Amerisogyny

Hey Friends! We're back with another episode of 'Amerisogyny,' and today we're diving into a heartfelt discussion about resilience in the face of life's toughest challenges. I'm reaching out to all of you who feel like giving up, to remind you that it's not just the strong who survive, it's the resilient. Despite America's shortcomings in embracing diversity, I'm urging you, wherever you are, to keep fighting. You might think I don't understand your pain, but believe me, I've seen struggle up close.

From healthcare biases that Black women face to the mistrust in the medical system, we've got stories that show how prejudice can overshadow qualifications and the need for trust. Plus, we're celebrating those who break barriers, like Viviane Koume with her Ivorian chocolate venture, and Sarah Gibbs, who found her place in the world after a late autism diagnosis. This episode is a reminder that your struggle can lead to resilience and that you're not alone in this fight. Tune in to hear more about creating spaces for ourselves and the importance of knowing your worth. And remember, you've got a friend in me, so keep pushing forward.

In this episode, I'm sharing my favorite KDramas on Netflix! Buckle up and and enjoy the ride!

Recently U.S Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, declared loneliness as an epidemic.  According to Dr. Murthy, loneliness contributes to significant decline in mental and physical health.  If not rectified, this could be potentially hazardous for the healthcare system--resulting in a loss of billions of dollars.

Loneliness has been a consistent issue long before Covid 19 halted the world under a cloak of fear and death.  The art of being lonely has caused people to make life changing, and at times, life threatening decisions.

Society's high expectations of men are at times devastating for a man's mental health.  Unrealistic physical and emotional expectations place men in uncompromising situations where they are forced to deal with unwanted pressure and stress. 

Some of the most popular men around the world--Prince Harry, BTS's Suga, Jackson Wang, Trevor Noah, and former professional Brazilian soccer player Ronaldo etc, have confronted the pressures head on and prioritized their mental health to improve their quality of life, thus saving themselves.  Join me as I discuss the trials and triumphs of some of the wealthiest men in the world.  This is a ride you won't want to miss!

References:

Real Madrid Ronaldo opens up on mental health in football: I've been in psychological therapy for two and a half years. Mario Cortegana 10/15/2022

Prince Harry Says He Prioritizes His Mental Health by Avoiding 'Toxic Parts of the Online World.' Michelle Tauber  April 22, 2022

Prince Harry on 'History Repeating Itself': 'It's Triggering to Potentially Lose Another Woman in My Life.' Karen Mizoguchi and Simon Perry May 20, 2021

'Spider-Man' actor Tom Holland says he is taking a social media break for his mental health.  Mirna Alsharif Aug. 15, 2022

David Harewood on growing up with racist abuse and the psychotic breakdown he suffered.  Hannah Stephenson  September 7, 2021

Jackson Wang Talks Struggles With Mental Health, Coachella Surprise and Why K-Pop Will Last Forever.  Shirley Ju  Apr 15, 2022

60 Minutes Entertainment Comedian Trevor Noah on humor and belonging. Lesley Stahl December 19, 2021

ChatGPT is giving therapy.  A mental health revolution may be next. Aljazeera. Erin Hale  Apr 27, 2023

Kpop fans around the world are reeling over the unexpected death of beloved Kpop star Moonbin of Astro. At only 25 years of age, Moonbin brought light and love to his fans in every corner of the world. Family, friends, Kpop stars and fans are stunned this once vital and talented man is gone forever. In this episode, we will process the stages of grief and navigate how to respond to sadness in a way that is meaningful and uplifting for everyone who has ever suffered a tragic loss.

On April 12, 2023, the US Department of Justice stated they didn't have enough evidence to move forward to arrest anyone involved in the murder of 25 year old Shanquella Robinson. Robinson's story went viral in 2022 after a video surfaced online of her being beaten by another woman. Since her death, her family has been relentless in obtaining justice for her. All for their hopes to be dashed. The family vows they won't give up. Join me as I dissect her case and uncover the treacherous betrayal and lies behind a false friendship.

Sources:

US prosecutors tell family of Shanquella Robinson they won’t pursue charges in her death in Mexico. Alta Spells and Macie Goldfarb, CNN April 12, 2023

U.S. Won’t File Charges in Death of American Woman in Mexico: Shanquella Robinson, 25, of Charlotte, N.C., had traveled last fall to Mexico with six friends. A widely circulated video appears to show her being beaten by another woman. Eduardo Medina April 12, 2023

New video shows US tourist Shanquella Robinson with pals before mysterious death at Mexico resort. Yaron Steinbuch November 21, 2022

Shanquella Robinson’s best “friend” says ‘We have our first dead body, she through for’, while filming her asleep in Mexico. Gerald Jackson November 21,

Recently, several celebrities have been outed for being too fat, too thin or told old. Pop star Ariana Grande uploaded a TikTok video asking people to be more mindful of commenting on bodies. Grande's video was candid and straight forward. What makes people comfortable enough to force their insecurities on others? Take a weekend ride we me as we discuss the harmful impacts judgments have when people are outed for not fitting impossible beauty standards.

