A Word With You

When I go to the doctor, he sure is inquisitive. I tell him, “I feel sick!” And he insists on getting all the details: what’s your temperature, tell me about your symptoms, what about your throat? Let’s check your throat. I mean sometimes he even resorts to a blood test. How radical! And if it’s serious enough, we even have to get into my mother’s health and my father’s health, and my family history. Actually, I’d be wise to give the doctor all the specifics I can think of. If I just walk in and say, “I’m sick,” that doesn’t do much. It’s really tough to help someone when they’re not specific about what’s going on.

I’m Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Getting All the Way Clean.”

Our word for today from the Word of God - Luke 3, I’ll begin at verse 7. “John said to the crowds coming out to be baptized by him, ‘Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.’ ‘What should be done?’ the crowd asked. John answered, ‘The man with two tunics should share with him who has none, and the one who has food should do the same.’ Tax collectors also came to be baptized. ‘Teacher,’ they asked, ‘what should we do?’ ‘Don’t collect any more than you are required to,’ he told them. Then some soldiers asked him, ‘And what should we do?’ He replied, ‘Don’t extort money and don’t accuse people falsely - be content with your pay.’”

Now, the picture here is of people coming to the Jordan River where John the Baptist is preaching, and they’re coming to repent of their sins. But John isn’t going to let them get away with general repentance. He insists on getting specific. He talks about fruit that is in keeping with repentance. He tells some of them, “I want you to repent of your selfishness about your food and about your clothes.” He tells a different group, “I want you to repent of your cheating in your business.” And then he tells some others, “I want you to repent of lying about people and of complaining.”

Many people never really break free of a specific sin because they never come to God and specifically repent of that sin. We kind of like the safety of being general don’t we? “Lord, forgive my many sins, whatever they may be.” Do you ever name them? I think God might be saying, “Like what? Which one are you repenting of? Name the sin.”

It’s important to come to Jesus’ cross with the particulars of the sins that need forgiving. “Lord, I come to your cross with that lie I told this morning. I come to you with the lustful thoughts I’ve had toward _____ (fill in the blank). I come to you with that harsh response I gave to my son, my daughter, my husband, my wife last night. I come to repent of that night of sexual sin; of those websites that are poisoning me spiritually; of the neglect of my family’s needs.”

The point is that God calls us to specific repentance. We may have to go back and clean up a sin that we buried instead of dealing with it, maybe a long time ago. Until you’ve really brought it to the cross, you should not forget it. Once you have brought it to the cross, you shouldn’t remember it, because God has forgotten it forever at that point.

I can’t just go to the doctor and say, “Help my sickness.” I have to give him the specifics if I want to be well. I can’t just go to God and say, “Forgive my sins. I’m sorry for my sins.”

If I really want to beat one sin in particular, I need to be specific in dealing with that sin. It’s this simple: no specifics, no solutions.

Tall grass - dead mower. That was my sad situation that spring. I tried everything to get my power mower going, but it really didn’t want to start. Of course, that didn’t stop the lawn from growing, no. I went away for a little while, came back, and the grass was now taking over. (Get your machete, Ron.) Well, I played with my mower again and again, and it still didn’t respond. We were starting to look like maybe the set of a “Tarzan” movie. And my mower, oh it didn’t care. So I started looking for alternative equipment to get the job done. Let’s see, my hair clippers. Yeah, how about that uh...the ones you use for your haircuts? I was desperate, but I did not try to cut the grass with my hair clippers. No, they work great on hair; they would not work great on my lawn. But, on the other hand, how would you like to get your hair cut with a lawn mower?

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Missing Your Meaning.”

Well, you’d have to wonder about someone who tried to use hair clippers to trim a lawn or a lawn mower to trim hair. They both work fine when you use them as they were supposed to be used. But machines don’t work when you use them for something they weren’t designed for and neither do we.

And right there is the reason so many of us are wondering what the meaning of our life really is; why we still don’t know the answer to life’s most fundamental question “Why am I here?” We’re missing what we were designed for and things just don’t seem to be working. Even people who are enjoying a lot of success, whose life is pretty smooth, have to admit that in their honest moments it’s still not very fulfilling. The meaning just isn't there. The peace isn’t there. And when we’re not living like we were designed to, things just don’t work very well. Marriage doesn’t work like it’s supposed to, relationships don’t, even our achievements. There’s never enough love, never enough excitement, and never any real peace.

