A Dream Wedding Maui | Stress-Free Wedding Planning, Destination Weddings, Personalizing Your Wedding

A Dream Wedding Maui | Stress-Free Wedding Planning, Destination Weddings, Personalizing Your Wedding

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A Dream Wedding Maui | Stress-Free Wedding Planning, Destination Weddings, Personalizing Your Wedding episodes

  • 039 // How to Legally Get Married in Hawaii — Everything You Need to Know

    Getting married in Hawaii? 🌴 In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing exactly what you need to know to make your marriage legal in paradise.

    I’ll walk you through how to apply for your Hawaii marriage license, what to bring to your appointment, how long it takes to receive your official marriage certificate, and what to do if you’re bringing your own officiant from the mainland.

    Here’s what I cover:

    💍 Who can legally get married in Hawaii (no residency required!)
    📝 How to apply online for your marriage license before you arrive
    📅 When and where to meet with a licensed agent on Maui
    💌 How long it takes to receive your certified marriage certificate
    🙌 What to do if your officiant is a friend or pastor from the mainland
    🌺 Bonus: Answers to the most common questions I get — from symbolic ceremonies to witnesses and same-day weddings.

    Whether you’re planning a simple beach elopement or a full celebration with family and friends, this step-by-step guide will help you feel confident that your wedding will be beautiful, stress-free, and legally official.

    💕 Connect with Me:

    🌐 @adreamweddingmaui

    💌 Book your complimentary consultation today!

    10 min
  • 038 // A Maui Wedding from Berlin: Corissa & Jason’s Destination Love Story at Olowalu Plantation House

    In this week’s episode, I chat with Corissa, who planned her stunning Olowalu Plantation House wedding all the way from Berlin! From an intimate welcome party at Hotel Wailea’s Birdcage Bar to a whale watch with Trilogy and a heartfelt ceremony surrounded by loved ones from around the world — Corissa’s Maui wedding was filled with creativity, connection, and emotion.

    We dive into her thoughtful design vision (inspired by volcanic tones and still-life art), her best advice for other destination couples, and how she and Jason navigated time zones, planning stress, and post-wedding blues with grace and humor.

    Whether you’re planning from afar or dreaming of Olowalu, this conversation is packed with inspiration and heart.

    ✨ In This Episode You’ll Hear:
    • How Corissa and Jason planned their Maui wedding while living in Berlin

    • The story behind their elegant, art-inspired design at Olowalu Plantation House

    • Why they chose a long engagement and how it helped them stay grounded

    • The vendors that brought their vision to life — from Maui Bars to Noni from Maui Palm Tree Floral

    • Honest reflections on post-wedding emotions and the magic of slowing down to soak it all in

      Vendors Mentioned:

      Planner: A Dream Wedding Maui

      Venue: Olowalu Plantation House
      Florals: Maui Palm Tree Floral (Noni)
      Catering: Food for the Soul
      Bar Service: Maui Bars
      Rentals: Rio Event Design
      Transportation: Maui Tours & Transport
      Photography: Jacqueline Locke
      Videography: Stephan Böker
      DJ: Jesse with Maui DJ Services

      🌺 Connect with Us:

      Visit adreamwedding.net for Maui wedding inspiration and planning resources.

      Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui

      1 hr 18 min
    • 037 // Why We Ditched the Giant Wedding Checklist: Embracing Effortless Planning

      Remember when every couple wanted a massive, super-detailed wedding checklist? The longer, the better? Well… those days are gone — and for good reason.

      In this episode of A Dream Wedding Maui, Ashley shares how her approach to wedding planning checklists has completely evolved over the years. What used to be hundreds of detailed tasks has now become a simple, streamlined, effortless process — because that’s what modern couples truly want.

      Ashley dives into:

      💡 Why ultra-detailed checklists can actually overwhelm couples instead of helping them
      🌺 How her team redesigned their planning system into easy, stress-free phases
      🗓️ The five signature planning phases — from vendor selection to go time
      ✨ Why “effortless” has become her signature word, not only for planning but in life and personal style
      🤍 How simplicity builds trust and gives couples more space to enjoy their engagement

      If you’ve ever felt buried under a never-ending wedding to-do list, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh Maui air.

      🌴 Connect with Ashley:

      Website: adreamwedding.net

      Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui

      15 min
    • 036 // How to Stay Present on Your Wedding Day

      Your wedding day goes by in the blink of an eye—and after months (or years!) of planning, the best gift you can give yourself is the ability to be truly present. In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing six powerful ways to slow down, soak in the magic, and create memories that last a lifetime.

