Attractively Different Podcast

It's happened to all of us … our results get hijacked by our emotions.

When this happens it can be difficult to build momentum and achieve the results that they want and desire. The loss of moment requires that you continually motivate yourself to "do better". Yet, doing better only last for a short amount of time only to just to fall off again.

This is can be an endless cycle and a far cry from being the purpose of life. In fact, this cycle tends to produce shame and disappointment because you're not living up to the expectations of others or your own potential.

In today's episode we discuss how you can take back the control from your emotions and stay on course to succeeding in your life purpose. Learn how you can develop the maturity to get curious about your emotions and make the changes necessary to live a full life.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

The purpose of testing is to ensure quality and consistency.

We've all had jobs or responsibilities that we didn't take seriously, and we went through the motions instead of fully investing ourselves into the job. It's tempting to hold the thought that we'll take the job more seriously when it means more. We'll look to the next promotion and believe that the promotion will bring a deeper level of satisfaction. This is natural and commonplace but it's not God's process.

In today's episode we discuss God's testing process and what needs to be passed in order to step into your God-given assignment. God clearly outlines the requirements to pass the test, but the enemy is out to cause you to fail. He does not want you to succeed in your assignment because he knows that it will enhance God's kingdom. Listen as we outline God's test for your promotion and the mindset that you need to embrace to step into your assignment.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

Life feels constricting and unsafe when we don't feel the acceptance of others.

We all define "acceptance" in different ways. Some manage attempt to find acceptance by being dominant any taking control. Others manage emotions by being passive and flexible. Others manage them being available and continually serving. Yet, all these actions create an environment where you're not showing up genuinely, and get stuck in this cycle of "performing" so that you will stay safe. However, staying in this performance mode prevents you from walking in your life purpose.

In today's episode, we discuss the reason why these behaviors prevent you from showing up authentically in your relationships.  We all desire to show up in a way that is genuine, and we also want to be loved and accepted for our inherent value. Learn the mindset shift that allows you the freedom to no longer feel the need to "perform" a certain way or do all the right things. It empowers you to operate within your design and fully function in the assignment that God has for you.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

This is episode second of two episodes with Watts of Love Founder Nancy Economou.

Watts of Love intentionally seeks out the most vulnerable people in the developing world, who live without access to electrical light and provides them with solar lights. They have developed an intentionally designed a financial literacy program where they invest in educating and empowering the light recipients so there is an immediate, tangible impact from DAY ONE.

Financial independence is a foreign concept to those living in extreme poverty. Watts of Love emphasizes the importance of compound savings and of redirecting funds to buy an animal, start a business or send their child to school. By breaking the cycle of dependency on costly and dangerous kerosene, they teach people how to invest in their families, start a path to economic prosperity, break old perceptions of what is possible and see the potential for a new life.

Nancy shares how she did not have a background in business and had no understanding on how to start a company. Instead, she was a stay-at-home mother  and  spent her time nurturing and caring for her family. As a mother, Nancy exhibited compassion and empathy.

Nancy was able to develop a user-friendly, solar-powered lamp that can be used in any environment to bring light to those oppressed by real and metaphorical darkness. Through Watts of Love, Nancy has found communities in desperate need of light and gives them hope. She became a voice for the voiceless.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

Previous Episodes referenced

This is episode one of two with Watts of Love Founder Nancy Economou. 

Watts of Love intentionally seeks out the most vulnerable people in the developing world, who live without access to electrical light and provides them with solar lights. They have developed an intentionally designed a financial literacy program where they invest in educating and empowering the light recipients so there is an immediate, tangible impact from DAY ONE. 

Financial independence is a foreign concept to those living in extreme poverty. Watts of Love emphasizes the importance of compound savings and of redirecting funds to buy an animal, start a business or send their child to school. By breaking the cycle of dependency on costly and dangerous kerosene, they teach people how to invest in their families, start a path to economic prosperity, break old perceptions of what is possible and see the potential for a new life.