Time to break out the Manufacturer’s instructions. Of course I mean the Manufacturer of you and me. Here’s how your Creator says you were designed to live. Put your life next to this blueprint and see how you’re doing. It’s in our word for today from the Word of God in Colossians 1:16. Speaking of Jesus Christ, God says, “All things were created by Him and for Him.”

There’s your created destiny in six words, “Created by Jesus and for Jesus.” Like the earth was created to revolve around the sun, you and I were created to revolve our life around the One who made us, but we don’t. The reality is more like this: “Created for Him - living for me. In the Bible’s words, “Each of us has turned to his own way” (Isaiah 53:6).

If you’re missing the meaning of it all, it’s because you’re missing the One who gives life meaning; the One who gave you your life in the first place and the One who gave His life so you could get back to your Creator. Jesus died on the cross to pay the death penalty for all of your “me first” choices so that Grand Canyon between you and God could finally be bridged. So you could finally know the peace of being who you were made to be - of belonging to the One whose love you were made for.

Maybe you’re ready to begin this awesome personal relationship with your Creator God. It's like coming home. If you’d like to, why don’t you tell Jesus that right now? “Jesus, I’m Yours.” Tell Him you’re putting all your trust in Him to be your rescuer from your sin. And only He had the power to walk out of His grave under His own power and to walk into your life.

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You’ve done enough days without the meaning you were made for haven't you; without the Savior you were made for? If you’ll open your heart, you have just spent your last day without Him.

I first learned about the United States Life-Saving Service years ago on a family vacation. We got to see a life-saving station that actually has been preserved at a strategic point along the Atlantic coastline. There used to be a lot of them. In some areas, they were like just seven miles apart, you know, along the coast. Each one was staffed by a seven-man crew. I’m going to tell you, these guys were ultimate heroes in every sense of the word! When a ship was in distress near their assigned area, they’d go out into the surf, out into the storm, even a hurricane to try to rescue the people on board. They lived their motto: “You have to go out. You don’t have to come back.” They saved countless lives who otherwise would have been lost.

But it was only recently that I learned how this heroism actually all began. William Newell was a medical doctor, and he was at the New Jersey Shore at a place called Barnegat the day after a ship had gone down during an overnight storm. He was at the beach and the bodies of 13 crewmen washed ashore. He said, “Here I was, a man who spent his life trying to save lives. And here was a situation where I was absolutely powerless to do anything to help them. Something’s got to be done about this.” Something was. A few years later, Dr. Newell was Congressman Newell; in a position to make a difference. So, he led the effort to birth the United States Life-Saving Service. It started with a few life-saving stations in New Jersey, and then it quickly spread all along the Atlantic Coast because of one man’s heart for those who were being lost.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Helping Others Live.”

One man looked at lives being lost and he said, “I cannot just let them die.” Jesus is like that. That’s why He went to an awful cross to rescue us from the otherwise inevitable eternal death penalty for our sins. And He’s looking for others who will have a heart like his; a heart that looks at people around you and says, “I can’t just let them die. I’ve got to do something about this.”

One of Jesus’ original rescuers, the Apostle Paul, expressed the heart that Jesus wants to plant in all of us in 2 Corinthians 5, beginning with verse 11. It’s our word for today from the Word of God. He said, “Since we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade men.”

Paul never wanted anyone he knew to have to face the awful judgment of God for their sin. He went on to say, “Christ’s love compels us because we are convinced that one died for all.” If Jesus could die to save them, can’t I at least tell them what He did for them? I can’t just let them die. Where I live, where I work, where I go to school, the groups I’m in - that’s my stretch of beach. I am His life-saving crew for the people there who don’t know Christ.

This isn’t about getting them to change their religion. It’s not about religion at all. It’s about the only One who died for their sins. There are a lot of religions. There’s only one Savior. There’s only one Rescuer. Your mission is to take them by the hand, walk with them up Skull Hill to that cross and say, “This was for you.”

