All That And Mo

In today's episode, we're embarking on part 1 of my third lecture in my riveting lecture series, "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." So, buckle up as we continue our deep dive into the intimate world of introverts in BDSM.

Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.

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Welcome back!

In today's episode, we're embarking on part two of the riveting lecture series, "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." So, buckle up as we continue our deep dive into the intimate world of introverts in BDSM. Make sure to listen to part 1!

Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.

Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.

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• Healthy Life

Supastar Ride-Or-Die!

• Elizabeth Scott

Shimmering In The Firmament of AWESOME! 

• Tauni the Mostly Harmless
• Brittany Jenkins
• Minnow & blossom
• Joanna Spencer
• J Starr
• Anna T Biddle
• Amy Willaert
• James R Potyraj
• Marshall Flax
• Haddayr Copley-Woods
• Scott J
• Marty Wilder
• Meg Baca
• JP Robichaud
• aeric meredith-goujon
• KillerB1973
• Sara Leiste
• Esther
• The Adipositivity Project
• Andrea
• DK Green (aka DK Leather)
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• Stephanie Shernicoff
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In today's episode, we're diving into the first part of one such lecture, called "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." Ready to join the ride with me? Let's get started!

Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.

Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.

VIP Dope Ass Mofo!

• Healthy Life

Supastar Ride-Or-Die!

• Elizabeth Scott

Shimmering In The Firmament of AWESOME! 

• Tauni the Mostly Harmless
• Brittany Jenkins
• Minnow & blossom
• Joanna Spencer
• J Starr
• Anna T Biddle
• Amy Willaert
• James R Potyraj
• Marshall Flax
• Haddayr Copley-Woods
• Scott J
• Marty Wilder
• Meg Baca
• JP Robichaud
• aeric meredith-goujon
• KillerB1973
• Sara Leiste
• Esther
• The Adipositivity Project
• Andrea
• DK Green (aka DK Leather)
• Stephanie Shernicoff

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On today’s episode, join me, Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, and my friend Rebecca Lowrie, a “sexual alchemist” helping successful, spiritually curious men to explore and embrace their full, true selves through conscious sexuality.

We begin by discussing how our perception of time changes as we age, leading to a conversation about personal growth and the importance of stability during periods of significant change. I share my journey towards starting my own consulting business and my new venture, Kink Doula, a service that provides coaching, mentoring, and more to those exploring their desires and relationships.

We delve into the world of kink and BDSM, discussing the importance of self-negotiation and psychological intimacy. We also explore the concept of "contra sexuality," which involves safely exploring darker, non-normative sexual fantasies. We also touch on the potential benefits of exploring darker fantasies—and how doing that could potentially lead to some harm reduction.

And just saying, if someone wants to bank roll our cult, you know where to find me. 😉(for legal reasons that is a joke)

Join us for this heartfelt and honest conversation about self-love, acceptance, and embracing your true self.

Links and Resources:

• Leon the Lobster
• Kink Doula
• Complimentary Class: "What The Heck Kind of Pervert Are You?"
• Rebecca Lowrie's Instagram

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Tauni the Mostly Harmless

Brittany Jenkins

Minnow & blossom

Joanna Spencer

J Starr

Anna T Biddle

Amy Willaert

James R Potyraj

Marshall Flax

Haddayr Copley-Woods

Scott J

Marty Wilder

Meg Baca

JP Robichaud

aeric meredith-goujon

KillerB1973

Sara Leiste

Esther

The Adipositivity Project

Andrea

DK Green (aka DK Leather)

Stephanie Shernicoff

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Have you ever wondered what happens when cultural differences, sexual liberation, and a daring sense of adventure collide? In this second part of this double-header episode, I take you on a journey through my explorations in the diverse world of BDSM. From the bustling streets of New York to the serene settings of Vienna, I've come across compelling stories that underscore the necessity of diversity and inclusivity within our spaces.

Our conversation today delves into a class I taught on edge play, risky scenes, and race play, and how these elements intertwine in fascinating and challenging ways. There's also a chat on weaponizing privilege for good, the concept of the "Observer Effect," and the remarkable impact of advocating for disability access within our communities.

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Healthy Life - VIP Dope Ass Mofo!

Elizabeth Scott - Supastar Ride-Or-Die!

Shimmering In The Firmament of AWESOME!

Tauni the Mostly Harmless

Brittany Jenkins

Minnow & blossom

Joanna Spencer

J Starr

Anna T Biddle

Amy Willaert

James R Potyraj

Marshall Flax

Haddayr Copley-Woods

Scott J

Marty Wilder

Meg Baca

JP Robichaud

aeric meredith-goujon

KillerB1973

Sara Leiste

Esther

The Adipositivity Project

Andrea

DK Green (aka DK Leather)

Stephanie Shernicoff

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Ever wondered what it's like to teach sexuality classes in Vienna, or to embrace your authentic sexual self amidst societal judgments? Recorded while touring Europe with my Spousemeister Georg Friedrich Haas, I share my recent lecture at the Vienna Art Institute, where I was invited to share on topics around sex, alternative sexuality, race, and gender issues. We'll dive into my upbringing, my first exposure to alternative sexuality, and the crucial role consent has played in my relationships.

