September 06, 2021

84 The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast

1 hour 3 minutes

In this episode, I lay out the whole mission and purpose of the Interior Integration for Catholics Podcast -- answering the six central questions so that you can make an informed decision about whether this podcast fits you and your needs. Get the latest in my discernment about this podcast and the Resilient Catholics Community, where we are going.
Lead in: [cue Sundancer music] Who, What, Where, When, Why and How -- those are the six questions we're addressing today about this podcast.
1. Why those questions? It's all about fit. It's all about being clear about the target audience for this podcast and whether or not you fit. I'm putting all my cards on the table, total transparency, so that you can make an informed decision about whether you want to engage with me or not.
2. So let's ask the questions. Who is this Interior Integration for Catholics podcast for -- yes, it's for Catholics, but it's only for a small number of Catholics, maybe about 3700 Catholics in the world. How did I get to that number -- stay with me for the calculations later in this episode.
3. What is this podcast all about -- what is the mission, what is the purpose of the podcast?
4. Where does this podcast focus? Spoiler alert: -- Deep inside you, but you'll have to stay tuned to find out more about that…
5. When: what is the new frequency and episode length for this podcast?
6. Why: Why should you listen? I'm asking you for time, attention, concentration and effort -- why should you engage with this podcast at all? I'll be fleshing out all the reasons
7. How: How do we make it all happen with you, for you and in you?
8. Find out the answer to all of these questions in this episode of Interior Integration for Catholics, number 84, The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast [cue intro music]
Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics, thank you for being here with me, I am honored to be here with you, and today we are discussing you and me and us and this podcast. We are going to get all relational as we often do here. Because this is a relational podcast. I'm not just a talking head in podcastlandia, I'm a real person, you're a real person and I'm into real relationships.
1. I am clinical psychological Peter Malinoski and you are listening to the Interior Integration for Catholics podcast -- the IIC podcast for short). Interior Integration for Catholics is part of our broader outreach Souls and Hearts bringing the best of psychology grounded in a Catholic worldview to you and the rest of the English-speaking Catholic world through our website soulsandhearts.com. Check that out, soulsandhearts.com for so many great resources that bring psychology and Catholicism together in a way that is faithful to the truths of our Faith.
2. Let's get into answering the questions -- the who, what, where, when, why, and how of this podcast.
Who is the IIC Podcast For? It's for You.
1. Ideal listener
  1. If you have it all together, if you're sky high on life, if you continually leap from one pinnacle of natural excellence to an even higher summit of human greatness, bounding upward, always with grace and precision and a laser focus on perfection -- good for you. I'm happy for you and in awe of you. But you don't need this podcast.
2. 1. Let me put it this way. This podcast is for the Catholic who admits he or she is hurting, struggling, a lost sheep, in need of help.
  2. This podcast is for you who are like me, who are very imperfect, wounded, harmed in various ways, who are confused and frustrated, who are weary, who are lonely, who are burdened in different ways.
  3. It's for your parts.
    1. we are a unity but also a multiplicity. We don't have a single, unified, homogenous, monolithic personality. We have several or many parts, each one with its own personality. This concept of parts of us is absolutely central to this podcast. If this idea of parts does not appeal to you, you probably won't like these episodes. I believe there were two major discoveries in psychology, one at the end of the 19th Century -- the discovery of the unconscious -- Freud popularized that. And the other near the end of the 20th century -- the discovery of the multiplicity of self which Richard Schwartz popularized.
  4. 1. Definition of part: Separate, independently operating personalities within us, each with own unique prominent needs, roles in our lives, emotions, body sensations, guiding beliefs and assumptions, typical thoughts, intentions, desires, attitudes, impulses, interpersonal style, and world view. Each part also has an image of God and sense of identity, who you are. Robert Falconer calls them insiders. You can also think of them as separate modes of operating if that is helpful.
  5. 1. This podcast is especially for your inner outcasts, those parts of us that you reject -- inner lepers, inner tax collectors, inner Pharisees, inner critics, our inner prostitutes, the untouchables within us, our inner rebels, fugitives, inner vagabonds and bums, our inner abused children. Our refugees, our inner imprisoned convicts the parts that don't get to see the light of day, the parts that may have never been loved by you or any other human being who walks the face of the earth.
    2. As I've discussed in so many previous episodes, especially Episode 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others -- I firmly believe that the concept of a core self and these several or many parts helps us to make so much more sense of our experiences, helps to explain so much. And as I laid out in Episode 73, Is IFS Really Catholic, I believe that with some modifications, IFS can be harmonized with our Catholic Faith.
    3. St. Augustine, Confessions “My inner self was a house divided against itself.” That's parts.
    4. Romans 7:15 I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.
    5. It's not just about willpower
      1. Romans 7:18b I can will what is right, but I cannot do it.
    6. 1. This isn't about willpower -- Paul had amazing willpower. It's not about the intellect. Its about those two discoveries in psychology -- the unconscious and the fact that we have parts.
  6. Openness and receptivity to learning and growing.
  7. This podcast is for you, you, the one who deeply desires an intimate, personal relationship with God and with Mary, even if you struggle with it\
  8. You who want to be able to come to God our Spiritual Father and Mary our Spiritual Mother with childlike trust and complete confidence
  9. Overcoming your natural-level impediments
  10. Anything that compromises our capacity to relate and love in the natural realm will compromise our capacity to relate and love God and Mary. Period. Full stop.
  11. Invested in own human formation, and is motivated to grow
    1. Psychologically-minded
  12. 1. Embraces the multiplicity/unity aspects of the human person and wants to relate better with self internally.
  13. 1. Willing to tolerate some suffering -- it will cost you to really engage with these podcasts
      1. Attention and concentration
    2. 1. Experiential exercises
  14. Wants to love se...