The church you’re in, the ministry you’re in - is it committed as top priority to saving lives on the stretch of beach you’ve been assigned by God, or are you just feeding and comforting the life-saving crew? If your ministry, your church, your Bible study isn’t about rescuing those who will die otherwise, you might need a quick heart exam. Do you have the heart of your Savior? Because He said His reason for coming was to seek and rescue the lost. So you can’t say you’re following Jesus and not be reaching the lost. Because if you follow Him, that’s where He’s going.

An 1883 Life-Saving Service report to Congress displayed a photo of a life-saving crew and it asked this question, “Why would a group of ordinary men risk everything?” The answer explains why you and I must take whatever risks are necessary to help people we know be in heaven with us. Here’s the answer: “That others might live.”

People who know me know that I’m a very focused person when I’m working on something. Except when it comes to the most distracting people I know - my grandchildren. I remember when my granddaughter was pretty little. She was just one-plus-year-old, there was just no way to resist her when she came my way. She’d pull herself up by my pant leg, she’d stretch her arms my direction, and then she'd make these cute little noises and irresistible faces - virtually begging me to pick her up. I’m not the only one who’s gotten nothing done when she was around. No, she was that way with other family members too; reaching out to be held. And I’ll tell you this: our arms were always open.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Hungry To Be Held.”

Sadly, my granddaughter’s quest for someone to hold her is a picture of someone who’s listening today, except open arms have been hard to find. And when you do, it seems like sooner or later you lose even those who do give you some of the love and attention that you need. Sometimes, you pay a price that’s too high to get someone to be there for you; making you vulnerable to being used and being hurt - a mistake that might be all too familiar to you.

I can’t forget these children we met at a hospital in Haiti. They were hospitalized early in life because they had tuberculosis or AIDS. We played with them, we sang with them, and we read to them, knowing that they probably didn’t understand a word of our English. But as we got ready to leave, the children surrounded us and called out, over and over again, two words they did know in English - words I’ve never forgotten, “Hold me. Hold me.” We gave one last hug, but we couldn’t hold them. We had to move on.

The cry of those precious Haitian children is a fundamental cry of every human heart, “Hold me!” But there aren’t many hugs that last. Even for those of us who have had someone who really has loved us and made us feel secure, there is still this strange love deficit inside. There’s never enough love.

We need someone who will always hold us, who will never let us go, who will never go away. We were made for that kind of love, but we’ve reached the wrong direction to find the one hug that will always be there. We’ve been reaching around us to other people. But to find the one we were made to be held by, we need to look up.

Listen to God’s words, describing the kind of relationship He wants to have with you. “The Lord your God is with you…He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing” (Zephaniah 3:17). That’s intimate love. That's infinite love. That's expensive love. God paid the price for that love.

In Isaiah 49:15-16, our word for today from the Word of God, He says: “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of My hands.”

For Jesus, that engraving is the nail prints in His hands from the day He died to pay for your sins so you could be forgiven; so you could belong to the one whose love you were made for. Because He walked out of His grave, He’s alive. He’s offering the greatest love in the universe. But one-way love doesn’t make a relationship. He’s waiting to hold you, but you have to reach for Him.

God says that means putting your total trust in Jesus to be your personal rescuer from the death penalty for your sins. The wall that’s between you and God comes down when you tell Him, “Jesus, I’m Yours.” Ultimately, your hunger to be held all this time it's been a hunger for Him. He's reaching your direction. It's time to reach back. He'll hold you and never let you go.

Do you want to experience that love for yourself? Would you check out our website? There's a lot of information there about how to belong to Him and how to begin with Him. It’s ANewStory.com.

You are very, very close to experiencing the love that you have been looking for so very long.

“Who’s going to drive?” That was the question Dave and I were debating. And after the debate was over, we got a pretty good laugh out of it. Dave was new on our staff in the New York area at the time, and soon after he arrived we got, shall we call it, an “enlightened” look at each other’s personality. We were headed up to this retreat center for a day of prayer and planning, and we got to the parking lot and said in unison, “Well, who’s going to drive?” It turned out we both wanted to.

