Anonymous says she’s been with her current partner for 5 years and says he’s a great partner and takes care of her, and he’s even paid lobola for her. 

Anonymous says her problem is she feels a void in her relationship, and says there’s no spark and passion, it’s just boring. Anonymous says she likes him but doesn’t think he’s the one. 

Anonymous says one of the issues in their relationship is that they don’t have a good communication. 

Anonymous is not sure if she should fight for the relationship or just break up with him.

Anonymous says she met her current husband when they were in high school, but they couldn’t really be together at the time. Anonymous says over the years they’d meet up and hook up, but never really became official. 

Anonymous says they went their separate ways at some point and during that time she  had a baby with someone else. Anonymous says they eventually got together and they got married. 

Anonymous says her partner used to cheat on her a lot with different people, and says she initially brushed it off as something men do, but as time went by it became too much for her, and she separated from her husband.

Anonymous says he’s been asking her to forgive him for a while now, and she’s not sure if she should get back together with him.

Anonymous says he met a lady in 2023 and their relationship was soaring until the father of her child, who wasn’t present when anonymous met the lady, came back into the picture last December.

Anonymous says the lady started communicating more with the father of her child at that point. Anonymous says the lady then attend a family funeral after the the father of her child’s brother past away. This led to the lady rekindling things with the father of her child and she essentially got back together with him.

Anonymous says he and his girlfriend started dating in 2018 and he says he was clear from the onset that he wants to have a child, she was ok with that only if they got married first, something anonymous says he wasn’t ready for. 

Anonymous says years later he started having an affair with one of his partner’s friends and that went on secretly for a while. Anonymous says he brought up having a child again, and again his girlfriend said no and told him he could go outside and impregnate someone else. 

Anonymous says after the fight with his girlfriend, he slept with the friend without protection and she fell pregnant with his child. 

Anonymous says he confessed this to his partner and after meeting with her family they ended up breaking things off, but anonymous has now managed to patch things up with his girlfriend who says she’ll only get back together with him on one condition…

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 6 years, they have a child together and she came into their relationship with another child.

Anonymous her partner is terrible with money and doesn’t include her in his financial decisions when he has money. 

Anonymous says before he lost his job and didn’t have money, he would go out partying with friends and would cheat on her, but come back crying for forgiveness. 

Anonymous says he’s now unemployed and broke and his behaviour has changed, he’s a better partner, shows her love and things are generally good. 

Anonymous is worried that once he’s back on his feet, he’ll go back to his old ways and she’s no sure if she should leave him even though things are great right now.

Anonymous says she met a guy while working at a religious organisation years ago and something developed between them but before anything could happen the guy told anonymous that they couldn’t be together due to his position in the organisation. 

Anonymous says the guy married someone else about a year later after he told her they couldn’t be. By the time he got married, anonymous had already moved to another province because of work. 

Anonymous says she also got married, and after some time the guy contacted anonymous and told her that he missed her and was sorry for everything that happened. 

Anonymous says he told her that he was willing to divorce his wife for her but he couldn’t because of his position. Anonymous says they met up and their relationship got sexual but the guy started avoiding her after this. 

Anonymous says it’s been a year since he started ignoring her, but she’s struggling to get over him.

Anonymous says she met a guy a month ago and they immediately hit things off. Anonymous says three days into the relationship she snooped around and found out from one her friends that the guy is dating one of her friends in their neighbourhood. 

Anonymous says she confronted him about this, however, they’ve continued to date as she says he won’t let her go. Anonymous says she also wants to break things off with him because he might be involved in dodgy businesses. 

Anonymous says she also has another guy that she dated previously, who she really likes, but he is married.  

Anonymous says dating is showing her flames and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for about 5 years, they live together and he’s even paid lobola partially.

Anonymous says his partner was pregnant at some point but unfortunately she had a stillbirth. Anonymous says things changed in their relationship from this point. Anonymous says she started drinking and partying more, and would blame anonymous for her stillbirth.

Anonymous says he broke things off with her because it was too much but got back together with her months later after she asked him to forgive her. 

Anonymous says she continued to be messy and he has now moved out again. Anonymous says he loves her and still wants to be with her but he’s not sure if it can work between them.

Anonymous says she met her partner in late 2023, she says they started as friends and it eventually turned into a romantic relationship.

Anonymous says from the onset, they were honest with each other, had great communication and even shared about their past relationship traumas.  

Anonymous says things have now taken a turn in their relationship after she found suspicious texts between him and another lady on his phone. Anonymous says she confronted him about this, he said they would talk about it, but that’s never happened. 

Anonymous says the communication in their relationship has broken down and she doesn’t understand where they are at in their relationship. 

Anonymous just wants him to be open and honest with her so she can better understand what’s happening between them.