Anonymous is in her late twenties and is a mother of an 18 month old baby. She was with the father of her child for about three years but the relationship was toxic and after she gave birth she broke up with her partner and moved out of his family home. 

Months after the break up she went back to the house to fetch her things, and this is when she met her ex’s new girlfriend. The new girlfriend then offered to support her child. 

They continued to chill and the new girlfriend then kissed anonymous and they ended up having sex. 

She’s now confused by her relationship with the new girlfriend, who’s supporting her child, however she’s worried about their relationship being transactional.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for two years now and during that they moved in together and built a house together. 

A couple of months after they bought the house, her partner started behaving differently, going out more and having fun with friends. Anonymous addressed his changed behaviour, he agreed to spend more time at home but it’s been going on for months now. 

Her partner disappeared over the long weekend which caused a rift between them once again. Her partner has now told her that he still wants to have fun and doesn’t want to live like an old married couple. 

Anonymous is not sure how to interpret this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2017 and they got married in 2019, she adds that he was a virgin when they met in their late twenties. 

Her problem is in the bedroom as he struggles to pleasure her and when she tries to find out what he likes, he’s not sure. 

Anonymous has tried many different things to get them on the same page sexually, but their sex life has not been improving.

Anonymous has been with her partner, guy no.1, for about 4 years now and things were fine until he lost his job and it created a burden on their relationship. 

She started noticing things about his treatment of her, realising that he often body shames her and is always speaking down to her. 

She has now started dating other people: guy no.2, who’s married and has said he doesn’t mind marrying anonymous as a second wife, and guy no.3, who she’s also having a good time with currently but is not sure if it’s just vibes or something more serious.

Anonymous and her fiancé have been in a relationship for over a decade now and live together with two of their children, including her child, from a previous relationship, and a child they have together. Her fiancé also had a child with someone else while they already in a relationship. 

Her problem is how her partner sometimes speaks to her, she feels that he can be very insensitive & harsh towards her. They have also cheated on each other in the past and that keeps coming up in their arguments. 

Anonymous her partner basically struggle when it comes to communication.

Anonymous broke up with his partner a few months ago, after five years together, because she cheated on him with a guy she had a history with. 

He feels as though things became problematic in their relationship after he lost his job and couldn’t provide for them anymore. 

Some time has gone by since the break-up and he’s wondering if he let go of the relationship too easily, he doesn’t want to rekindle the relationship, but he lost so much of himself in it and he is struggling to move forward.

Anonymous broke up with the father of her child 5 years ago after he cheated on her and impregnated another woman. 

He didn’t support their child after their break-up, and only started doing so after their child turned three. He’s now back in their lives and wants to get back together with anonymous after the lady he cheated on her with cheated on him. 

Anonymous is open to officially getting back together with him but her biggest struggle with this is accepting the child he had with the other woman, and that woman’s accessibility to him as the mother of his other child.

Anonymous met her partner in January this year and says their relationship has been great, he ticks all the boxes and she feels quite comfortable being herself around him. 

This past weekend while they were at gathering with friends, she caught him on a video call with another lady who was complaining that he doesn’t make time for her anymore. 

Anonymous’ partner says it’s someone he dated before who’s struggling to let him go, their relationship faded but they are still in communication.

Anonymous has been with his partner for the last 6 years, a year ago she moved overseas for a new job and to further her studies. 

He says communication between them was great at the start of her period away, but over the last six months the communication has not been as regular as it used to be, mostly because she keeps claiming that she’s too tired to chat. 

She’ll be coming back soon, but anonymous is worried that she might come back a changed woman, as she’ll also be earning way more than him. He’s anticipating the worst and doesn’t know what to do. 

Anonymous is in her early 40s and is a mother of three. 

She’s in the dating market and says she tends to attract much younger men, and thinks it’s because of her younger looking appearance. 

The younger men sexually fulfil her more than the older men that she’s dated, and while this is great for her sexual appetite, she wants to get into a more serious relationship and feels like the younger guys are more about fun and not building a solid relationship. 

Anonymous also wants to be with someone her teenage children can respect.