As we talked about that during the trip, we started to analyze why we both hate to ride and why we both love to drive. I guess it’s often true of people in leadership; we like to be able to control where things are going, and how fast we’re going to get there. Well, of course, we ended up falling all over each other saying, “You drive,” “No, you drive,” “No, you drive.” You know what? That’s not such a bad idea.

I’m Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “Letting Go of the Wheel.”

Our word for today from the Word of God: we’re in Numbers 13:16 - a turning point in the life of one of God’s great leaders, Joshua. One reason He was great might be because of what happened on this particular day. “These are the names of the men Moses sent to explore the land” the Bible says. And then it just talks about one of them. “Moses gave Hoshea the name Joshua.” You might look at that and say, “This is sort of like a genealogy; it’s just a name thing, right? Why is that important? Hoshea…Joshua, who cares?

As you know, when God changes someone’s name in the Bible, it’s always important. You have to know what the words mean in order to understand the significance of it. Hoshea, which was his given name, means “deliverer.” The name that he was changed to, Joshua – the name by which we know him – means “salvation is from the Lord.” In essence, Joshua grew up with the name saying, “I deliver.” Moses said, “No, I want to change your name to “God delivers.”

I think Joshua realized after that that he was not the controller. He wasn’t meant to drive. That’s especially significant if you tend to be a controlling person. Are you the type of person who tries to control your children’s lives a little bit so they’ll do what you think they should? Or maybe you try to control your mate so he or she will do what you think they should. Or you try to control the people you work with or who work for you. Are you the kind of person who decides what the outcome should be, and then maybe you sort of manipulate whatever you have to in order to make that outcome happen?

Your attitude, because you are a leadership type person, is “It’s up to me. Hey, I’ve got to make it happen!” Aren’t you getting tired? Aren’t you worn out from trying to do God’s job? I’ve gotten that way. He changed Hoshea, “I have to deliver,” to Joshua, “the Lord delivers.” So Joshua would never forget who wins the battles. And that’s true of your battles now too.

You know, I’ve been driving at times when my wife could tell that I was probably about to fall asleep at the wheel no matter what I tried. And she’d just keep going, “You want me to drive? Would you let me drive?” Probably just before we became a National Safety Council statistic, I’d pull over and I would let her drive. And boy, I was asleep before we pulled away from the side of the road.

God’s been saying for a long time, “Let go of that wheel. If you keep driving you’re going to crash this thing. Would you let go of the wheel?” Maybe God’s saying you were never meant to drive. Why don’t you become Joshua - the Lord delivers? Let go of the wheel! Hear God saying, “Relax and leave the driving to Me!”

Matt is 16, and he hates his birthday. At least, that’s what some of his friends said. He said his birthday is always the worst day of the year for him ever since his sixth birthday. He remembers that like it was yesterday. See, his mom went out and bought a special cake, she invited all his friends to come over for Matt’s birthday party, and nobody came. And since there was nobody there for the party, his mom took the cake back to the store. There was no one there to celebrate him.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “No One There To Celebrate You.”

Most people haven’t had a party in their honor that no one showed up for. But a lot of people feel like their life has been a party that no one showed up for. In fact, you may feel right now like there’s no one celebrating you. So many times, you have felt overlooked, neglected, maybe you’ve felt abandoned, and betrayed. You’re questioning your own value. You may be successful, you could be surrounded by people, spiritually involved, but maybe the feelings of unworthiness have never gone away.

Someone very important thinks you’re very important. Actually, He was there for your first birthday - the day you were born. He created you. And this One who rules the galaxies values you more than you can imagine. God’s commitment to you is spelled out very clearly in our word for today from the Word of God. You need to hear this.

In Isaiah 49:15-16, your Creator says, “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you.” Did you get what God’s saying here? “I will not forget you.” If everyone else does, He will not. He never has. He never will. How can you be sure that you’re always on God’s mind? Listen to the next verse, “See, I have engraved you on the palms of My hands.”

Do you know how Jesus’ friends knew it was Him after He came back from the dead? By the nail prints in His hands. Those prints, hammered there when He was nailed to the cross, are there forever. And when Jesus looks at His hands, He sees the nail prints and He thinks of you, because He died on that cross for you. You can walk up to that cross in your mind and say these words right from the Bible, “He loved me and gave Himself for me.”

