If you've tried exposure therapy for social anxiety and felt like you were just torturing yourself without improvement, this video is for you.
In this video, I cover:
- Why most exposure hierarchies fail for social anxiety
- The 3 critical elements that make exposure actually work
- How to build a belief-targeted exposure ladder (not just situation-based)
- Why your amygdala needs experiences, not logic
- Step-by-step process to create your personalised ladder
I'm an Anxiety Specialist who's spent 12 years helping people overcome social anxiety across almost 10,000 in-person sessions. Research shows exposure therapy has a tremendously high success rate when done properly – but most people do it wrong and end up more discouraged.
The difference? Testing your brain's catastrophic predictions instead of just "getting comfortable" with situations. I'll show you exactly how.
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Introduction: Why exposure therapy often fails
0:45 - The stats on social anxiety
1:30 - Why standard exposure ladders don't work
3:15 - Your amygdala's processing power (and why logic doesn't work)
4:30 - Element 1: Identity-based progression
7:00 - Element 2: Dropping safety behaviours
9:00 - Element 3: Reversing the catastrophe
10:30 - Step-by-step: Building your own ladder
14:00 - Common mistakes to avoid
16:00 - Wrap-up and next steps
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🔗 LINKS:
Social Anxiety Help: https://www.anxiety-specialists.com/social-anxiety