Sources:

Ariana Grande addresses ‘concerns’ that she looks ‘thin’ in new pics. Emily Selleck April 11, 2023

Ariana Grande Says 'Healthy Can Look Different' While Addressing Body-Shaming Comments: 'Be Gentle' By Ingrid Vasquez April 11, 2023

People Who Mocked Chadwick Boseman For His Weight Loss Now Feel Awful And Hopefully It Teaches Them A Lesson. Rokas Laurinavičius and Greta Jaruševičiūtė (2 years ago)

Lizzo says the “discourse around bodies is officially tired” following body shaming comments. Ali Shutler 8th January 2023

Serena Williams, Body Shaming and the White Gaze "This is me, and this is my weapon and machine." Talia Smith 04 June 2018

Serena Williams body shamed by Romanian billionaire, husband Alexis Ohanian defends her in style. Serena Williams was apparently 'body shamed' by a Romanian billionaire who said her weight and age did not allow her to move easily in Tennis.

Adele: ‘It’s not my job’ to make fans feel better about my weight loss. Ben Cost November 15, 2021 Updated: Jan 07, 2021

Halle Berry Claps Back At Commenter Critizing Her Nude Photo. Alyssa Morin. April 11 2023

Jason Momoa gets body shamed for ‘dad bod’ but fans are having none of it: ‘Go home internet, you are drunk.’ Hindustan Times, New Delhi | HT Correspondent July 11, 2019

15 Male Stars Who’ve Been Body Shamed, From Leonardo DiCaprio to Jonah Hill. Women aren’t the only ones in Hollywood who deal with trolls. Ashley

AI is rapidly becoming a dominating presence and the results are downright scary. Covid 19 ushered in a wave of co-dependency on technology that wasn't as frightening as it is now. People are developing romantic relationships with bots--things that are incapable of feeling human emotion. Have we turned the corner of embracing concepts we've seen in movies like the Terminator, I Robot and Demolition Man? I truly hope this behavior doesn't continue. If it does, I don't see a happy ending for anyone who willingly chooses to embrace machines over living, breathing human beings.

Citations:

‘I learned to love the bot’: meet the chatbots that want to be your best friend. Laurie Clarke March 19, 2023

IT HAPPENED TO ME: I had a passionate love affair with a robot. James Greig

'He Would Still Be Here': Man Dies by Suicide After Talking with AI Chatbot, Widow Says. Chloe Xiang

Caitlin Clark Defends Angel Reese, Says She Shouldn’t Be ‘Criticized’ For Gesture Directed Towards Her. Ben Morse, CNN April 5 2023

Recently, LSU's Angel Reese was dragged for making the same hand gesture Iowa's Caitlin Clark previously made during a basketball game. Singer Carrie Underwood was slammed on social media for having 'over the top' legs. Its seems as if women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. Join me as I break down what true female empowerment (and oppression) truly is.

Citations:

How a hand gesture dominated a NCAA title game and revealed a double standard. Rachel Treisman April 3, 2023

Angel Reese dismisses critics of her taunting Caitlin Clark: ‘I love who I am’ Ryan Glasspiegel April 3, 2023

Keith Olbermann sort of apologizes for Angel Reese comments. “It was an apology, just not one that people will be pleased with.” Phillip Bupp 4/03/2023

Jill Biden manages to insult both LSU and Iowa with White House invite idea. First Lady Jill Biden says she wants to invite Iowa to White House along with new national champion LSU. News flash: Women can handle disappointment. Nancy Armour USA TODAY

LSU's Angel Reese defends gesture directed toward Iowa's Caitlin Clark during championship game. Ben Morse, CNN, April 3, 2023

LSU coach reacts to social media attacks on Angel Reese after viral hand gesture.  Randi Richardson April 3 2023

Angel Reese calls first lady Jill Biden’s suggestion of inviting both LSU and Iowa to White House A JOKE Ben Morse CNN April 4th 2023

Carrie Underwood's Muscular Physique Draws Mixed Reactions From Fans. Fans didn't hold back when it came to Underwood's latest look. Devon Forward

‘Euphoria’ Star Barbie Ferreira Denies Walking Off Set and Explains Exit: I Don’t Just Want to Be the ‘Fat Best Friend’ Zack Sharf Mon, April 3, 2023

Xscape's Tamika Scott I Accept LaTocha's Apology ... Now Let's Talk! 4/3/2023

Justine Bateman Has a Powerful Message for Women Who Fear Aging: 'You're Being Lied to.' Brandon Livesay April 3, 2023

Blac Chyna Recalled Her 6- And 10-Year-Old Kids’ Reactions To Her Ongoing Physical Transformation. Leyla Mohammed

Blac Chyna Explained That She Stopped Posting On Her $240M OnlyFans Account For The Sake Of Her Kids. Leyla Mohammed

If there is one thing that never goes out of style, its money. Every year, fraud costs lending agencies and unsuspecting victims millions of dollars in losses.

In the US, hundreds of people went to jail for submitting fraudulent applications and obtaining millions of dollars in PPP loans.

Around the world, people fall for dangerous and twisted romance scams that leave them not only lonely, but penniless.

In this episode, you will learn how not to fall for these scams and keep your money where it belongs--with you!

Citations:

Gigs, scams, ghost work: India tech sector's dark side Sumit Khanna, Rina Chandran

Florida Man Gets 6 Years for PPP Fraud. Jay Weaver. Miami Herald (via TNS). 3/2/2023

New York Woman Sentenced for $9.2 Million COVID-19 Relief Fraud. US Department of Justice Office of Public Affairs. January 27, 2023

Georgia woman who fraudulently collected $6M in PPP loans sentenced to three years. Joseph Guzman. Changing America. Jan. 5, 2022

How Anna Sorokin, Con Artist and 'Fake Heiress,' Fooled New York's Elite. Elena Ferrarin A&E: True Crime Blog. February 23, 2022 UPDATED: June 07, 2022

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