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Feeling stuck, burned out, or boxed in at work? Career strategist Julia Toothacre (Ride The Tide Collective) breaks down how neurodivergent professionals can own their careers—without masking or burning out. We cover smart pivots (without "starting over"), asking for accommodations that actually help, navigating toxic managers, handling feedback without spiraling, and building influence in ways that fit your brain.

In this episode

• How to spot misfit roles vs. misfit cultures—and what to do next
• Practical accommodations (agendas, debriefs, flexible hours) that boost performance
• Manager conflict: scripts, documentation, and when to loop in HR
• Career pivots that don't send you back to entry-level
• Advocacy without oversharing: lead with strengths like pattern recognition
• Burnout cues, recovery, and sustainable advancement

About Julia

Julia Toothacre is a strategic career consultant, coach, and host of the Control Your Career podcast. She's guided thousands of high-achieving professionals with a 5-phase framework to clarify goals, build influence, and move up—minus the burnout.

Links & resources

🧠 Julia's site & podcast: RideTheTideCollective.com 🎙️ Control Your Career (podcast): search "Control Your Career – Ride The Tide Collective"

Events & Summits

✨ NeuroThrive Autism Workshop (July 31): https://autismsupport.live/july-aprilratchford 🤝 Social Connections Summit 2025: https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/scs2025

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n this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford sits down with Murphy Monroe to explore how neurodivergent adults can thrive without compromising their authenticity. From practical self-advocacy tools to navigating relationships and careers, Murphy shares real-world strategies for building a life that works for you—not against you.

💡 Whether you're autistic, ADHD, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers relatable stories and actionable steps you can use right now.

✨ Don't miss the Thrive Summit — connect with an incredible lineup of speakers (including April!) sharing strategies to live your best neurodivergent life: Register Here

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In this inspiring episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford chats with Nathaniel A. Turner—author, TEDx speaker, and creator of the powerful "Life Template." Nathaniel shares how he reverse-engineered his future to empower both himself and his son, despite challenges like ADHD and uncertainty.

We explore:

• Why starting with your destination helps create any path to purpose
• How neurodiverse adults can build clarity and drive through backward design
• The emotional and practical tools used to thrive in education, career, and relationships
• Ways to foster a legacy of impact for yourself and your loved ones

Whether you're an autistic adult, caregiver, or ally, Nathaniel's wisdom helps you shift from survival mode to intentional living.

Summit Spotlights

1. Social Connections Summit 2025 A free virtual gathering on September 24–25 for late-identified Autistic, AuDHD, and ADHD professionals & allies.

• Learn accessibility tools for workplace connection
• Get scripts for neurodivergent communication
• Join community and boost self-advocacy Register here 👉 Social Connections Summit 2025

2. July 2025 NeuroThrive Autism Workshop Starting July 31, led by Dr. Ana Villalaz, this virtual series gives parents, educators, and caregivers:

• 10+ hours of live sessions with clinical psychologists
• Q&A support, toolkits, and replay access
• Connection with a global support community Sign up now 👉 NeuroThrive Workshops Earlybird pricing available—grab your spot today!

Connect with Nathaniel Turner

• Website: https://nathanielaturner.com
• Instagram: @nathanielaturner
• LinkedIn: Nathaniel A. Turner
• Facebook: Nathaniel A. Turner
• YouTube: Nathaniel A. Turner

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"Community is where hope lives."

In this inspiring episode of Adulting With Autism, we sit down with Jamie Olson, the creator of Uniquely You Magazine, a publication written by and for the special needs community. Jamie shares her journey as a mom of three—including her 12-year-old son with autism and epilepsy—and how she's building spaces that connect, inspire, and empower families nationwide.

Through her work as a publisher and community builder, Jamie is proving that sharing our stories and creating meaningful connections can bring hope, understanding, and practical support to neurodivergent families everywhere.

🎧 In this episode, we discuss:

• The power of storytelling in the special needs community
• Building events and resources that truly connect families
• Finding hope and belonging through shared experiences
• How to bridge digital and real-world support for neurodivergent families

💡 Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or advocate, Jamie's story will remind you that you don't have to navigate this journey alone.

