A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast

What if one simple habit could transform your marriage, deepen your connection with your spouse, and bring lasting peace to your relationship? In today's episode, we're diving into the life-changing practice of praying together as a couple.

Join us as we explore: ✨ Why praying together strengthens your bond and invites God into your marriage. ✨ The powerful findings from the 1997 Gallup study on prayer and marriage (hint: couples who pray together have a divorce rate of less than 1%!). ✨ Practical tips for starting a prayer routine, even if it feels intimidating or awkward at first. ✨ How prayer fosters intimacy, trust, and unity—even in tough seasons of life.

We also share personal stories from our own marriage, including a season when prayer brought us closer together during one of the hardest times we've faced.

If you've ever wondered how to keep God at the center of your relationship or felt unsure about how to start praying as a couple, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

1. The Biblical foundation for praying as a couple.
2. Research-backed benefits of prayer in marriage.
3. Simple, practical steps to start praying together daily.
4. How to overcome common roadblocks to couple prayer.

Resources and References Mentioned: 📖 Scripture Highlights:

• 1 Thessalonians 5:17 – "Pray without ceasing."
• Romans 8:26 – The Spirit helps us in our weakness and intercedes for us.

📊 Studies Cited:

• 1997 Gallup study on divorce rates among couples who pray together.
• 2010 Study from University of Texas at San Antonio "The Couple That Prays Together: Race and Ethnicity, Religion, and Relationship Quality Among Working-Age Adults"

💡 Recommended Reading:

• Atomic Habits by James Clear (for building consistent habits).

Challenge of the Week: Take five minutes this week to pray with your spouse. Whether it's before bed, in the car, or over coffee, start small and stay consistent. Trust us—it's worth it!

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In this festive yet demanding season, the holidays can sometimes bring more stress than joy—especially for couples juggling family dynamics, hosting duties, and endless to-do lists. In this episode, Duane and Nadine share their personal experiences of navigating holiday stress as a couple, offering practical tips and biblical wisdom to help you manage the season without burning out.

Discover how to prioritize your marriage, set realistic expectations, and foster traditions that bring your family closer together. You'll also learn creative ways to handle financial pressures, host without the overwhelm, and stay focused on the true reason for the season: celebrating Christ's birth.

Whether you're hosting a full house or trying to navigate blended family obligations, this episode is packed with tools to help your marriage thrive during the holidays.

1. What is holiday burnout, and how does it affect couples?

   • Common stressors during the holiday season and how to address them.

2. Prioritizing your marriage during busy times:

   • Why scheduling intentional moments with your spouse is essential.
   • How to create "reset time" as a couple—even in a house full of guests.

3. Embracing and creating meaningful traditions:

   • The importance of family-centered traditions and how they strengthen bonds.
   • Practical ideas to make your holidays memorable without added stress.

4. Managing expectations and setting boundaries:

   • How to avoid financial strain with budgeting and gift-giving strategies.
   • Tips for hosting large gatherings without burning out.

5. Remembering the reason for the season:

   • Keeping Christ at the center of your celebrations and teaching your family to focus on faith.

• Join the 12 Days of Christmas Spark Challenge! Add fun to your marriage this season with daily prompts to prioritize your relationship. It's not too late to join—sign up here!

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Welcome to another episode of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast with your hosts, Duane and Nadine Stewart! Today, we're diving into an eye-opening and heartfelt discussion about what husbands really want from their wife. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection or gain a better understanding of your spouse, this episode will offer practical wisdom delivered by Duane himself.

1:23 - What Do Husbands Really Want? Discover the core desires of a husband and how they can transform a marriage when recognized and nurtured.

3:09 - The Need for Respect Why respect is foundational for husbands and how showing it builds trust and intimacy.

6:24 - Encouragement and Leadership Explore the ways wives can affirm their husband's leadership while fostering a supportive dynamic.

11:23 - Desire and Intimacy Uncover the importance of a husband feeling desired and, ladies, it's not what you think.

16:29 - Allowing Men to Be Men Learn how to encourage your husband to step into and carry out his role as the man in the relationship

29:21 - Communication Styles and Emotions Bridge the gap in communication differences and create a space for honest emotional expression.

• Husbands deeply value respect, encouragement, and the freedom to express themselves without judgment.
• Feeling desired and supported empowers men to thrive as husbands and leaders in the home.

