founder of Reverent Rhythms, a faith-based performing arts ministry. She discusses the importance of following through on million-dollar ideas with determination, her personal struggles and triumphs, including overcoming divorce and personal challenges while building her ministry. Cameron emphasizes the role of privilege in pursuing dreams and the need for boundaries to protect priorities. She also provides advice for young listeners, encouraging them not to let fear of failure hinder their success. The interview touches on Cameron's gratitude for her upbringing and how it enabled her to chase her dreams. Supporting Reverent Rhythms and their programs, especially those aimed at providing dance classes to underprivileged children, is highlighted as a way to make a tangible difference.

00:33 Unveiling Childhood Dreams: Cameron's Entrepreneurial Spirit

03:31 The Power of Support: Encouraging Young Entrepreneurs

06:11 Embracing Imperfection: A Journey of Growth and Apology

11:28 The Genesis of Reverent Rhythms: A Dream Realized

13:45 From Vision to Reality: The Expansion of Reverent Rhythms

22:07 A Leap of Faith: Securing the Future Home of Reverent Rhythms

27:43 The Journey of Reverent Rhythms: From Gymnasium to Global Impact

28:44 Facing Challenges and Celebrating Successes

29:08 The Power of Saying Yes to God's Call

30:14 Building a Community of Support: The Role of Prayer and Partnership

33:52 Navigating Personal Growth and Professional Dreams

37:36 Embracing Boundaries and Priorities in Personal and Professional Life

52:55 The Importance of Recognizing Privilege and Gratitude

55:19 Supporting Reverent Rhythms and Making a Difference

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Keywords: Cameron Cunningham, Reverent Rhythms, performing arts, ministry, dance, outreach, missions, growth, dreams, vision, dance ministry, underprivileged children, community support, setting boundaries, pursuing dreams, overcoming challenges, gratitude, privilege, support Reverend Rhythms

Connect with Cameron Cunningham:

https://www.reverentrhythms.com

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087015128288

https://www.instagram.com/reverentrhythmsdancecompany/

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

You can now subscribe⁠ to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF

HomeTown Episodes:

My Body IS a Temple with Health Coach Lina Warner

Saying Yes to the Adventure of Relationship with Tom and Shelly Hansen and Sam Tilford

Stacey Lyons: Part I and Part II

Courtney Carlson Healing Journey

Saying Yes! To Proxy Power and Preserving Dignity with Mona Highline

Unburdened Heart: A True Tale of Forgiving the Unforgivable with Janielle Westermire

Exploring Spiritual Direction and the Power of Desires with Megan Babayco

Dreams, Desires and Choreography with Sally Henry

This episode of 8000 Promises features a special Ignite Insight session with the highly appreciated guest Sally Henry, who discusses the impact of dreams, desires, and longings on our lives, especially in the context of understanding God's will. Sally, a writer, pastor, musician, and behavioral health care coordinator, shares insights from her journey, including how her understanding of dreams, desires, and God's will has evolved over the years. She emphasizes that God wants us to learn how to be loved and to love well, suggesting that fulfillment can come from various paths in life. The conversation touches on themes like self-reflection, the importance of sharing our stories, the concept of being loved by God, and how personal and community dreams can lead to significant impacts and cultural shifts. The episode concludes with an encouragement to remember God's works in our lives and to stay open to how our dreams and desires might shift, inviting listeners to reflect on their own dreams and the concept of divine choreography in navigating them.

00:00 Welcome to Ignite Insight: Exploring Dreams and Desires

00:29 Introducing Sally Henry: A Life of Impact and Insight

03:40 Sally Shares: Reflecting on Dreams, Desires, and God's Will

10:01 Deep Dive into Dreams and Desires: A Conversation with Sally

27:38 The Power of Dreams: Transforming Communities and Lives

42:48 Wrapping Up: An Invitation to Remember and Envision

More resources for you:

Mark 10:35-44

Start to the Forgiveness Series on 8KP

Learn more about Sharefest 

Learn more about Hope of the Grand Valley

More 8KP from Sally Henry

Read Sally’s Essay The Henry Adventure

Connect with Sally on Instagram

Living in the Kingdom for Real

The Journey of Forgiving

In this episode of the 8000 Promises Podcast, host Adi Tilford, invites her friend and spiritual director, Megan Babayco, to discuss the significance of desires, longings, and dreams in spiritual formation. Megan shares her journey from dreaming of becoming an astronaut to actually becoming a pastor, highlighting how her underlying desire to make a difference manifested in her spiritual calling. They delve into the misconceptions about desires within the church and emphasize the importance of aligning desires with God's will for personal growth and fulfillment. Megan introduces practical spiritual practices, such as the prayer of examen to help listeners discern their deepest desires. She also explains the role of spiritual direction in guiding individuals on their spiritual journey. The conversation concludes with advice on finding a spiritual director and the positive impact of community in spiritual development.

00:00 Welcome to the 8000 Promises Podcast: A Conversation with Megan

00:42 Exploring Spiritual Direction with Megan

01:51 Megan's Childhood Dream and Its Impact

07:57 The Essence of Spiritual Direction and Its Personal Journey

17:20 Understanding Desires, Longings, and Dreams in Spiritual Formation

24:50 Exploring Spiritual Desires and Practices

25:37 The Journey of Spiritual Formation

26:22 Embracing and Understanding Our Desires

26:54 Daily Delights: A Practice of Gratitude and Connection

27:44 Spiritual Practices for Deeper Connection

28:11 The Prayer of Examine: Reflecting on God's Presence

31:05 Discerning Our Desires in Light of God's Will

42:23 The Role of Spiritual Direction in Intentional Living

45:00 Closing Thoughts on Gratitude and Spiritual Practice

Keywords

spiritual direction, desires, longings, spiritual formation, self-awareness, discernment, Christian faith, desires, spiritual formation, prayer of examen, discernment, spiritual director, gratitude

You can find me on Instagram at ⁠AdiTilfordWrites⁠, Facebook at ⁠AdiTilford-Author ⁠and at my website ⁠AdiTilford.com.⁠

Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: ⁠https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support⁠

You can now subscribe⁠ to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to God’s promises for your life. ⁠Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF

Resources Mentioned:Parker Palmer- Let Your Life Speak

Transforming Center

Practicing the Way - John Mark Comer

Sacred Rhythms - Ruth Haley Barton

The Spiritual Disciplines Handbook - Adele Calhoun

The Bema Podcast - Episode 96

List of spiritual directors

Get ahold of Megan or watch her preach Monument Presbyterian Church