      From handing off logistics to your planning team, to building intentional pauses, to anchoring your favorite moments—you’ll walk away with simple, heartfelt strategies to actually enjoy your wedding day instead of rushing through it.

      Because at the end of the day, it’s not about a perfectly executed timeline or the exact shade of blush in your florals—it’s about connection, gratitude, and love.

      What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

      🌸 Why “overplanning and then letting go” is the key to peace of mind

      🌸 How to build intentional pauses that make the day feel less rushed
      🌸 Why you should put your phone away (and who to give it to instead)
      🌸 A simple gratitude practice to help you lock in memories
      🌸 How to release perfectionism so you can focus on joy
      🌸 The secret to anchoring memories you’ll treasure forever

      ✨ Whether you’re planning a beachside elopement or a grand oceanfront celebration, these tips will help you feel calm, present, and connected on your wedding day.

      💌 Let’s Connect:

      • Website: @adreamweddingmaui

        🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a new episode, and if this helped you, please leave a review or share with a friend who’s planning their big day!

        15 min
      • 035 // Why a Wedding Weekend Beats a Wedding Day

        Your wedding day will be unforgettable—but what if you could stretch that joy across an entire weekend? In today’s episode of the Dream Wedding Maui Podcast, Ashley shares how planning multi-day celebrations can transform your destination wedding into a full guest experience.

        Fresh off a three-day birthday celebration packed with unforgettable activities, Ashley shows how the same ideas can be reimagined for wedding weekends. From private luaus and canoe regattas to sandcastle competitions and sunset sails, discover creative ways to connect your guests, honor Hawaiian culture, and make memories that last a lifetime.

        What you’ll hear in this episode:

        • Why wedding weekends create deeper connections with your guests

        • How extra events allow us as planners to deliver even better service

        • Unique activity ideas from a recent 3-day celebration, including:

          • Private luau with music, hula, and cocktail competitions

          • Canoe regatta with Hawaiian cultural experiences

          • Garden lunch with a live art class and music

          • Semi-private dinner at Nobu—perfect for a rehearsal dinner

          • Sandcastle building competition on the beach

          • BBQ lunch + sunset sail to wrap up the weekend

          • How multi-day celebrations help guests from all over the world feel like family by the wedding day

          • Options for full planning or à la carte event planning with A Dream Wedding Maui

            Links & Resources:

            🌺 Learn more at @adreamweddingmaui

            15 min
          • 034 // The Amazon Wedding Problem

            Hey friends, it’s Ashley!

            Today I’m diving into a problem that’s been growing in the wedding world lately — and especially here in Maui. And I’ll be honest…I’ve been part of it, too. It’s Amazon.

            What used to be one or two simple boxes from couples — a card box, some cocktail napkins, a few favors — has now turned into my team feeling like an Amazon fulfillment center. Dozens of boxes filled with candles, signage, chargers, and fragile glass arrive at venues, leaving us knee-deep in bubble wrap instead of where I want to be: by your side on the wedding day.

            In this episode, I’m sharing:

            ✨ The hidden costs of ordering décor from Amazon (time, waste, and stress).
            ✨ Why cheap online finds rarely hold up — fragile glass, paper-thin napkins, chargers that chip after one use.
            ✨ The truth about live flame candles in Maui (and why LED is the way to go).
            ✨ The new boundaries I’m setting so I can serve my couples at the highest level.

            At the end of the day, I want to be fully present with my clients, not unboxing Amazon shipments. Let’s rethink how we approach these wedding details and choose options that are beautiful, practical, and kind to Maui.

            🌺 Find me at @adreamweddingmaui.

            18 min
          • 033 // Why You Should Hire a Wedding Planner Before Choosing Your Venue

            Most couples think the first step in planning a wedding is locking in the venue. But here’s the truth: booking your venue first is actually step two. In this episode of A Dream Wedding Maui Podcast, I’m sharing why hiring your wedding planner before you choose your venue can save you time, money, and stress — and make the entire experience so much more enjoyable.

            Fresh from a full day of site inspections with one of my couples, I’ll walk you through:

            • The common pitfalls couples face when booking a venue on their own.

            • How my insider knowledge and venue relationships streamline the process.

            • Why efficiency matters: how one couple planned on multiple days of site tours, but with my connections, we knocked it all out in a single day.

