All The Cunts To The Front

For any other fiercely independent people - those of us who need to or have had to stand up for themselves, to advocate for their needs, their wants, their goals..

As well as essentially rallying cry for self-advocacy, intuitive voice, and inner loyalty. These affirmations help me/maybe you build resilience, speak up with clarity, and stand by yourself in every room you enter. Whether you’re navigating doubt, being overlooked, or needing to affirm your right to take up space, this flow grounds you in the truth that you’ve got you, and that’s a powerful place to be.

In this episode of All the Cunts to the Front, we’re celebrating some of history’s fiercest and most courageous women who took on the world, defied the odds, and left a lasting impact. From Queen Abbakka Chowta, India’s warrior queen who repeatedly defeated the Portuguese empire, to Harriet Tubman, the ultimate conductor of the Underground Railroad who risked her life to lead enslaved people to freedom, these women’s stories remind us of the power of resistance, resilience, and unwavering bravery. We also shine a light on Lillian Smith, an early white southern advocate for racial equality, and Queen Lili’uokalani, the Hawaiian monarch who fought for her people’s sovereignty even in the face of betrayal and imprisonment.

And we DON’T STOP THERE—we dive into the inspiring work of revolutionary activist Yuri Kochiyama, who dedicated her life to fighting oppression and building bridges between marginalized communities, and Judith Love Cohen, the aerospace engineer whose work helped save the Apollo 13 mission. 

< ps Why didn’t I know about the majority of the women in these episodes so far…WTF “AMERICAN HISTORY”?!? >

These women, through their actions, legacies, and bravery, continue to inspire generations to rise, challenge, and fight for what’s right. Tune in for a journey through herstory, filled with moments of strength, defiance, and undeniable badassery.

Fear of looking stupid, fear of being embarrassed, REJECTION….are they very human feelings? yes,  but they have  no business in being present when we are trying to be our whole, wild, honest to bones selves. 

These affirmations are all about rooting into self-security and embracing boldness, even in the face of potential failure or judgment. Themes of the flow: letting go of fear, embarrassment, and people-pleasing, this set uplifts the wild, curious self and celebrates mistakes as part of becoming. 

It’s a reminder that standing out is not a flaw — it’s the beginning of a breakthrough.

In this final part of our interview with Serafina, we talk about authenticity and identity, self-care in the scene, having neurodiverse clients, talking about that neurodivergent umbrella THEN we finish it up with POLYAMORY: misconceptions, understanding, solopoly and a few Q&A . 

And boom, a badass 3 part interview. - enjoy! 

I’m unlearning the bullshit that we’re not supposed to want money but also we should but also money is evil….no no no.  So these affirmations are a part of my relearning, re-engineering my brain to release old mindsets that don’t serve anyone or anything.  We all deserve money if not just to have an abundance and prosperous life, to pay it forward to causes that we believe in. Money is energy. 

This set of affirmations centers on building a mindset of abundance, financial ease, and joyful prosperity HONAY!  They reflect a confident relationship with money — welcoming it as a natural, safe, and exciting part of life. From unexpected income to generous spending and purposeful earning, these affirmations remind us that wealth flows most freely when they feel worthy, aligned, and expansive in their energy.

In this second part of my conversation with professional Switch Serafina, we dive deep into the world of BDSM, breaking down key concepts such as what a “scene” is, the realities of sex work, and common misconceptions around it. We discuss the importance of safety in intimacy, trauma-informed care, and setting healthy boundaries within these spaces. 

You’ll also hear about the steps of creating a scene, using tools like the stoplight system, and how to negotiate and communicate effectively in intimacy/ scenes/ play. We explore the essential practices of aftercare and discuss the process of modeling a scene to ensure mutual respect, safety, and pleasure. This episode is a thoughtful and educational look into creating empowered, consensual experiences and fostering healthy relationships in the everyday life and in the alt/ kink/ BDSM community.

In this episode, energy is a little different. It was spur of the moment, if you don’t watch the visuals, I’m usually on my couch and today I was sitting on the floor. I really just wanted to touch on freedom of self, freedom of the mind, liberating the heart, and desires…

I hope you enjoy and feel it in your heart.

There are a lot of misconceptions about kink, BDSM, fetishes etc. I decided I wanted to know the truth without shame.  So what did I do?  Find a up and coming Professional Switch to teach us their ways and breakdown this taboo topic. 

In this first part of my conversation with professional switch Serafina, we explore the intersection of gender, identity, and queerness in the world of professional switching and BDSM. We talk about the importance of being open to learning about kink, fetish, and the don/sub experience, all while recognizing that these are personal experiences and personal research.

 It’s a space for education and curiosity, where different perspectives are not only welcomed but celebrated! This episode is about creating a loving and respectful space for all kinds of identities and experiences to exist. 

In this flow, I dive into the powerful  of embracing your sexuality, self-expression, and desires. You’ll hear affirmations that invite curiosity, self-love, and confidence, encouraging you to honor your body, your voice/ voicing your needs, and attracting safe, fulfilling physical connect.

 These affirmations serve as a reminder that embracing your sexual identity is an integral part of being alive and whole, allowing you to step into your power unapologetically.

In this episode of Cunts to the Front, I dive into something a bit unexpected but incredibly powerful. After one of my posts asking for unhinged ways people have shut down unwanted advances went viral, I felt I couldn’t just leave the sage wisdom to sit in comment county.v

I spend nearly 30 minutes barely scratching the surface of the OVER 14,000 COMMENTS from women/men sharing how they shut down creepy advances and unwanted attention.  It was wild to see so many of us speak up, and it was oddly validating to hear that, yes, this happens way more often than people think. From the laughs to the real talk, it felt like a collective shout of solidarity. I’m proud of all the women who shared their experiences, and it’s clear that our voices are growing stronger, louder, and more unfiltered.

 I read them in real-time, it was a good decision bc my reactions are unfiltered lol. Enjoy