First things first — episode 100.
We got here!
It hasn't always been a straight road, but here we are and I'm not skipping past that without acknowledging it.
This is part three of the 10-part miniseries (episodes 98–107). Drop in anywhere, but the journey builds, so start at 98 if you want the full picture.
Now.
Let's talk about capacity.
Because I'd bet everything that you've been thinking about it upside down.
Capacity isn't about time.
Nor is it about energy.
It's about what you've decided (consciously or not) that you're allowed to have.
And that quiet decision is running everything.
Your income, your success, your ability to actually hold what you've worked so hard to build.
This episode came straight from real conversations I've been having recently, and from watching the universe throw my own material right back at me in real time.
Which, yes, it always does.
We get into:
- Why capacity has nothing to do with how hard you're working and everything to do with what you believe you're allowed to receive
- The glass ceiling conversation. What's actually imposed externally versus what you've quietly self-imposed and called circumstance
- The hot potato problem and why so many high achievers can grasp success but can't hold it, and what's actually going on there
- Why you can hustle for 10 years, get to the ceiling, break through it and still not be able to hold what's on the other side
- What I've observed specifically with female founders that nobody is saying out loud but needs to be said
- Why the work isn't about doing more. It's about deciding you're allowed to have more and then letting yourself
- 35 years in business, the sexism I've faced, and why every single time somebody told me that's not available to you, my answer was the same: watch me
This one is for the high achievers who are working incredibly hard towards goals they don't actually believe (somewhere underneath it all) are really for them.
That's the ceiling.
And now you know it's there.
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