In today’s episode, we’re joined by your favorite disabled hottie, Nila, as she exudes confidence and unapologetic self-love! We dive into Nila’s journey of embracing who she is, starting from high school and evolving through college, where she learned to own her identity despite the negative opinions surrounding her openness on social media.

Nila breaks down her fashion journey—how she discovered her unique sense of style—and shares tips on owning your look with confidence. We also get real about dating, discussing how men often overlook or discount disabled women, and why it’s crucial to be open about your sexuality, no matter how uncomfortable it might make others. Nila confidently speaks on the freedom that comes with owning your true self, regardless of societal judgments.

This episode also touches on the importance of surrounding yourself with loving, supportive friends as you grow older. Nila brings humor and warmth as she talks about her favorite places to shop, a hilarious story about returning shoes and the excuse she gave, and so much more that had us in stitches.

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Join us for our first episode since our exciting reunion in Dallas! 🎉 We’re spilling more untold stories from our unforgettable weekend together. In this episode, we share our favorite makeup and fragrance choices from the trip and share our top tips for applying various types of makeup and beauty techniques.

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BDBU live and in effect! The whole team checked in. On October 4th-6th, we attended the Living Beyond Limits conference in Dallas and the whole team came into town. We speak about our time at the conference up to that point, shout out staff at the hotel and our Uber drivers, and share the excitement with you of meeting up. Hit play on this one!

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We’ve got an incredible episode featuring Kisha's own doula, Angela, who played a vital role in the delivery of her youngest. Angela joins us to share her journey into the world of doulas, her extensive experience working with people with disabilities, and some behind-the-scenes insights into Kisha’s pregnancy journey. She opens up about what inspired her to become a doula, the challenges that come with the profession, and the parts she’s not particularly fond of. We also dive into the special bond she’s built with her clients, the invaluable tips she offers for preparing for delivery, and the hardest aspects of being a doula.

Angela’s wealth of knowledge and support for the disabled community is truly remarkable, and we are so thankful for the incredible work she’s doing for moms everywhere. Tune in to hear Kisha share her pregnancy journey and the heartwarming conversation with her doula, Angela.

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Let’s talk pregnancy! Kristin Revere, owner of Gold Coast Doulas and co-author of 'Supported: Your Guide to Birth and Baby', sits down with us to discuss all things related to doulas. We cover their responsibilities and the support they offer during pregnancy, as well as the various types of doulas available. This episode puts focus on topics such as preparing both partners for the arrival of a baby, the significance of having a birth plan in place before labor begins, and the typical costs associated with doula services. Kristin also shares how she integrates specialized disability training for her team to better serve clients with different needs.

Kristin Revere is the co-author of 'Supported: Your Guide to Birth and Baby' and the founder of Gold Coast Doulas, a top-rated birth and postpartum doula agency in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Her book offers modern families practical guidance on everything from preparing for pregnancy and building a support team to navigating parental leave and managing infant feeding and sleep. Co-author Alyssa Veneklase, an elite doula and sleep consultant, also brings her expertise to the book.

Gold Coast Doulas offers a wide range of services, including doula support, lactation consultations, and postpartum care. The agency is highly respected, earning recognition as a Certified B Corporation and winning several awards as a women-owned business. They also specialize in inclusive care, offering support for those with disabilities.

'Supported' is available in multiple formats, including an audiobook, ensuring its accessibility to all parents. Kristin is also the co-host of the Ask the Doulas Podcast, where she discusses key topics around birth, postpartum care, and interviews experts in this field.

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All 4 of us are popping out to the 2024 Living Beyond Limits Conference on 10/04/2024-10/05/2024!

Melva Henderson, the mastermind behind the 501(c)(3) 'Living Beyond Limits,' has made it her mission to empower the blind and visually impaired community through education, training, and advocacy. As someone who lost her sight to pseudotumor cerebri, Melva understands the challenges that come with vision loss, and she channels her life experiences to lead an organization that offers mentoring, social networking, and resources to help others live beyond the limitations society may impose.

In this episode, Melva shares with us all the details for the conference all of us are going to be attending October 4-5, 2024, her story of going blind, losing her parents soon after fully losing her vision, the inspiration behind 'Living Beyond Limits,' and founding an organization that advocates for independence and personal growth. With over ten years of experience, Melva's work has been recognized at state and national levels, including her role on the Texas State Independent Living Council.

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**YouTube**: Living Beyond Limits YouTube Channel

**Facebook**: Living Beyond Limits Facebook Page

**Instagram**: Living Beyond Limits Instagram

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Pumpkin spice, deviled eggs, Halloween, trick-or-treating, candy corn—fall is officially here, and we're diving into everything we love (and don’t) about the season! 🍁 In this cozy episode, we share our favorite (and least favorite) fall traditions, from trick-or-treating as blind parents to how we decorate and prep our homes for the holiday season. Plus, we debate the ultimate question: ham or turkey for Thanksgiving? 🦃🥓 Spoiler alert: we’re team ham! 😉

We also reminisce about past Halloween costumes, big family dinners, and all the ways we make autumn feel magical. 🍁✨ How do you get ready for fall? Share your traditions with us, and don’t forget to hit play on this fun-filled episode! 🍂🎧

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We were due for a fun episode! This time, we explore the scariest corners of the internet. Discover how technologies like Be My AI/Aira helped read pregnancy tests and hear the intriguing tale of a blind woman using Be My Eyes to catch her partner’s affair. We also dive into the question on whether men love more than women—a topic that never fails to spark a little something. Packed with laughter, shared insights, and riveting discussions, this episode promises to entertain and enlighten. Don’t miss out—press play and join the adventure!

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In the final installment of our back-to-school series, we're diving deep into the world of youth sports and extracurricular activities. From meeting the coaches and handling unexpected fees in public schools to the importance of enrolling your child in swimming, we are sharing all of the experiences. We also explore the practical aspects like familiarizing yourself with gym layouts, locating restrooms, and navigating snack stands. Plus, we tackle the intense competitiveness of some parents, transportation logistics, and the reality of endless practice sessions. Join us as we cover all this and much more, ensuring you're fully prepared for the busy season ahead.

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Join us for Part 2 of our Back to School series, featuring Jessica, a blind mom who has spent the majority of her teaching career in a mainstream high school, with an early stint in elementary education. In this episode, Jessica discusses the contrast between teaching younger children and high school students, her strategies for managing classroom behavior—especially concerning cell phone use, how she introduces her blindness to her students, and the recognition of the mentor who gave her a chance. If you're interested in understanding what it's like to teach in a public school as a blind educator, this is the episode for you!

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