It was the only way you could ever spend eternity with Jesus in heaven. All your religion, your good deeds, could never pay the death penalty that goes with your sin. And because Jesus doesn’t want to lose you, He took that death penalty for you. That’s how much you mean to Him. That’s how much He loves you. And once you belong to Him, He will never turn His back on someone He loved enough to die for.

But sadly, you may not belong to Jesus because you’ve never opened your heart to Him; you’ve never given Him you. You’ve never felt like you’re worth much because you’ve never known the One who gave you your worth - who thought you were worth His life. But beginning today, you can finally belong to the One who loves you most. But you have to tell Him that you want to begin a relationship with Him.

The Bible says about Him, “You were created by Him and for Him.” And He waits now for you to reach out in total trust to tell Him He is your only hope. So, find a quiet place as soon as you can and just talk to Him something like this: “Jesus, thank You for dying for me. I was never supposed to run my life. I have, but I thank You that You made me and you loved me enough to die for me. And I want the love and the worth of my life from the only One who can give it to me. I want the relationship I was made for. I want You.”

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See, the Son of God made you. He gave His life for you, and you are on the edge right now of more love than you have ever dreamed you could have.

I think in a way, life is kind of like 365 deaths and resurrections every year. You know, you go to bed at night. It’s kind of like you die, and then you come back to life the next morning. Now I know some mornings those resurrections look a little doubtful, like they may not happen. There’s the sound of a buzzer, or a bell, or a radio going on, and then no signs of life. But eventually, sooner or later, there are signs of stirring and the dead person returns to life - another new start in a lifetime full of new starts. Whether or not you find those early moments of your day a little tough, I think I’ve got something that just might help you get out of the gate each morning.

I’m Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “God-Shaped Days.”

Our word for today from the Word of God is found in Ephesians 2:10. I think this is I guess I’d call it a cosmically exciting verse. Listen to this: “For we are God’s workmanship.” Well, that’s pretty good, but he’s not done yet. “…created in Christ Jesus…” Okay, it’s getting better. “…to do good works.” All right. “…which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Now, think about this. The Word of God is saying that you are uniquely crafted by God. You’re His workmanship. All the experiences, the education, the people, even the hurts of your life (maybe especially the hurts of your life) have shaped you for some special assignments from God. He’s given you gifts that will enable you to go and make a difference in your world. You have “make a difference” equipment that God has literally built into you.

And now this verse tells us that there are, throughout your life, assignments specially prepared for you to do. I can’t do them; they were prepared for you. Now, he doesn’t say great works. He says good works. We’re sometimes waiting around for some giant thing to do. “I want something big to do for God.” He says, “I just want you to do a lot of little good works.”

See, God is daily bringing into your life people that He’s planned for you to touch; to help with what you know; to help with what you can do. He’s daily setting you up for a cup of cold water that you were destined to give in His name to someone. Or a compliment, or a word of encouragement that you were destined to give, an insight that maybe will lift someone’s load or change their life. A pre-destined contact with someone who needs what you uniquely can give them.

So when you’re starting a new day and resurrecting from the night before, you don’t have to say, “Oh, here we go again! Seen one day, seen them all.” Uh-uh! No way! You can wake up and say, “This is the day the Lord has made.” Not, “This is the day the boss has made, or the weather has made, or that my husband or wife has made, or my kids have made, or my To Do List has made. No, “This is the day the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad in it!”

Right now God is maneuvering your life and someone else’s so that they will intersect at just the right time; so they will come together for His glory today. But you can miss it. You have to look for it. You have to expect it each new day, because God promised “good works that were prepared in advance for you to do.”

Today you will discover the good works He’s prepared in advance for you to do. That should help you resurrect each morning. That daily destiny? That’s something worth getting up for.

You know, there’s a stretch of Oklahoma, including Oklahoma City, that has been called “Tornado Alley.” On the Weather Channel, a lot of spring and summer days show that part of the country colored in the bright red that indicates severe weather. The most powerful tornado America ever had so far roared through the Oklahoma City area just a few years ago. As I drove through that area on a spring day between storm systems, I couldn’t help but be impressed with what I saw as I drove by a church. Right in front of the church you could see an open door sticking up out of the ground. The church actually has a storm cellar right out on the street, and the door was wide open!