🌟 Resources & Links:

🌟 Join the NeuroThrive Summit and the Social Summit 2025: https://www.patternsofpossibility.com/scs2025

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In this powerful episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford welcomes Beatty Carmichael, a leading expert on the spiritual roots of mental health, chronic pain, and emotional struggles. With over 25 years of experience, Beatty reveals why most medical solutions only treat symptoms—and how identifying the true spiritual root can create lasting freedom.

Discover:

✅ How chronic pain, depression, and anxiety can disappear in days

✅ The 3 steps to uncovering the spiritual causes behind mental and physical health struggles

✅ Real-life breakthroughs from over 1,000 clients and a 90% documented success rate

✅ How Beatty's book The Prayer of Freedom can help you unlock your own healing journey

📖 Learn more about Beatty's work: www.ThePrayerOfFreedomBook.com

🌟 Special Opportunities for Our Listeners:

• NeuroThrive Virtual Autism Summit – Expert insights & practical strategies for families and professionals.https://autismsupport.live/july-aprilratchford
• Social Connections Summit 2025 – Free virtual event for late-identified Autistic & ADHD professionals and allies.[Social Connections Summit Page] 🎁 First two listeners to DM their registration receipts get FREE summit tickets!

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In this inspiring episode of Adulting with Autism, I sit down with Carol Waldman, a lifelong political advocate and community leader, and her son Andrew Waldman, a 23-year-old recent graduate and neurodiversity advocate.

Diagnosed with autism at age four, Andrew's journey from navigating social and academic challenges to graduating from the University of Wisconsin–Madison, interning in Washington D.C., and becoming a two-time Global Neurodiversity Conference panelist is nothing short of remarkable.

Alongside him, Carol shares how advocacy became personal, from leading parent support groups to serving as an elected California State Democratic Party Delegate, fighting for inclusive policies, accommodations, and opportunities for neurodivergent individuals.

🎧 In this episode, you'll learn:

• How families can navigate life transitions for autistic young adults
• Practical tips for building confidence, social skills, and independence
• Why advocacy and persistence can transform opportunities for neurodivergent communities
• Andrew's journey from autism diagnosis to working in Washington D.C.
• How parents and self-advocates can influence change in local and national policy

💡 Connect with our guests:

• Carol Waldman
  • Instagram: @carol.n.waldman
  • LinkedIn: Carol Waldman
• Andrew Waldman
  • Instagram: @awaldman24
  • LinkedIn: Andrew Waldman

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If you found this conversation helpful, subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Buzzsprout to help more families and self-advocates find our community.

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Sophia Warren joins host April Ratchford to talk self-trust, inner alignment, and navigating life as a neurodivergent adult. In this episode of Adulting with Autism, we explore how radical authenticity can transform relationships, career paths, and mental health. Whether you're autistic, ADHD, or an ally, Sophia brings insights that resonate deeply.

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How do masking, trauma bonds, and PDA affect autistic adults — and what does true healing even look like?

In this episode of Adulting with Autism, host April Ratchford talks with Kerie Logan, intuitive hypnotherapist, author, and consciousness guide. With over 30 years of experience and a son on the spectrum, Kerie shares how trauma patterns shape the autistic experience — and how to finally break free.

💡 We discuss:

• Autism, masking & reactive abuse
• PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) & emotional shutdown
• Self-regulation for the nervous system
• Spiritual healing & identity beyond diagnosis

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Born in Ukraine and raised in the U.S., Alex Yaro learned early how different cultures handle communication. Now, as a certified executive coach and mediator, he helps autistic adults reframe conflict, understand intent vs. impact, and create clarity in personal and professional relationships.

If you're autistic and navigating tension at work or home, this episode will help you self-advocate with confidence—without masking your needs.

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Victorial Lenormand joins host April Ratchford to explore healing, energy work, and personal empowerment through a neurodivergent lens. This powerful conversation blends intuition with insight, offering practical and spiritual tools for thriving in a world that often misunderstands difference.

We talk about subtle strength, reclaiming identity, and how energetic boundaries can be a life-changing tool for neurodivergent adults.

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