In this episode, Toma Clark Haines founder and CEO of The Antiques Diva & Co, talks with nationally renowned event-planning expert, celebrity party-planner, designer, author, and founder of A Perfect Event, "a special event company with a faithful following, including Oprah Winfrey, Brooke Shields, Debra Messing, and Leo Burnett” – Debi Lilly.

Debi Lilly has it in her blood to celebrate! She has been crafting celebrations and making the world more beautiful since she was very very little – learning at her mother and grandmother's knees. Throwing parties is part of her DNA makeup. "I just love love love celebrating. That's my job, and I can't really believe it...It's kind of amazing to think that you could create a career around what you just deep-in-your-heart truly love doing." Debi is on a one woman mission to inspire, educate, and share her twenty years of party planning and stylist tips, tricks and DIY designs to elevate celebrations for any occasion, everywhere, coast to coast. She's created both a magazine and book entitled “A Perfect Event”. Toma and Debi share a core belief in the importance of pursuing your passions and following your dreams and how when we do this, we enable others to do the same and the world is made a better place because we are making people's dreams come true. 

Toma and Debi met through The Antique Diva's Annual Paris Flea Market Party (which is incidentally coming up January 21st, 2024 - Want an invite? Email [email protected]!). Toma met Debi and her mother at The Antique Diva's first ever flea market party and Debi, her husband, and her parents have been faithful attendees over the past decade! "So wonderful and gorgeous...Every year you knock it out of the park and I just think it's a really fun gathering to get people together during Maison Objet. The flea market itself is a huge overwhelming product-filled, antique-filled, shopping trend-filled experience and your party really adds a moment of personalization and community and networking. ¨I love it. I just love it," says Debi – sending Toma over the moon with her praise. After all, when the queen of planning "A Perfect Event" sings your praises, you can't help but dance!

The two discuss following dreams, creating meaning in the midst of our busy lives, how the pandemic reframed so many people's lives, trends of colors and textures, floral design secrets, how design and our interiors powerfully impact each of our lives and how floral design can be such a magical part of that, and how pink and red or "dressing for Valentines Day" is always a good idea. This episode is jam-packed with life and love and passion and is just what our hearts need as we navigate the holidays, close out 2023, and make our way toward the new year. The two also go deep with business talk, how candles often help pay the bills, the ins and outs of brick and mortar and selling online, marketing strategies, social media, branding, and the work/life balance. It is yet another episode you will not want to miss!  

You can find more about Debi and all the magic she is making at www.debililly.com or www.aperfectevent.com (they go to the same place). Instagram @debililly, @aperfectevent or on Facebook – Debi Lilly.