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “The Open Door on Our Safe Place.”

That’s how every church and Christian fellowship should be - a storm cellar with the door wide open for everybody to enter! Sadly, too many churches turn out to be a place where you find more storms, but it’s meant to be the safest place in town.

We’ve got a lot to learn from the original template of how God’s people are supposed to operate together. It’s described for us in our word for today from the Word of God in Acts 2, beginning with verse 42. These were the original Christians and they showed us how to do it right. “They devoted themselves, to the apostles’ teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread, and to prayer.” First of all, there’s the key to being Jesus’ kind of church - stay focused on the majors and don’t get mired in the minors. The majors are studying the Word of God together, celebrating your common ground in Christ, remembering His cross, and waging war on your knees. Not majoring on personalities, buildings, budgets, music styles, or putting people in categories.

This powerful blueprint goes on to say that “all the believers were together…they gave to anyone as he had need.” They focused on needs, not programs. And “every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.” Well, of course they won the favor of all the people! How could they miss when they provided a place where you could count on being loved, count on having people care about your needs, and count on finding a safe place. That’s the storm cellar so many people are looking for in our stormy world.

So, how do we let God’s safe place deteriorate into just another stormy place? Egos, personal agendas masquerading as God’s agenda, making small issues into big issues, developing an unofficial caste system that effectively has one group of people who are the insiders and the rest who feel like the outsiders, judging people by their outward appearance instead of by their heart, or treating people as categories instead of as individuals. Somehow, the church can become a place where we’re known for something other than the one characteristic Jesus said would draw people to Him… “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.”

We represent the welcoming Savior who said, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and heavily burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). The One who was called “the friend of sinners” ... who sought out the lostest of the lost, and He sought out those the religious people rejected. That’s a welcoming Savior! We’ve got to be His welcoming representatives, providing one place where anyone and everyone can feel safe in this storm-ravaged world. We are the open door through which people can find the sanctuary of the love of Jesus Christ.

My regular routine doesn’t allow me as much time for exercise as I’d like. In the past, when I had a few days away and my schedule permitted, I would enjoy doing some biking or hiking, or running. Of course, my body always told me that I hadn't been doing it enough. I ended up hurting in places I didn’t even know I had places! But it’s good to get some extra exercise when you can.

One of those times, my wife and I were away, and I had a chance to do some jogging on the beach at sunrise. I was chugging along trying to cover those last few hundred yards, which seemed like the longest and pounding back down the beach all tired and sweaty and disgusting. My muscles were saying, “Stop this, will you!” And then I saw my wife in the distance. Well, that was a great motivation to finish, and to finish strong. So I kind of picked up the pace a little bit, and had almost reached her when I saw what she had written in huge letters in the sand, “I love you, Ron.” Oh boy, there it was! What a happy ending to my run…or for any man on any day.

I’m Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about “The ‘I Love You’ At the Finish Line.”

Our word for today from the Word of God is about "wife-ing" actually, and it’s in Titus 2:4-5. It’s actually instructions to the older women in the church as to what they should, from their well of experience, train the younger women to be like. He says, “Then they can train the younger women…” First and foremost notice now, “…to love their husbands and children. To be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the Word of God.”

Actually, this passage is referring to two generations of loving wives, because obviously the older women had to do it in order to be able to teach it to the younger women. So, in both generations, the very first word to the women is, “Love your husband.” Proverbs 31, that great description of the woman every godly woman wants to be, the Proverbs 31 Woman, well here’s what it says about her in verse 12. “She brings her husband good, not harm, all the days of her life.” Notice, each 24-hour period. In other words, she brings daily goodies into his life. Now, there’s that picture of me running on the beach, coming toward the finish line, tired, feeling like quitting. And suddenly I see these words, “I love you, Ron.” It gave me incentive to cross the finish line.