Nancy shares how she did not have a background in business and had no understanding on how to start a company. Instead, she was a stay-at-home mother  and  spent her time nurturing and caring for her family. As a mother, Nancy exhibited compassion and empathy. 

Nancy was able to develop a user-friendly, solar-powered lamp that can be used in any environment to bring light to those oppressed by real and metaphorical darkness. Through Watts of Love, Nancy has found communities in desperate need of light and gives them hope. She became a voice for the voiceless. 

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

What are the obstacles that are standing between you and fulfilling your life purpose? What words do you use to describe them, and how do they make you feel?

In today's episode we discuss how the words you use to describe your obstacles indicate what you believe about yourself. If you say that something is impossible it indicates that your believe you lack what is necessary. If you say that you're facing a giant then there may be a belief that you are small, weak, or insignificant. The opposite is also true … if you say that your challenges are "doable" then you believe you have what it takes.

Bottom line … how you perceive the world is how you perceive yourself.

What are you saying about your obstacles and what does it tell you about how you see yourself? Because if you hold the belief that you're not enough, don't have what it takes, or are severely lacking then your action will be limited and you'll risk missing the purpose of life.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

When was the last time you witnessed excellence and what was it that made it excellent? Excellence can show up in a variety of ways but we all know it when we see it.

In today's episode we discuss how pursuing a life of excellence creates clarity, and how staying in your comfort zone actually perpetuates confusion. Excellence is in our DNA because we're made in the image of God, but listening to the narrative of society will pull us away from excellent. Invariably it's easy and comfortable to settle for above average and not whole heartedly pursue our life purpose.

The purpose of life is not about settling , but we chose to settle for above average feels safe and comfortable. Yet, it can breed feelings of shame, resentment, and judgment toward others. Instead of fighting these negative feelings, what if they were just indicators of where you need to go? What if they were like road signs making the path clear to a life that will bring glory to the kingdom of God?

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

What are the barriers that are stopping you from reaching your goals and life purpose?

Labels…

In today's episode we discuss how the labels you identify with create the limitations in your life. These labels are given to you as child from peers, teachers, parents, etc. Wearing these labels can be exhausting and leads to weariness that causes you to falter in your progress. Friend, you'll never live into the true potential when you continually carry the limiting labels.

Your creator has also given you labels that set limitations. Your creator calls you friend, chosen, son/daughter, heir, king/queen, righteous, blessed, a new creation, etc … and Jesus said that through Him all things are possible. His limitations are truly limitless.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

Life is supposed to be hard … RIGHT? I mean, isn't that the purpose of life? For it to be hard and unfair?

Weeeeeellll, let's talk about that.

In today's episode we discuss why knowing your life purpose is so important to valuing your time. This is for you if you find yourself continually convincing yourself that you need to be more motivated in your work. You know you have great potential but are stuck in the cycle where you keep oscillating back and forth from trying harder to just going through the motions.

This is exhausting and creates a weariness in us where we're just looking to get out; we're looking to stop. And when we're looking to stop we're not truly valuing the time. Friend, you'll never live into the true potential stuck in this cycle where you're convincing yourself to do better and be more grateful.

Be encouraged and find hope in how you are created. Only the creator can know the true intent and purpose of their creation. Stop letting the crowds assign your purpose and value … which only leads to dissatisfaction. God created you for a life that is free and full.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources:

How are results thriving in the environment of your comfort zone? Too warm… too cold … or just right?

In today's episode, I want to talk about how our mind acts like a thermostat to keep us in our comfort zone. Our brain needs about 20% of all the energy we consume to function. Since it requires so much energy, it naturally wants to be efficient and preserve it's energy and use the least amount of energy possible. Therefore, it creates habits to help conserve energy. Which means that our brain is automatically predisposed to the comfort zone.

A life of excellence begins with training the mind. We discuss practical ways in which you can train your brain that promotes better memory, creativity, and focus. Training your brain allows you to be more adaptable to handle the stressors of life.

Key Takeaways:

Additional Resources: