Dating is just flat out difficult. But, it’s even harder when you’ve been carrying around some self-sabotaging habits your whole life. This week, Kristen and Jolenta meet Ari, who at 40 is ready to settle down and meet someone — but he’s worried that he’ll just end up alone with his cat.

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