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September 06, 2021

84 The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast

1 hour 3 minutes

In this episode, I lay out the whole mission and purpose of the Interior Integration for Catholics Podcast -- answering the six central questions so that you can make an informed decision about whether this podcast fits you and your needs. Get the latest in my discernment about this podcast and the Resilient Catholics Community, where we are going.
Lead in: [cue Sundancer music] Who, What, Where, When, Why and How -- those are the six questions we're addressing today about this podcast.
1. Why those questions? It's all about fit. It's all about being clear about the target audience for this podcast and whether or not you fit. I'm putting all my cards on the table, total transparency, so that you can make an informed decision about whether you want to engage with me or not.
2. So let's ask the questions. Who is this Interior Integration for Catholics podcast for -- yes, it's for Catholics, but it's only for a small number of Catholics, maybe about 3700 Catholics in the world. How did I get to that number -- stay with me for the calculations later in this episode.
3. What is this podcast all about -- what is the mission, what is the purpose of the podcast?
4. Where does this podcast focus? Spoiler alert: -- Deep inside you, but you'll have to stay tuned to find out more about that…
5. When: what is the new frequency and episode length for this podcast?
6. Why: Why should you listen? I'm asking you for time, attention, concentration and effort -- why should you engage with this podcast at all? I'll be fleshing out all the reasons
7. How: How do we make it all happen with you, for you and in you?
8. Find out the answer to all of these questions in this episode of Interior Integration for Catholics, number 84, The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC Podcast [cue intro music]
Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics, thank you for being here with me, I am honored to be here with you, and today we are discussing you and me and us and this podcast. We are going to get all relational as we often do here. Because this is a relational podcast. I'm not just a talking head in podcastlandia, I'm a real person, you're a real person and I'm into real relationships.
1. I am clinical psychological Peter Malinoski and you are listening to the Interior Integration for Catholics podcast -- the IIC podcast for short). Interior Integration for Catholics is part of our broader outreach Souls and Hearts bringing the best of psychology grounded in a Catholic worldview to you and the rest of the English-speaking Catholic world through our website soulsandhearts.com. Check that out, soulsandhearts.com for so many great resources that bring psychology and Catholicism together in a way that is faithful to the truths of our Faith.
2. Let's get into answering the questions -- the who, what, where, when, why, and how of this podcast.
Who is the IIC Podcast For? It's for You.
1. Ideal listener
  1. If you have it all together, if you're sky high on life, if you continually leap from one pinnacle of natural excellence to an even higher summit of human greatness, bounding upward, always with grace and precision and a laser focus on perfection -- good for you. I'm happy for you and in awe of you. But you don't need this podcast.
2. 1. Let me put it this way. This podcast is for the Catholic who admits he or she is hurting, struggling, a lost sheep, in need of help.