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Join Duane and Nadine Stewart as they dive deep into the incredible, and transformative impact of gratitude on your marriage. Learn why expressing thankfulness goes beyond politeness—it's a foundational practice that can strengthen your emotional connection and is the "secret sauce" in most thriving lasting relationships.

In this episode, we explore: 🌟 3 lasting benefits of incorporating gratitude in your marriage. 🌟 The science behind gratitude and its ability to combat negativity and anxiety. 🌟 Practical tips to build habits of thankfulness that can transform your relationship.

Packed with heartfelt stories, biblical wisdom, and actionable advice, this episode will inspire you to reframe your perspective and prioritize gratitude in your marriage. Plus, hear how you can take advantage of our special Black Friday deal on the Goal-Setting Guide for Couples—an essential resource for dreaming big and growing together.

Episode Highlights: 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Validation in Marriage 00:45 Welcome to Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast 01:26 The Transformative Power of Gratitude 02:29 Timeless Lessons from Elderly Couples 04:43 Overcoming Negative Thought Patterns 06:34 Developing Habits That Build Positivity 08:36 Gratitude as a Key to Emotional Connection 15:38 A Long-Term Perspective on Building a Thriving Marriage 17:14 The Impact of Unkindness and Negative Cycles 17:53 Real-Life Transformation Through Compassion and Gratitude 20:27 How Gratitude Can Be a Game-Changer in Relationships 21:00 Cultivating Joy and Satisfaction Through Thankfulness 22:55 Gratitude as a Tool to Combat Anxiety 29:55 Dream Big Together: The Importance of Setting Goals 31:41 Closing Thoughts and a Sneak Peek at the Next Episode

Don't Miss Out! Listen now and start unlocking the power of gratitude to transform your marriage today. 💑

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Plus, don't miss out on our special Black Friday offer exclusively for our podcast listeners. Get 50% off the Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Couples with BONUS Guide to Creating a Marriage Mission Statement. Hurry because this 50% off offer for our listeners will only be around until December 5th!

👉 Subscribe and leave a review to support our mission of helping couples build thriving, God-centered marriages.

Follow us for more helpful tools, encouragement and resources for your relationship!

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To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email [email protected].

Have you ever taken the time to craft a mission statement for you marriage?

In this episode, we're diving into why a marriage mission statement is an absolute game-changer for couples. Many people have heard of setting goals and many even take the time to do it. But a marriage mission statement is that important missing piece that will actually give you direction so your goals can make sense.

Listen in as we discuss practical steps for goal setting as a couple, and how to create a Marriage Mission Statement that can span generations.

And if you prefer to go the easy route, where you just basically fill in the blanks, check out our done-for-you template called "A Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Couples with BONUS Guide to Creating a Marriage Mission Statement." It's a super easy to follow template where you literally just fill in the blanks.

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Plus, don't miss out on our special Black Friday offer exclusively for our podcast listeners. Get 50% off the Guide to Goal Setting for Christian Couples with BONUS Guide to Creating a Marriage Mission Statement. Hurry because this 50% off offer for our listeners will only be around until December 5th!

Tune in to this episode and start crafting your path to a purpose-driven marriage!

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Mission Statements

00:18 Welcome to the Podcast

00:52 Holiday Season and Goal Setting

03:14 The Importance of a Marriage Mission Statement

05:47 Creating and Aligning Goals

07:51 Crafting Your Marriage Mission Statement

16:01 The Legacy of a Marriage Mission Statement

17:56 Special Offer and Conclusion

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In this episode of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast, Duane and Nadine Stewart come together to share their wisdom on safeguarding your marriage from infidelity. They discuss five impactful strategies: setting guardrails around your relationship, nourishing your marriage with quality time and intimacy, maintaining a positive mindset, and staying vigilant against potential threats. The Stewarts delve into the importance of setting clear boundaries, fostering open communication, and embracing physical intimacy.

Along the way, they share personal anecdotes and actionable tips, all aimed at helping you build a strong, faithful relationship. Join Duane and Nadine as they guide you on the journey to a purpose-driven marriage, filled with trust, respect, and love.

