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There is a saying that we as humans are the harshest critics to ourselves when it comes to seeing and seeking self-value. Adding in external voices from others, it can get a bit much and cloud our judgement in how we see ourselves.

But we also have to remember that we are also our own biggest cheerleaders too. If we can’t stand up for ourselves when we need it the most or see our own worth. The reality is that sometimes no one will come save us but ourselves.

So today we wanted to share some moments where we’ve questioned our own worth, how we’ve worked through our struggles when external validation can be louder than self worth and how we worked through to understand our value again. We both uncover why valuing ourselves more can lead to a more fulfilling, balanced life, and how we can start shifting our mindset to do so.

We know that there are days where it can be a struggle and we all have our phases and we’re here to say that it’s okay. We’ve been through it too.

Hopefully this episode brings some great perspectives and some inspiration for you to keep going and to keep believing in yourself. Even if other people don’t. We’re here for you!

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We're grateful to our listeners for choosing this week's topic: relationship shifts. It gave us a chance to reflect on our own relationship and it unexpectedly turned into a couple's therapy session!

In this episode, we open up and look back on our time together. We explore how time naturally brings changes and shifts in relationships, sharing our personal experiences to show that it's all completely normal. We also discuss how we've worked through these changes.

No going to lie—there have been some not so glamorous moments. But these bumps in the road have only made us a stronger couple.

We even talk about one of our recent hurdles that we're currently working through too.

As we explore these changes together, we've found that it can lead to therapeutic moments, ultimately strengthening our bond.

If you want to hear the inside scoop from a couple who's been through it for over a decade, or if you're just curious to hear a different perspective from another couple's journey throughout their relationship, then this episode is for you!

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When you’re someone who loves variety and a jam packed day of tasks, burnout can still happen. So the big question is, how people like that find “work life balance” with a busy lifestyle stay happy and fulfilled?

We asked this question to Raynard Liew (a.k.a Malaizai 馬來仔) all the way from Hong Kong. A B2B tech sales professional by day and also a fitness junkie by heart along with many other goals he’s striving to achieve.

He brings such a different perspective to the common concept of finding work life balance. Instead he mentions that we need to look for work life fulfilment and that struck a cord with us!

Ray explains his concept of how:

All these that helps blend work and play and make life so much more enjoyable.

A conversation to help us all truly enjoy everything we do without feeling overwhelmed. Forget work-life balance, let's talk work-life fulfilment!

About Ray Liew

Ray is a seasoned B2B tech sales professional with deep experience in Data and AI. He also co-hosts the "Talk Lah" podcast, exploring the journeys of successful millennials.

On the side he’s also passionate about building a community around Fitness and Mindset via his social media following, @malaizai_fitness.

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No but really, does everything actually have to happen for a reason? It’s something we hear a lot of people say especially after a difficult events, big decision or random change.

But today we really want to go in deep and peel back the layers to understand how we find meaning or reasoning behind some of our life’s events (big and small).

Does everything HAVE to have a reason or is it a choice that we put a reason behind something that’s occurred and how does this tie into mindset?

Join us as we also bring in different perspectives from different cultures and philosophers who’ve put these concepts into place for centuries! Think:

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Lack of communication doesn’t have to happen only in conflict or arguments. There are so many other situations where it can happen before it even reaches that point. But there is no doubt that communication in a relationship is so important.

So this week, we explore the subtle reasons behind communication breakdowns in relationships, beyond the usual arguments.

Factors like misunderstandings, unspoken expectations, and differences in communication styles that can often create distance between partners.

Join us as we discuss, how we identify these silent barriers and improve connection in our relationship. How we picked up signs and worked through better communication over the years.

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Why does it feel so uncomfortable to step into the unknown even when we know that it could potentially benefit ourselves?

Today we dive into our personal thoughts on the comfort zone, discussing whether we embrace it or if we run away from it?

And within it all, what is it deep inside that stops us from leaving our comfort zone.

We both get vulnerable discussing our experiences and challenges that we face or have faced.

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Just like everyone, we have our own quirks, things that we do differently. But we want to discuss, are we holding ourselves back from being our true selves just because we don’t want others to see our differences.

Both of us have gone through our phases of not wanting to stand out, not wanting to look too different. So this week we’re going to go through things we’ve held ourselves back on because we didn’t want to stand out.

Also discussing how our Asian upbringing has influenced our thoughts and decisions too.

If you’ve also felt like you needed to conform to what society calls ‘normal’ and felt like you were holding yourself back. This is the episode for you and we’re here to encourage you to just. be. you.

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Letting go and moving on, are they one of the same or is there one you have to go through first before you can do the other. Can we move forward in life without fully letting go of the past?

Throughout our lives, we are often faced with situations, decisions and people where we will have to let them go or they let us go. Whether dealing with a breakup, a major life change, or simply trying to grow. These are events in our lives that teach us our understandings of processing the concept of letting go and moving on.

So today we are going to go through our personal stories where we’ve let go, discuss the differences with moving on and also talk about the process.

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We have been asked by you’s on how relationships naturally evolve over time and discuss practical tips for maintaining intimacy through these changes.

If you know us by now, we’re advocates of how maintaining relationships stem MORE than just the 2 people in that relationship. This week we’re going to talk our underrated ways we think has helped us build and kept an intimidate relationship over the many years (and our answers aren’t what you’d typically think 😜).

Whether you're navigating new phase of the relationship or simply want to strengthen your connection. We'll share our personal insights to help you keep your relationship strong and fulfilled.

Share us know what you do and what has helped you maintain or strengthen your relationship with your loved one!

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Imagine going from ICN body building pro champion, being the fittest and best physique of your life. Then having all that taken from you just months after.

This is something An Nguyen experienced 8 years ago. Sharing a startling, eye opening story with us all on his journey with an Autoimmune disease called NMO (Neuromyelitis optica spectrum disorder).

Not only does he share such an inspiring story about his journey, but he shares so many humbling messages which we all need to hear. Life is short and once your life is faced with health issues. You really start to prioritise things that really matter to you.

We are so thankful for him also sharing how he’s changed as a person after this health challenge as well. Not an easy thing to do to be so open and honest about some of the deepest darkest thoughts.

This week An shares:

Such an amazing, resilient and humble guy, doing so many amazing things even while still battling health challenges.

If you have any questions for An or would love to send him a message, you can find him on Anthestics where he does fitness & mindset coaching!

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