Additionally, I touch on my experiences as a black woman in the BDSM community, discussing racial misunderstandings and misconceptions. We'll tackle topics such as consent, the importance of language, and the self-care benefits of BDSM lifestyle.

So, whether you're a kink veteran or just curious about what it all means, join me in this episode for an exploration of sexual freedom, acceptance, and the art of living authentically.

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Shimmering In The Firmament of AWESOME! Tauni the Mostly Harmless Brittany Jenkins Minnow & blossom Joanna Spencer J Starr Anna T Biddle Amy Willaert James R Potyraj Marshall Flax Haddayr Copley-Woods Scott J Marty Wilder Meg Baca JP Robichaud aeric meredith-goujon KillerB1973 Sara Leiste Esther The Adipositivity Project Andrea DK Green (aka DK Leather) Stephanie Shernicoff

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How do we maintain resilience and stay upright when life's a whirlwind, and we're Daffy Duck with his little legs twirling around? Well, I'm not entirely sure, but I'm in it with you, and today we'll commiserate together.

This past fortnight has been a whirlwind, and honestly, I'm barely hanging in there. I don't have the energy to pull together a typical deep-dive discussion, so I've asked my amazing producer, Cody, to dig into our vaults and air a past episode.

See you soon ~ 💜 Mo 

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Ever wondered what it's like traveling the world as an artistic couple? The adventure, the hiccups, and the hilarity of it all?

In this episode, I, and my beloved Spousemeister, delve into our recent travel experiences. From the bustle of Budapest and Vienna, dealing with unexpected dilemmas, to losing some of our belongings – the journey has been full of surprises.

We explore the cultural and historical tapestry of Prague, share our experiences of being a dynamic couple in the arts scene, and our journey to a place of mutual understanding and respect as collaborators.

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Can you imagine holding onto a pebble of pain, rubbing it smooth over years, like a worry stone? In today's episode, we dive deep into the uncharted territory of emotional pain—how we deal with it, why we hold onto it, and how we might begin to let it go.

I share some personal experiences around this topic, from the lingering pain of unresolved family issues to my spouse's past, and how it all intersects with my own hypervigilance and perpetual anxiety. I reflect on the value of having friends who are older and how observing their handling of life's ups and downs informs my perspective.

There's an exploration of the irony of seeking physical pain in kink while shying away from emotional pain, and a deep dive into the theme of self-sabotage—our baffling tendency to undermine our own success.

In a world that often discourages expressing negative emotions, learning to listen to our pain can be a radical act of self-love and healing. So join me as we journey into the heart of pain, and, perhaps, come out stronger on the other side.

Links and Resources: 

• Work with me at KinkDoula.com
• Upcoming events

Thank you so much to my loyal Patrons who make this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.

🤩Healthy Life - VIP Dope Ass Mofo!

😎 Elizabeth Scott - Supastar Ride-Or-Die!

🌟 Shimmering In The Firmament of AWESOME!

Tauni the Mostly Harmless

Brittany Jenkins

Minnow & blossom

Joanna Spencer

J Starr

Anna T Biddle

Amy Willaert

James R Potyraj

Marshall Flax

Also thanks to:

Haddayr Copley-Woods, Scott J, Marty Wilder, Meg Baca, JP Robichaudaeric, meredith-goujon, KillerB1973, Sara Leiste, Esther, The Adipositivity Project, Andrea, DK Green (aka DK Leather), Stephanie Shernicoff

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Have you ever caught yourself in a spiral of self-criticism and negativity? That's where I found myself in this episode, battling with the guilt of missed work commitments and the exhaustion in the aftermath of COVID-19.

In this deeply personal reflection, I talk about my struggle with high expectations for myself, my battle with emotional perfectionism since childhood, and how I've grappled with the fear of disappointing others. It's been a tough journey, but I've had some pretty amazing people by my side, and I want to take a moment to appreciate them and the accomplishments I've made along the way.

I also share the challenges of healthcare, the absurdity of American healthcare costs, and some frustrating experiences trying to get medication for a three-week trip to Europe. Plus, I dive into my new consulting venture, Kink Doula, and the scheduling issues that have come up.

But it's not all hardship and struggle. There are moments of self-love and acceptance, of recognizing the beauty in our imperfections and the miracles of our lives. Join me as I take a moment to step back, breathe, and appreciate the miracle of being alive.

Links and Resources:

• My new consulting venture 'Kink Doula'

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