If you’ve been seeing progress in your sleep, that’s something to celebrate.

It means the End Insomnia System is working for you.

But let me be upfront about something most people don’t want to hear:

Setbacks are part of the process.

Not just common.

Necessary.

They’re how your nervous system learns to stop fearing sleep again.

Let’s walk through how setbacks happen, what to do when they hit, and why they’re actually key to long-term recovery.

Setback Scenario 1: The Fear of Losing Good Sleep

This one catches many by surprise.

You start sleeping better.

Relief washes over you.

But then, something creeps in — the fear of losing it.

You start thinking things like,

“What if this doesn’t last?”

“What if I go back to square one?”

That fear reignites sleep anxiety.

And just like that, you’re putting pressure on sleep again.

You’ve moved from a state of non-attachment back to performance mode.

And performance mode is enemy territory for sleep.

Setback Scenario 2: The Big Day Spiral

Even after progress, special events can trip you up.

A work presentation.

A wedding.

An early flight.

Something important is happening tomorrow — and you really want to sleep well for it.

Understandably, your anxiety ramps up.

You want to show up at your best.

But when you need sleep too much, it doesn’t come.

This performance pressure causes your nervous system to tense again, reactivating the old loop.

Setback Scenario 3: The Surprise Drop

Sometimes, it just hits.

Out of nowhere.

You’ve been sleeping better.

Then suddenly — you’re back to lying awake at 3 a.m., heart pounding.

You can’t trace it to anything specific.

This is old wiring in the nervous system reactivating.

It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong.

It means a pocket of stored hyperarousal is surfacing to be cleared.

This, too, is part of the healing process.

The Way Through: Reapply the System

No matter the cause, the solution to every setback is the same:

Return to the tools.

Don’t try to analyze or solve the setback.

Don’t spiral.

Don’t force sleep.

Do the work you already know:

• Let go of controlling sleep
• Reconnect to your values
• Practice self-compassion
• Use mindfulness to observe, not react
• Stop tracking your sleep
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Most importantly, remember:

The tools still work.

You’re not back at the beginning.

You’ve changed.

Your relationship with insomnia has changed.

You just need to remember what you already know.

Expect Setbacks, Don’t Fear Them

The more you expect setbacks, the less they knock you off course.

Setbacks are not signs that the system failed.

They are signs that your nervous system is finishing its work.​

Each setback is an opportunity to prove that you’re no longer afraid.

To see that poor sleep is not dangerous.

That you don’t need to protect against it.

That you can live your life, even when tired.

Setbacks Build Confidence

Think about it this way:

If you had never had another bad night, you might still fear that insomnia could return.

You might live in the shadow of “What if?”

But when you experience a setback, face it, and recover…

You prove to yourself — for real — that insomnia has no power over you

That proof rewires your brain.

It builds trust.

And eventually, you lose your fear of sleep trouble altogether.

The Final Shift: From Setback to Stability

Recovery doesn’t mean you never have a bad night again.

It means you stop fearing bad nights.

It means you can go with the flow, knowing that sleep always returns.

When you reach this place of non-attachment and trust, insomnia no longer has a foothold.

You’ve closed the loop.

You’re free.

Keep going.

You’re closer than you think.

To peaceful sleep,

Ivo at End Insomnia

Why should you listen to me?

I recovered from insomnia after 5 brutal years of suffering. I also wrote a book about it. I've now coached many on how to end their insomnia for good in 8 weeks.

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