I’ll tell you, that’s a picture of many days in the life of a man close to you - a husband, a son, a brother. He comes home tired from today’s run. Few things mean more to a man than to know that he will find an “I love you” at the finish line. I think a man can handle almost anything if he’s sure that he will be safe and appreciated and loved when he gets home. You know, “All’s well that ends well.” Lots of pressure, lots of stress, but I can handle it if I know there’s going to be security at the finish line.

There are a lot of ways to say it to him. First, just verbally express it. Don’t just say, “I love you until further notice.” No, tell him often. Touch him affectionately. Provide peace in the house as much as possible when he arrives home; maybe that special meal or special card or special note. Now, it’s hard, because you’ve had a long run too. But God will give you strength to put your husband first when you feel like being first yourself.

By the way, what a tremendous surprise it is if that wife is greeted by a man who’s more concerned about her needs than his own. If you’re a woman, say “I love you” in his language; not just on Valentine’s Day or anniversary, but remember “I love you” never means more than after that finish line that he crosses after a long day’s run.

It's been a long time since the "Star Wars" trilogy of movies exploded into our popular culture like, well, like Darth Vader's Death Star. Millions of people developed a fascination for the adventures of Luke Skywalker, Han Solo, Princess Leia, and, of course, the infamous Darth Vader. Hero Luke Skywalker became a Jedi knight and he learned the power of what was called The Force. Darth Vader, who was the villain, had mastered the power of the "dark side" of The Force. And then, decades later, a new "Star Wars" trilogy began, telling the story of the events that preceded the original episodes. So there's not Luke or Han or Princess Leia for a while, but guess what was still there? Yeah, The Force. And in subsequent movies, of course, still there. And what is The Force? No one's really sure, but it seems to be the spiritual power you can tap into to help you win your battles.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft, and I want to have A Word With You today about “Star Wars - And Our Wars.”

Spiritual power you can harness to help you win battles that you can't win with your own resources - that's actually a pretty interesting idea. Of course, our battles aren't about storm troopers or villains with light sabers.

No, we're trying to make a marriage work, to beat the monsters of anger, depression, addiction, selfishness, or loneliness. We battle real challenges, not computer-animated fantasy foes. And as you face the battles raging around you right now - maybe even in you right now - you're having to admit that they are bigger than you are. Actually, there is inside us a deep desire for some power - some spiritual power really - beyond our own to enable us to be the man or woman we desperately want and need to be.

But we need something better than The Force. That's a fictional, impersonal spiritual energy that only the spiritually elite can tap into. Our biggest struggles are actually against the "dark side" that’s inside us. In our word for today from the Word of God, one of the writers of the Bible spoke about our dark side when he said, "For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do...I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out...it is sin living in me that does it." And then he speaks for all of us who battle our dark side when he says, "Who will rescue me?" (Romans 7:15, 20, 24)

Thankfully, the Bible doesn't leave us there. The answer follows. "Thanks be to God - through Jesus Christ our Lord!" The "force" that we need to conquer the dark side is actually a Person - Jesus Christ, the One who gave His life on a cross to pay the death penalty for all the sinning we've ever done. His act of deep love for you and me broke the power that sin has had over the human race since the first man and woman took their lives into their own hands.

We don't need some impersonal force or spirituality that doesn't really help us. We need a living Savior! That's what we need. The power of Jesus is demonstrated, above all else, by His empty grave there on Easter morning. He walked out of His grave under His own power! Now, look, if He can conquer death, the darkness that has stopped every person who has ever lived, He can sure conquer the darkness inside you!

Jesus says to those who belong to Him, "All power is given to Me in heaven and earth...and I am with you always" (Matthew 28:18, 20). Man! Wow! He’s the spiritual power you need to win your battles. He is the love you've been looking for all your life, and Jesus becomes your Savior from your sin when you tell Him you're putting your life into His nail-scarred hands.

You can do that today when you tell Him, “Jesus, I’m Yours.” Then check out our website because the information you’ll need to understand and confirm this is right there. It’s ANewStory,com.

Look, your battles have probably left you pretty wounded and pretty tired. The dark side has won long enough; it’s hurt enough people. You don't ever have to fight those battles alone again, my friend. Jesus Christ - the Creator of every faraway galaxy - stands ready to fight for you from that moment that you open up to His amazing love.