02:15 Guardrails Around Your Relationship

03:22 The Role of Communication and Boundaries

05:24 Social Media and Privacy

10:10 Friends of the Opposite Sex

16:59 Nourishing Your Relationship

18:13 The Misconception of Marriage and Work

19:07 Avoiding Transactional Relationships

20:43 The Importance of Physical Intimacy

22:44 Praying Together for a Stronger Bond

24:17 Maintaining Physical Attractiveness

27:58 Guarding Your Mindset

31:16 Staying Vigilant Against Temptation

34:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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We're Back! In this comeback episode, Duane and Nadine Stewart reveal why they've been MIA and share their own wild ride of balancing marriage, careers, and kids. They highlight the importance of a rock-solid foundation in your relationship and how sticking together with God's help can turn challenges into triumphs. Plus, get a sneak peek into their exciting future plans, like launching a video version of the podcast and diving into the much-awaited 'What Men Want' episode. Join the Stewarts as they reconnect and inspire you to build a purpose-driven marriage that's built to last!

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Challenges

00:26 Welcome Back to the Podcast

01:08 Apologies and Listener Appreciation

02:58 Life Updates and New Beginnings

06:27 Balancing Family and Career

07:33 The Importance of a Solid Foundation

11:15 Faith and Overcoming Obstacles

13:16 Exciting Future Plans

14:29 Conclusion and Gratitude

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Join us in this engaging and insightful podcast episode where we dive deep into the mysterious realm of what women truly desire in their relationships and marriages. Hosted by your favorite duo, Duane and Nadine, this episode takes a unique twist as Duane is away, leaving his wife to navigate the microphone solo for the first time.

With humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, Nadine embarks on a mission to decode the secrets of women's hearts, offering invaluable insights to both men and women alike. Men, get ready to discover what your wife needs from you and gain newfound understanding of her world. Ladies, don't miss out on sharing this eye-opening episode with your husband.

Through personal anecdotes and professional coaching experience, our host explores the importance of effective communication and understanding in relationships. Discover how men and women often speak different emotional languages, leaving needs unmet and frustrations unaddressed. Prepare for a lightbulb moment as you realize the power of a common language in bridging the communication gap.

From the foundational need for love and affection to the significance of emotional connection, trust, and security, this episode covers it all. Unravel the intricacies of women's desire for appreciation and support, and gain insights into the importance of true partnership and shared responsibilities in a thriving relationship.

Tune in to A Purpose Driven Marriage's "What Women Want," and embark on a journey of understanding, growth, and stronger connections. Whether you're a man seeking to decode the needs of your wife or a woman yearning for better communication, this episode promises valuable wisdom and practical advice for everyone.

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After taking some much needed vacation ourselves, we're giving you this extended episode to talk about why getting away as a couple is an absolute must! We cover all the ways it benefits your relationship, like reducing stress, increasing connection, and experiencing opportunities for amazing vacation sex!

PLUS we will include a big bonus by revealing how we - a large family of eight - can afford to travel frequently using several of the travel hacks we talk about on this episode. By the time you finish listening, we hope you're taking down your suitcase and getting ready to book that much needed trip as a couple.

You won't want to miss this one!

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Get a FREE copy of "31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication" here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at [email protected].

Did you know that the way you fight or how you resolve conflict can predict whether or not you'll have a successful marriage? That's right. According to Dr. John Gottman of the Gottman Institute, the single greatest predictor for a successful marriage is repairing skills. Repairing skills refers to a couple's ability to resolve conflict.

Episodes 19 of A Purpose Driven Marriage Podcast is the second of a two-part series where Duane and Nadine break down the five different conflict styles that we tend to default to.

They'll cover the pros, the cons, and the usual characteristics of the conflict styles: Accommodator, Avoider, Competer, Collaborator, and Compromiser.

You'll learn about how you can use each one in the right ways that serve the needs of the relationship, ultimately leading to greater intimacy and connection.

Curious about what your conflict style might be? Listen to the podcast and then take the quiz to learn what your relationship conflict style is.

Be sure and have your partner take the quiz as well!

Get the resources mentioned on this episode!

Take The Conflict Style Quiz

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Get a FREE copy of "31 Conversation Starters to Improve Communication" here: https://resources.apurposedrivenmarriage.com/conversationstarters

To contact Nadine about Relationship Coaching, Premarital Counseling, speaking at your event, or hosting a workshop, email us at [email protected].