            • The hidden benefits of site inspections — building trust, setting priorities, and laying the foundation for a great planning relationship.

              If you’re dreaming of a Maui wedding or just starting your venue search, this episode will give you the clarity to start planning in the right order.

              Resources & Links:

              • Learn more at adreamwedding.net

              • Follow along on Instagram: @adreamweddingmaui

                10 min
              • 032 // Unreasonable Hospitality: Going Above and Beyond for Our Couples

                In today’s episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing how the book Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara has inspired me—and how it perfectly translates into the way we serve our couples.

                Unreasonable hospitality isn’t just about doing a good job. It’s about surprising and delighting people in deeply personal ways—in the small details, the big gestures, and the quiet moments that aren’t written on the timeline.

                I’ll share three real stories from weddings we’ve planned:

                • The last-minute LED sparklers that almost didn’t arrive—and how we made sure every guest had one.

                • A groom’s pet peeve about lighting—and the lengths we went to dim a neon sign so the dance floor felt just right.

                • The time I reconstructed a bride’s dress minutes before her first look—because she deserved to feel radiant and confident walking toward her groom.

                  I’ll also open up about what this means as our business grows: my commitment to making sure every couple feels cared for, seen, and celebrated through this level of above-and-beyond service. Because to us, wedding planning isn’t just about logistics—it’s about memory-making.

                  ✨ Resources & Links

                  • Learn more: @adreamweddingmaui

                    If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a couple who wants a wedding that’s not just beautiful—but unforgettable.

                    15 min
                  • 031 // Top 10 Songs You Need to Pick for Your Wedding

                    Music is one of the most powerful parts of your wedding day. Long after the flowers fade and the cake is gone, the songs you choose will instantly transport you back to those unforgettable moments.

                    In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m walking you through the top 10 songs every couple should select for their wedding day—from the processional and bridal entrance to the dance floor opener and the very last song of the night.

                    You’ll learn:

                    • Which songs set the tone for your ceremony

                    • Fun options for cake cutting and parent dances

                    • Why your first dance song is often the most personal choice of all

                    • How to choose the perfect dance floor opener to get guests moving

                    • Tips for creating a Spotify playlist, “must play” list, and “do not play” list for your DJ

                      Whether you’re dreaming of a Hawaiian-inspired ceremony, a classic ballroom celebration, or a fun beach bash, music will help define the experience and create lasting memories for you and your guests.

                      ✨ Resources & Links

                      • Book a complimentary consultation: @adreamweddingmaui

                        If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another couple planning their big day.

                        17 min
                      • 030 // Maui Micro Weddings: Sarah & Aaron’s Intimate Celebration at the Sheraton Ali‘i Suite

                        Micro weddings are having a moment—and I am here for it! In this episode of Dream Wedding Maui, I’m sharing all about Sarah and Aaron’s beautiful and intimate wedding at the Sheraton’s hidden gem: the Ali‘i Suite.

                        From a sunset ceremony on a private lawn to a relaxed dinner on the lanai with their closest people, this day was low-stress, high-style, and absolutely unforgettable.

                        Tune in to hear:

                        • What really defines a “micro wedding” (hint: it’s not just about the guest count)

                        • Why I love planning these stress-free, connection-filled celebrations

                        • A behind-the-scenes look at Sarah and Aaron’s wedding day flow

                        • My favorite Maui venues for micro weddings (including secret spots you might not know!)

                        • Tips for keeping your guest list tight—and why that matters with small venues

                        • How to make a micro wedding feel just as luxurious and meaningful as a big one

                          Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate gathering or just want more quality time with your guests, this episode will inspire you to think small—in the best way.

                          🔗 Links & Resources:

                          → Learn more at @adreamweddingmaui

                          → Ready to plan your Maui micro wedding? Book a free consult

                          🌺 Let’s Make Your Wedding Feel Like You

                          Whether your celebration is 15 guests or 150, we’ll help you design a day that feels effortless, elegant, and full of aloha. Subscribe for weekly planning tips and inspiration!

                          10 min

                        About A Dream Wedding Maui | Stress-Free Wedding Planning, Destination Weddings, Personalizing Your Wedding

                        From the publisher's feed

                        Welcome to Dream Wedding Maui, your guide to effortless weddings in paradise! If you’re newly engaged and dreaming of saying “I do” on the stunning island of Maui, you’ve come to the right place. Planning a destination wedding should be a joyful journey, not a stressful one, and this podcast is here to help you every step of the way.