  2. This podcast is for you who are like me, who are very imperfect, wounded, harmed in various ways, who are confused and frustrated, who are weary, who are lonely, who are burdened in different ways.
  3. It's for your parts.
    1. we are a unity but also a multiplicity. We don't have a single, unified, homogenous, monolithic personality. We have several or many parts, each one with its own personality. This concept of parts of us is absolutely central to this podcast. If this idea of parts does not appeal to you, you probably won't like these episodes. I believe there were two major discoveries in psychology, one at the end of the 19th Century -- the discovery of the unconscious -- Freud popularized that. And the other near the end of the 20th century -- the discovery of the multiplicity of self which Richard Schwartz popularized.
  4. 1. Definition of part: Separate, independently operating personalities within us, each with own unique prominent needs, roles in our lives, emotions, body sensations, guiding beliefs and assumptions, typical thoughts, intentions, desires, attitudes, impulses, interpersonal style, and world view. Each part also has an image of God and sense of identity, who you are. Robert Falconer calls them insiders. You can also think of them as separate modes of operating if that is helpful.
  5. 1. This podcast is especially for your inner outcasts, those parts of us that you reject -- inner lepers, inner tax collectors, inner Pharisees, inner critics, our inner prostitutes, the untouchables within us, our inner rebels, fugitives, inner vagabonds and bums, our inner abused children. Our refugees, our inner imprisoned convicts the parts that don't get to see the light of day, the parts that may have never been loved by you or any other human being who walks the face of the earth.
    2. As I've discussed in so many previous episodes, especially Episode 71: A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and Others -- I firmly believe that the concept of a core self and these several or many parts helps us to make so much more sense of our experiences, helps to explain so much. And as I laid out in Episode 73, Is IFS Really Catholic, I believe that with some modifications, IFS can be harmonized with our Catholic Faith.
    3. St. Augustine, Confessions “My inner self was a house divided against itself.” That's parts.
    4. Romans 7:15 I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.
    5. It's not just about willpower
      1. Romans 7:18b I can will what is right, but I cannot do it.
    6. 1. This isn't about willpower -- Paul had amazing willpower. It's not about the intellect. Its about those two discoveries in psychology -- the unconscious and the fact that we have parts.
  6. Openness and receptivity to learning and growing.
  7. This podcast is for you, you, the one who deeply desires an intimate, personal relationship with God and with Mary, even if you struggle with it\
  8. You who want to be able to come to God our Spiritual Father and Mary our Spiritual Mother with childlike trust and complete confidence
  9. Overcoming your natural-level impediments
  10. Anything that compromises our capacity to relate and love in the natural realm will compromise our capacity to relate and love God and Mary. Period. Full stop.
  11. Invested in own human formation, and is motivated to grow
    1. Psychologically-minded
  12. 1. Embraces the multiplicity/unity aspects of the human person and wants to relate better with self internally.
  13. 1. Willing to tolerate some suffering -- it will cost you to really engage with these podcasts
      1. Attention and concentration
    2. 1. Experiential exercises
  14. Wants to love se...