We all know the frustration of holding onto a grudge. Getting out from underneath it requires choosing forgiveness. It’s a powerful tool that allows us to work through conflict, free from the burden of anger and resentment. It’s a skill we must master and teach to our kids.

Why do we want kids to be good at this? It’s a vital skill that leads to healthy conflict management and better friendships. How do we teach our kids to forgive? Try these three steps:

1. Define it.

We like to say that forgiveness is deciding that someone who has wronged you doesn’t have to pay.   

2. Acknowledge feelings.

It’s totally normal to be hurt and angry when someone has wronged you, but holding onto that pain can impact you and your relationship.

3. Lead by Example.

Dad, you have to show them the way on this one. Don’t assume they’ll just figure it out. Model it! 

 Today’s Pro Move: Model forgiveness.  

Helping your kid define forgiveness helps them to give forgiveness. Talk to your child about the definition of forgiveness. Remind them that God forgave us. 

Other resources: 

10 Ways to Teach Your Children How to Forgive 

 Forgiveness is Not What You Think

5 Reasons People Don’t Forgive

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