#AskAMan

Anonymous has been with her husband for 6 years now and they have two children together. 

Her partner started acting off towards her about 3 years ago and then at some point he even stopped sleeping in their room without much of an explanation. 

He eventually opened up to anonymous and revealed that he wasn’t comfortable around her as he felt like she has bad energies and those energies are affecting him spiritually, going as far as calling her a witch. 

They are now separated, after she moved out of their home. He wants her back but anonymous says he’s not addressing his spiritual issues, as he’s not even speaking to his family and thinks everyone around him wants to dim his spirit.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for seven years now and they have two children together. 

She found out that he was cheating on her last year but she forgave him after he made an effort to win her back, and they are now engaged. 

Things have now gotten weird in their relationship and he has become sexually avoidant. She’s not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since the beginning of last year and they have one child together. 

They moved in together, six months into their relationship, and her partner’s brother also moved in with them. 

Her partner has other two other children that live else where, however, her partner has now suggested that one of his children move in with them but she’s worried about the financial impact of this as they currently live on his salary, with some support from his brother. 

Anonymous has a large package and it’s causing trouble in his love life. 

The women he likes never want to continue being in a relationship with him because of their sexual experience with him. However, the women he meets at bars for fun enjoy his larger size but he’s not interested in a lot of them. 

Anonymous wants to know how to deal with this. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2016 and after two years of dating they decided to have a baby, and they ended up having twins. 

Her partner questioned the paternity of the twins, they got a paternity test done and it was confirmed that they are his children. Anonymous felt disrespected by him and ended their relationship, after months of tension in their relationship as a result of the questions regarding the paternity of the children. 

Seven months after they broke up, she found out that he had gotten married to someone else post their break-up, she confronted him about this but it ended up with them having an affair and having another child. 

He now wants to introduce anonymous and their children to his wife so that they can have a healthy relationship. She doesn’t know what to read into this. 

Anonymous is ten years younger than his partner, she has three children and he has one daughter. 

He would like to have more children of his own, however, she can’t physically bare more children and he would like to have a male child of his own who will carry his legacy. 

He loves his partner and appreciates her contribution to his personal & professional development, however, this is a major drawback of staying in this relationship. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago. 

Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household. 

She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous wonders if his complaints about her lack of support are valid. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 8 years and have been married for two of those years. 

Her husband cheated on her with 7 different women, she reported this to their families, they resolved it and they’ve now moved on with their relationship.

She started using PrEP to protect herself she’s now in an interim and they need to use condoms, but her husband is refusing to do this.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 7 years now and they have a child together.

It’s been rocky in their relationship with infidelity happening on both sides. At some point they addressed this situation in their relationship, forgave each other and decided to move forward in their relationship. 

However, she feels like their relationship is not the same anymore after all they’ve been through. They both want to make it work, but currently it seems to not be going anywhere.