#AskAMan

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall. 

She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner. 

Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall. 

She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner. 

Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now after knowing each other at work for about 3 years as friends, as she was in a relationship at the time.

They started dating well after she broke up with the father of her child. They agreed to have a child together from the beginning of their relationship, but they’ve struggled to conceive. 

He cheated on her with another lady starting late last year and that lady is now pregnant.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after coming out of a 13-year relationship that produced two children. 

This weekend, when she happened to be using his phone, she found voice notes from some other lady that were suspicious, she got angry and hit her partner. 

She comes from a toxic and violent background which she thinks has led to her aggressive behaviour towards her partner. 

She’s hit her partner on two separate occasions and feels terrible about this. She doesn’t want to continue reacting this way and wonders how she can fix herself and repair their relationship.