Apes on Tape

Apes on Tape

By Freddo + BenjiSociety & Culture
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Apes on Tape episodes

  • Lets Get Closer

    A thoughtful gift prompts deep discussion about childhood insecurities and overcoming them. From the flow state things that make you forget about time, to the pro’s and cons of being self employed vs having a job, we cover a lot of ground.


    Finally, we talk about a heavy topic: assisted suicide. We share feelings and thoughts, showing that tough subjects can be handled with care.


    Join us for a laid-back, insightful journey through life's big questions.


    If you enjoy today’s episode then please consider sharing with a friend as these conversations can be more beneficial to a wider audience. 


    Contact us at [email protected]


    But most importantly, love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️

    1 hr 14 min
  • Tough Love

    A conversation on honesty, relationships and distance. 


    Benji talks about the joys of his recent holiday with his mum and girlfriend and the challenges of long distance relationships. 


    Freddo talks of having the opposite experience when enveloped in a love bubble with his girlfriend.


    We explore the nature of direct communication and ask why it can feel so uncomfortable sometimes, while remaining crucial for personal growth and resolving conflicts.



    Is it better to be kind than to be right? How do we balance politeness with honesty, and when should we choose one over the other? 


    These timeless questions form the crux of our discussion, infused with a blend of serious introspection and light hearted banter that characterises Apes on Tape conversations.




    1 hr 6 min
  • Mind Over Miles - Christian Hosking

    Pedaling dreams from Argentina to Alaska.


    I was fortunate to recently meet Christian Hosking, who accomplished something truly extraordinary by cycling not only through the rugged terrains of Patagonia and the demanding Alaskan wilderness but also enduring a continuous mental trial.


    Over 18 months, he cycled two continents. Each pedal seemed to bring new challenges and insights, which he shares with me over an informal chat.


    His journey is fascinating and we go on to talk about some great coincidences involving him listening to the entire back catalogue of this podcast on his ride. 


    Check out his YouTube channel : Kooks on Bikes


    https://www.youtube.com/@chosking132


    Get in Touch :

    57 min
  • The Man That Saved My Life - Pete Davies

    Pete was there on the day of my Spinal Cord Injury, playing a pivotal role in the rescue mission after I snowboarded off a cliff. Now, in his second podcast visit, we catch up on life post-accident.


    It's a down-to-earth conversation, full of real talk and reflections on where life has taken us since that fateful day. 


    We share how the accident's ripples have affected us in different ways, discussing personal growth, unexpected challenges, and the twists and turns of life after such a life-changing event.

    41 min
  • Looking back on 2023: The Love Chronicles

    In this special in person episode, Benji shares how he met Roz, and Freddo shares how he met Cris, a pair of equally sweet stories of romance and love ❤️ We share how special the serendipitous journeys running in parallel have multiplied the joy for both of us.


    We share the biggest lessons learned, highlights, lowlights and accomplishments from both of us.


    We also end up in tears at the end when Benji reads a very emotional tribute to his friend Barbara who passed away last year.


    As always, we love to hear your feedback and you can reach us at [email protected]


    Love yourselves and each other! ❤️✌️

    1 hr 5 min
  • 🎄Christmas Special Episode🎄
    “Yule Can’t Handle The Truth”
    Welcome, dear listeners, to another heartfelt episode of apes on tape, where raw conversations intertwine with laughter, exploring the profound tapestry of friendship, mental health, and the quirks that make us human.
    In this week's authentic exchange, Benji vulnerably unfolds the recent loss of a dear friend, unravelling the intricate tapestry of emotions that inevitably accompany such a profound event. Simultaneously, Freddo sheds light on his ongoing struggle with the constraints that winter now imposes, transforming it from the once cherished snowboarding haven into a season marked by personal limitations.
    Yet, amidst the poignant narratives, there's room for laughter. Freddo, ever the storyteller, injects humor into the conversation, weaving in funny anecdotes from recent holidays. And, of course, a podcast with Freddo wouldn't be complete without a classic poo story that will leave you chuckling.
    Throughout the highs and lows, both hosts emphasise the pivotal role close friendship plays, providing a sanctuary for honest conversations. They remind us that authenticity and vulnerability strengthen bonds, creating a safe space where every emotion, be it joy or sorrow, is welcome.
    Jump on board this emotional rollercoaster episode filled with laughter, genuine connection, and the beauty of real conversation.
    1 hr 20 min
  • Forever Young - how to keep your inner child alive
    When a friend of Freddos drops in after a decade of not seeing each other, it offers the perfect opportunity to capture a wonderful conversation about what it is to stay young at heart.
    Ever wondered what revelations come from a mushroom ceremony? We share our insights from a recent one we embarked on just before recording. 
    We even delve into self-love and the secrets to living a happier life.
    There's something for everyone in this heartfelt and candid conversation as we reminisce about favourite memories, from our first psychedelic adventure together, to discussing our personal struggles and how sharing can bring humour and lightness to our challenges.
    Plus, we touch on the art of navigating intrusive questions and finding agency in the face of adversity. This one is not to be missed!
    Whether you're a longtime listener or new to our podcast, we're confident that you'll find something valuable in this episode.
    We love to hear from you, send us your thoughts and feedback to [email protected]
    Until next time, love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️
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    1 hr 33 min
  • From Coincidence to Connection

    In today's conversation, Freddo chat’s with Tom Powell, a dedicated listener of the podcast, who recently reached out with a question about mushroom ceremonies. Little did we know, our connection would lead us to a story too incredible not to share.


    Tom just happened to be there on the day when Freddo snowboarded off a cliff, resulting in a life-altering accident that left him paralysed from the waist down. 


    During our conversation, Tom takes us back to that life-changing day, sharing details that even Freddo didn't know about. 


    But it's not just about the accident; our discussion takes intriguing turns, with the bizarre revelation that NOT wearing a helmet that day, may have just saved Toms life, averting him from the perilous danger that lay ahead.


    From the profound significance of gratitude, to the courage to open up about mental health struggles, this conversation started as a lighthearted exchange but ventured into deeper, more meaningful territory. 


    Whether you're a longtime listener or new to our podcast, we're confident that you'll find something valuable in this episode.


    We love to hear from you, send us your thoughts and feedback to [email protected]


    Until next time, love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️


    1 hr 32 min
  • Benji crashes his car (again)
    Benji recounts another vehicle mishap, leading to a heartwarming tale of community support involving a helpful neighbour with a tractor.
    The conversation takes an intriguing turn when Benji wonders if AI could replicate the profound wisdom of philosopher Alan Watts. Could an AI, armed with Watts' vast catalog of talks, generate new insights and knowledge? Freddo contemplates the possibility that the AI Alan could even surpass the original, sparking a fascinating discussion about the potential of AI and the question of who, if anyone, they would choose to replicate using this technology.
    From the realms of simulation theory to the mind-expanding effects of psychedelics, Benji and Freddo delve deep into thought-provoking topics, fueling their signature style of imaginative exploration.
    Tune in to this episode for misadventures, musings, as we traverse the fascinating landscapes of the mind and the future.
    We love to hear from you, send us your thoughts and feedback
    Love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️
    1 hr 6 min

About Apes on Tape

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A series of conversations between friends, discussing the human experience through thought-provoking discussions, life lessons learned and new ways of thinking.