Fear is the most common force keeping golfers—and people—stuck.

But here's the truth: you're not actually afraid of missing the putt, chunking the chip, or topping your drive.

You're afraid of what it means about you.

• Of being judged.
• Rejected.
• No longer welcome.

In this solo episode, I break down the hidden cost of living in fear and the subtle yet life-changing difference between feeling scared and being fearful. I also discuss timeless wisdom from the Stoics, actionable tools to diffuse fear, and a powerful exercise to help you move forward, on and off the course.

In this episode, you'll learn…

• Why "fear" is a survival state—and why it's keeping you stuck
• The difference between being scared and being afraid
• The 3 primal fears that still drive modern-day self-sabotage
• How fear hijacks your imagination and narrows your focus
• Why standing out—even in a Saturday foursome—can trigger intense fear
• How to use action as a tool to break free from fear's grip
• What Tim Ferriss' "Fear-Setting" exercise can teach you about worst-case scenarios

Get your pencils ready and start listening.

Resources Mentioned:

• Dissecting Fear: Understanding the Invisible Force That Shapes Your Game
• Nerves or Readiness? How to Reframe Your Body's Physical Reaction on (and off) the Golf Course

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Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential.

He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential.

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Key Takeaways:

• Fear is a state of being; scared is a temporary emotion. Understanding this distinction can unlock courageous action.
• All fear traces back to three primal drivers: judgment, abandonment, and rejection.
• Fear hijacks your nervous system and narrows your focus to the worst-case scenario.
• You don't fear the shot—you fear what it might mean about your worth or belonging.
• Action is the antidote to fear—it interrupts paralysis and builds self-trust.
• Avoiding fear feels safe, but it keeps you stuck and drains your energy.
• Hypnotherapy can help uncover and release the root causes of irrational fear.

Key Quotes:

• "Be scared. You can't help that. But don't be afraid." – William Faulkner
• "Fear is a choice. It does not serve you."
• "Feeling scared is normal—it means you care."
• "Golf is a mirror of your personal development journey."
• "Standing out is scary because it threatens your sense of belonging."
• "Suffer more often in imagination than in reality." – Seneca
• "Avoiding fear keeps you safe. Leaning into fear helps you grow."

Time Stamps:

• 00:00: Understanding Fear: The Core of Our Challenges
• 08:14: Types of Fear: The Fear Jar Explained
• 14:34: The Cost of Fear: Stagnation vs. Growth
• 23:04: Action Over Fear: Strategies for Overcoming
• 28:49: Conclusion: Embracing Fear for Personal Growth